Mistress Sharina Nicole's Blog: Friendly Notes to Keep You Posted During Covid-19

This will be a running archive of comments & notations during the Covid-19 / Coronavirus Pandemic.

04/14/2023 UPDATE
"Put me up in the big gurl bewbs! . . . "

I had so many wonderful sessions this past week (as you may have read a little about in my social media Twitter X.) Left me on such a high with some of the strangest dreams. I cannot remember all of them, but I recall this weird black speed cycle. I was riding it through several courses in a huge health club. I kept getting lost and finding myself on the upper deck of some room with a long flight of stairs. I thought nothing of flying my bike down the stairs from way up high.  They call that astral-projection and you can do it in your dreams. So, the trainer below was a physical therapist who said to me, "You know that's not good for your temporal process." When I woke up, I looked it up on Google and found in Wikipedia the definition of The temporal styloid process is a slender bony process of the temporal bone extending downward and forward from the under surface of the temporal bone[1] just below the ear. Oddly enough, I've been having a bit of vertigo...

I do believe life speaks to us through dreams and music, movies and art. If you listen close enough to it, you will get messages. I don't mean this in a woo woo weird kind of way. I mean this in a way much like the continuum of life that everything in life is connected.

I'll give you an example. You overhear someone on an elevator talking to another person. It hits you. You are affected by what was said. You remember it. You never meet but are connected.

Recently, as you know, I lost two of my cherished guys. My sweet Mr. B died in his 90's. He saw me a few months ago for the last time. He was driving to see me up until the time he died. He LOVED my cage in THE PANIC Room.

"Sarah" died recently from 5th stage kidney failure. I communicated with him while he was in a hospital in another State. I knew he knew the time was near. We joked,  I sent him candy striper pictures and we reminisced. In the middle of it, he said, "Thank you for everything." It was oddly placed in a sentence...but he knew, and then I knew it would be our last times together I'm very sad about it. I think of them often. They both made my life brighter with who they were in this life.  Mr. B was an infant soul. Innocent, followed the rules without question and when I think of him, I think about how pure and sweet he was. "Sarah" was energetic and throughout life, had been through some incredible experiences, knew some interesting people and left an imprint in my life that tells me to take it easy and just live life. So, I do and I'm changed for knowing her.

As I move forward in my own life I am filled with reflection that lends itself to much gratitude.

Days are getting BRIGHTER! The sun is shining and Spring makes all pf us feel that itch in our core to play, especially my human doggie. I did miss my "Sharpie" this past week, but things happen and we postponed. I have a NEW LATEX CATSUIT🐈‍⬛ I'm just dying to put him in!!!! I will shine him up all pretty and then train him to have balls of steel!

My breast infusion was super fun! A 1000 ml bag for each bewb. ("Put me up in the big gurl bewbs Mistress!") I enjoyed her so much! Quite a long session...8 hours of play.  She was so buzzed, she took her bewbs home.

My Super Hero Clark Kent was tested in many ways you'd test a Super Hero. I put him through MY SPECIALIZED TRAINING...did he pass? I'll only say this. He has such nice flesh, I tied some of it to the floor telling him he better not move his feet. I flogged, caned and slapped him which set him off balance which was quite unnerving since he was really toruring himself. If only Clark could pass this SIMPLE TEST! I watched as it stretched him and eventually was pulled right off. Such self inflicted JOY to watch, mixed with MY Mistress brand of KRYPTONITE 💥

I tried something new for Gemini. He was heavy leather strait jacket restrained in my heavy steel cage in THE PANIC ROOM. He was sent into oblivion for 3 hours. I used "color noise" to have him descend into a safe place and just float.

I will post some lovely thank you notes, love letters and insight for the experience.

Excited to plant my herb garden and hear the first sound of a lawn mower cutting the grass...🐝🌱🌺🐝

If you're inclined, drop me a line 😎♥️

M Sharina

03/26/2023 UPDATE
"Teasy Tuesday! . . . "

Let's talk trash for a minute.

I have the most vivid dreams. Moist, gushy, salty, sweaty...trashy dreams that stay with me throughout the day. I remember them until they fade.

Then, there are my sessions.

"Please be cruel to me Mistress "says the crumpled man I see two times a year. He lives far away and in between sessions he'll write me a sexy letter about how he thinks about me. The anticipation drives him mad but I love it.

I know what he wants. He wants what he'll never have. Me. WHOLLY and unadulterated and even naked me. No. I give him what he deserves while he is in his suffering cage chastised and LOCKED.

