Biting Fetish?

 

QUESTION:

On Sunday, January 31, 2021 This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. wrote:

My Dear M Sharina, 

Is there such thing as a biting fetish? I have someone who what’s to bite me all the time .  I mean sink her teeth in my skin. 
Particularly my ass and nose; she wants to bite it .  She says the shape and texture makes her want to bite it .  I can’t draw an opinion or judge it because I have a foot fetish.  Like you said ; people would think why would anyone want to suck toes or kiss heels etc.  
im sure you have seen it all so I’m asking .  As funny as it may sound .., she really wants to bite .. it hurts .
Runaway runaway

ANSWER:
Great question, and yes, there is a biting fetish, but I will say, if the skin is broken, since there are a myriad of germs in the mouth, you could get quite an infection so be aware of that.

Now, if you're being bit, are they nibbles? Could you enjoy that? If it's more of a hard bite, although you may not completely enjoy that from a person, you may enjoy the endorphins from it. It could be it's "where" the person bites that may make it less desirable or more pleasurable. Probably not, but just exploring all the possibilities. Without possibilities,  where would we be?

I suppose she could coerce you...tease you with her foot, while you kiss, suck and lick hers, she bites your soles. Win/Win?
However,  if you're really not into it, you'll get to be honest with her. This will be a boundary and she will either understand or she won't. You see, a foot fetish with the usual adoration does not include pain. People process pain differently and if you're not into pain OR "that kind of stimulation," then you're not into it. No apologies necessary. All play needs to adhere to the credo, CONSENSUAL at the very least. Not everyone is into discomfort, but you can find a cohesive nirvana together. Communication is important between those exploring kink.

Now, although I could never introduce someone new to CANING by immediately whacking away on their bottom, I could begin by placing the cane on their bottom to familiarize them with it. With a few light taps, begin to coerce a lovely warmth, then to touch, and feel the bottom...romancing the best feeling so more is wanted. .

So, if you need to say, "Not my thing," explore options first, then you can feel comfortable saying,  "Hey, I gave it a shot, and it's just not my thing."
Then, go to the store, buy a bag of those harder marshmallowy orange slices and see if that subsides her craving for chewing on flesh. 🥰

M Sharina