He looks at me just like a school boy hoping to take a peek. I lean in, step closer, my body is close to his. My hair brushes his face as I whisper something into the core of his ear. He inhales my perfume...it's all a game, and a game I'm very good at. I splay him out after I've physically made him suffer. The better he feels the more torturous it is for him. He's causing his own pain and he's willing to go there. For me.

I tell him, "I'm not wearing any panties." I sit on my gold accented bench. I tease him about where I'm sitting. I stand up, he sees the wet spot

THE GAME IS GETTING REALLY GOOD NOW.

My life is like a kiddie coaster ride at the amusement park.

I wouldn't change it for anything...

Drop me a line,

M Sharina

02/16/2023 UPDATE
"Telephone Calls & Voicemail Messages . . . "

Recently it came to my attention that some of you who called were experiencing difficulty leaving a message on my voicemail.

There was a technical glitch, and all is resolved and working! If you'd like to call & leave a voicemail, please do!

Leave me a voicemail at: 952-943-9789

M Sharina

First things first! SUPER BOWL LVlll!!!!

I was RIVETTED to the 🏈 SUPER BOWL LVlll GAME! Loved every minute while rooting my toes off! 🎉

CONGRATULATIONS 🥂🍾 to the Kansas City CHIEFS!. What a game! Overtime!

Usher (8 time GRAMMY AWARD WINNER) definitely did a stellar job with half time. AND did you know Usher's skates called Flipper's Quadz by Usher
were custom made in Red Wing, Minnesota by Riedell Skates? YES, we cool.

The design, Flippers Quadz was co-designed with Liberty Ross co-founder and creative director of Flipper's Roller Boogie Palace AND Usher! You can get a pair from Flipper's World for $1450.

2 words:
POWERFUL WOMAN

Alicia Keys Super Bowl 2024

Btw, this is not only The Year of THE DRAGON, but RED and GOLD are good luck colors for the Chinese New Year!

Like I said...Red and Gold I LOVE my Red Room!

Valentines Day is THIS Wednesday! Do something Loving!

It's been a while!
Drop me a line...

01/27/2023 UPDATE
"NEWS BUNDLE - Obit . . . "

Masuimi Max, one of my favorite and one of the most beautiful models Ive seen died on 1/25/24. The cause of her death is not currently known. Here she is on the cover of a 2005 BIZARRE magazine I've saved  for my collection. 💔

Adult film actress known as Jesse Jane died on 1/24/24. She was found with her boyfriend Brett in Moore, Oklahoma. The older she got, the prettier she was. I liked her. She was the definitive spitfire. 🔥

Death is a fact in every community. In those little circles of communities we do not escape death or anything leading up to death. What we do is live our best life.

Rest in Peace ladies...you both left a brightness and we're better for it. 🦋

M Sharina

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01/25/2023 UPDATE
"On The Floor Asshole! . . . "

I'm walking up a set of white stairs in what seems to be a big room. I'm in a penitentiary.  It seems pleasant enough and almost like a library. The wall is huge with pictures from the bottom to the top near the ceiling. The pictures towards the bottom of the stairs are so explicit, they must be individually covered up for visitors who would brave the stairs. You see, this is where the men view their porn and jerk off.



I can't help but dream these things. I carry it all to bed with me. Part of it is due to what I view during the day, what I watch in movies and things I just make up in my perverted mind.

I recently saw this movie about a guy who owned a human dog ("Good Boy" 2022) 🐕. I loved it. It was entertaining especially when it got weird.

There's a book I read every now and then because it's my favorite gay-leather S/m themed book. Mr. Benson is the name of the book, and irs written beautifully by Robert Preston. The bar scene when Mr. Benson meets a prospective leather boy is divine. I put myself in the bar and I'm watching it all unfold. It's dark, it smells like men and leather boots and chaps.

The inevitable torture for this boy bottom slave-wanna-be leads to unending torment by Mr. Benson. The boy suffers and even though he feels he's earned a place in Mr. Benson's bed, instead he's told,  "On the floor asshole " I love this shifting into the dynamism of this because even though I'm female, I'd love to pack my tight jeans, wear leather boots and shift my eyes because of course, you want to please me and you want to earn your place.

It's a different kind of mental food and a sexy surge of male energy inspiration.



I shift the nature of who I am because I can always add other components to be someone else, but I'm always me...



HAPPY NEW YEAR
The New Year has been great for me, but for some, nir so much. I'm understanding a new element of the human spirit here.  I'll tell you this because it will ring true for you as you move through the new year.

I got a call from someone who has been seeing me for about 5 years. He has 5th stage kidney failure. Wanted to thank me for being in his life. An adventurer and thrill seeker with one of the most interesting lives I've ever encountered. He will die soon.

I often talk to people about their "bucket list." One person in particular comes to mind.  He wanted to be feminized and go to lunch. Broad daylight . . . lunch. So I did. Not passible and definitely stands out in a crowd at about 6'4" in 2 inch heels and broad shoulders. Could have been a football player. I dressed him up in a nice conservative outfit, short heels, smaller breasts, and pretty make-up.  

I chose Ciao Bella.  The wait staff was respectful and accommodating. He was brave and courageous. But, he was with me and I was there to facilitate an experience and to protect his experience. He'll never forget it...

So, in closing, I urge you to be brave, be courageous and find someone you trust to have experiences with.  Once you crack the egg, stretch the rubber band,  you'll never go back to the way it was.



Already were almost at the end of January. Time really does fly! 🦋

Love and much JOY in this New Year!

M Sharina

Most of the time I shower before a session, but when I allow some delicious "scent play" as a reward for taking my singletail, or 24 steel balls (8 oz each) at the end of a sharp spiked parachute, what's not to love about sniffing and licking my flesh?

Did I mention I also love tying pink string to my piercings for a needle-pull...I enjoy the PAIN-Reward system...

Did you have a nice Thanksgiving holiday? It's tough for some people especially at the end of the year. When one holiday kicks off another.


Did you practice tying your birdie?

I know it's difficult for a lot of us where holidays are a reminder of what is missing. It's ok, we'll get through it and we'll look forward to renewal with a BRAND NEW YEAR of experiences and a beginning with a FRESH SLATE.

I can help you with that



I've already begun implementing CHANGE. Why wait for after the NEW YEAR when you set yourself up to fail? A suggestion: pick ONE thing you want to change. Do it NOW and carry it into 2024. Do it for for 30 days and you WILL change your life. SIMPLE.


Last week, a session ended with a very nice dinner at one of the best restaurants, and my favorite, Ciao Bella.  A picture of Sofia Lauren paints the large wall that reminds me of my Italian and Sicilian heritage. Sofia is Italian.

 
Nothing like sharing casual chat after a BONDAGE session. FREEDOM. He tells me, as I'd asked if his wife was into BDSM at all. He respects she isn't, and have agreed on an openness. I admire the ability to do this. This is the epitome of a relationship that is co-created in the context of trust and love 43 years and counting.

More couples coming into my studio. It seems nowadays men want to be open with their partners in life.

I have taught men to be better partners. Cohesive relationships are an important core of happiness

I also had an after session conversation last week with a man who had been a Wilderness EMT doing rescue work. He faced the Taliban in defense surviving an attack while rescuing young girls. UNSCATHED he comes home, he's riding a mountain bike, a deer shoots out right into him. He was hurt pretty bad and ended up in the hospital. The Doc said he was very lucky as it happened to 5 other people in a week and 3 ended up in the morgue. WOW! He lives to tell me about it after his session. So perfect!

So, be careful out there! Bring your goggles and long underwear and stay safety conscious!

Everything is good. Talk to me if it isn't.
Until next time!

M Sharina

Twice in the past week I noticed a bit of nervousness and an unsettling in a couple of people Who came in to see me. Both, I took time to connect with before I played with them. One was a newbie and hands seriously shaking so hard, I asked,  "Cold, or nervous?" "Nervous Mistress."

I'm glad he was honest.  I wanted him to get into a nice head space before I transformed him into a dream girl named Candi and put her in an erotic hypnotic zone. You can't be naughty if you're nervous.

Situations present themselves to me in a manner of seriousness too. Where what I notice feels crisis-like. This particular appointment was scheduled months in advance so there was excitement for quite a while.  When he arrived for his hard corporal punishment session, he didn't seem excited. More sullen and depressed. The human psyche (I've come to understand through my own experiences) is injured. Our bodies KNOW even if our mind refuses to identify our pain and it gets buried.  But, it comes out in different ways with indicators like depression, anxiety, PTSD...which signals we need to take care of ourselves in some way to address it. This person is a Veteran, one of our heroes who suffers the residual effects of PTSD and emotional stress and needs relief through corporal punishment.

Somehow releasing energy by different methods is a way to find relief. It is also necessary to find therapeutic value in an experience that affects the mind and body connection.

This is one of the reasons people see a professional dominatrix who understands the human psyche.

I saw this movie and wanted to give you my take on it since those who read my posts are quite familiar with professional domination.

So, what if you were in this man's shoes?

The movie...Sanctuary

I did say I would give you a movie review recently. It may have been on my Twitter / X or a previous blog post, I can't remember. But if I were to describe this movie in singular words, I'd use "frightening, riveting, unsettling, non-consensual, and I could also add human".

As a Dominatrix who prides herself in knowing and studying the people I play with, the movie Sanctuary captures it and takes it to a very uncomfortable level. 

The "bathroom" scene I enjoyed very much because even though Rebecca, (played by Margaret Qualley) is an actress, I could tell she was really into the dialog and feeling the interaction working between herself and her subject Hal (played by Christopher Abbott.)

As she began to degrade Hal, her punitive wording, exposing how minute he really is and how pathetic he was that he was turned on by her degradation. What a freak, right?  She got into his head, which is a fine tuned quality, without a doubt. It's not only physical, like the closeness of her mouth to his ear or the curated sound of her voice, (so matter of fact sexy) but it's everything Hal has come to know as a beautiful and disgusting escape.

In the middle and towards the end, I wondered who needed whom. Did he need her, or did she need him MORE? Is this a true dynamic or is it cultivated through time?

I will say this. People always find their way especially when they can't let go.

Find it and see it.

That is it for now! I've missed communicating with you, but I've been busy in other ways. You never know when a blog post will be HERE, so check my Twitter X or check HERE often!

Until next time, soon!

M Sharina

Honoring Veterans, their families and survivors. Thank you for your service.

M Sharina

Recently on Twitter X there's been A LOT of talk about a certain video. There's actually 2 videos that were posted with the same theme: setting a man on fire. The display was horrific and dangerous and the man was burned despite the female saying he wasn't.  You can see it if you look at the pictures.

I'm happy to say no one has shared a link or pictures so NO promotion of the video(s).
PLEASE DO NOT PROMOTE

I will describe the video content here and give you my perspective.

So, to the video:

A young woman in domme attire, posted 2 videos of herself lighting a man on fire near a pool after she used a sufficient amount of accelerant which looked like 70% Isopropyl alcohol.

The man is standing by a pool, it's dark outside. The woman takes a lighter and lights him from his feet. The fire blazes up fast as he makes a mad dash to the pool. There was so much accelerant used, there is a fire on the cement where the man stood before he fled to jump into the pool.

In another video that I think holds the "suggestion" of brutality, you can see the fire engulf him even though it is during the day.

She pours her accelerant from the spout under his neck and then from shoulder to shoulder dripping down right onto the fabric of his baggy shorts. You can see it. He opens the band of his shorts and she squirts more accelerant on the inside. She moves toward him with a lighter and lights him from his shorts.The fire begins to climb upwards very fast. As he jumps in the pool nearby, I paused the video to see his face. He looks panicked. He gets out of the pool and says "Everything hurts." Later, she chastises him for jumping in the pool so soon. She wanted him to WAIT. He said it burned. She begins kicking him and tells him that "Next time, when I tell you to do something, you fucking listen." THIS suggests more than roleplay.

When you are entrusted with the "care and feeding" of a slave, sub, or a human being, someone you will be playing with, be certain it does not violate a person's safety, EVER, and no matter what. The idea of any roleplay, and I honestly do not think this is roleplay, but more a display of a slave following orders for shock value.

The context of roleplay that is edgy is to mind fuck a person into believing they have broken the barriers of safety, but always being SAFE.

How many of you who contact a Dominatrix, actually KNOW if your Dominant has learned BASIC FIRST AID and CPR? Will she know what to do in case of a REAL EMERGENCY?

I do know these important elements of any session, and I have needed to use these principles many times over not because a session is unsafe, but because shit happens. (I had to revive an older retired doctor due to a vasovagal syncope. We were just sitting together chatting. All of the sudden he gets a deer in the headlights...I had to act fast, and YES he was ok.

 
One of the comments from the posting of the video was, "He likes it " As if to say, what difference does it make, he likes it, therefore, it's ok.

Not ok.

This IS horrific play, make no mistake. If you buy these videos or promote people who play like this (especially with links or name), you will encourage this until someone ends up in a burn unit.
His body WAS burned. You can see it in the after pics and she has some kind of plastic wrap over the burns.


I saw a European video years ago. I'm positive the man is either no longer living, or has a severe case of dementia from many concussions (think football players). In this video, 2 women are kicking a man in the head with thick boots. The women kick the man in the head mercilessly. He gets kicked many times in the head, cussed at and with no regard to his safety or well being they demolish him to ruins. These women are young punky brats with big boots. They are also DANGEROUS, UNEDUCATED, and UNCARING.

I often think about a Doctor's credo to "do no harm". For me as a Dominatrix my credo is simple: Cause no *undo or long-lasting harm to a person. This includes the physical and the mental.

*The word undo relates to the harm that comes to a person who did not deserve it. So, in BDSM (as an example), a person asks for wax play, but the inexperienced dominant uses the wrong kind of wax (a wax that shouldn't be used on skin) and the person is inadvertently burned.

We do have guidelines and acronyms for credo. Here are the ones I am familiar with.

S S.C.
Safe Sane and Consensual

R.A.C.K
Risk Aware Consensual Kink

P.R.I.C.K.
Personal Responsibility, Informed, Consensual Kink

So, who is responsible in the situation of extreme and dangerous play?

When play is negotiated between people, it is co-created. Sometimes things aren't quite negotiated properly, or the Dominant is given free reign. No one should be risking their safety. Not the dominant, and not the person being played with.

Make certain you put yourself in the hands of a qualified and knowledgeable dominant. Your life and all that suggests depends on it.

We are heading into fall FINALLY! Let's enjoy it! More later sooner, I promise.

A lot is going on and I'll post about it very soon on Twitter X which is embedded onto my website.

Until next time SOON...
M Sharina

So, what is it like to be muted, to simply exist and be "toyed with" like an inanimate object? To SUFFER a kind of sensual tension with no possibility of release?

For me, I get flutters of things I like to do, but then again, "consensual" resides in my world,  but I do ride the rails of limits. It gives you something to think about until next time.

What's this? New toys?

I have acquired a new medical cabinet matching the one I already have. I get to fill it! Almost there. Right now, my breathing paraphernalia is on the second shelf. Some of my metal gags are on the top shelf.  I'm VERY MUCH looking forward to getting my NEW BLACK ELECTRICAL BOX with more dials than the discontinued ET-312B (which I have 3 of) I understand it's more intense. Perfect...

I also received my super great leather medical asylum restraints. Excited to use them because they're the real deal and they're brand new.

Waiting for my WHITE leather straitjacket with tit flaps...The look of "ASYLUM!" gives me a quirky sadistic but nurturing feeling. Plus, I'm making a toy for CBT fans...I'll keep you posted EXCITED!

Are you sad for summer to end? Don't be. Seasons challenge us to new experience. It's going to be a very pretty week!

M Sharina

The needles went in with slight resistance Each time I heard him tense and release with each push as the sharp bevel made its way from one side to the other. Where did I insert them like tracks for a train? Ill never tell. But, I will tell you there were 50 the first time and 34 the second. James Bond was being put through the ringer once more...


This was what some of my week looked like. Transfixed on a 2 day excursion under the premise of an "annual physical" James Bond was once again in my clutches as I made certain he would not remember a thing about day one. He would be taken back to his hotel by my driver, walk through the door of his room and as he heard the door close, would remember nothing.

The 2 days consisted of a total of 10 hours. James would be questioned, interrogated, and through a series of tests specifically designed for one exquisitely trained agent, James would be tested under pressure testing his wits in very difficult situations.

The use of flirty, and sexy charm along with a frosty glass of a dry martini (shaken, not stirred) to lower his guard, and then carefully implement the use of torture methods such as beveled blow darts, needles, catheters, saline injections and various forms of bondage and restraint to unnerve him. It was inevitable that he'd crack. Did he? What do you think?


Roleplay, I adore it. The only thing is, when it's over, I'm still in it AND I. have a tough time breaking out. But, I do and then it's back to other interesting things, as I'm sure it is for you after your session with me. But isn't it nice to reside in the depths of an intricately played scene where one of the components just HAS to be diabolical? YES.

Are you weathering the heat?🔥I'm watering my garden plants and staying indoors. I got this new 2 gallon watering can. It's black, so when I see it out of the corner of my eye, it looks like my cat Dame...I say, "Hi Damien" and the plastic can doesn't say anything back...😁

I enjoy looking forward to what's next!

If my voice mail is full (which happened recently and does every so often) please drop me a line in an email, Thx!
Until next time

M Sharina

Sensual Femdom Mistress & Dominatrix in Minneapolis, Minnesota

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M Sharina

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07/24/2023 UPDATE
"I Am The Captain Now! . . . "

Smothering latex...YES! I broke in my new human latex cocoon during a session with mercury. I combined it with a latex hood with a built-in blindfold and buckled mouth flap! Then, the marching Machina...When I unzipped him from it, he was in the most wonderful state. I love the inside sleeves. Give in, nowhere to go, just simply give in.

Such diversity in sessions. My age regression medical session was perfectly played out. Roleplay must begin from the moment of arrival to the Clinic! I remember a session I did years ago. My patient wanted me to tell him to take his clothes off and when he refused I was going to spank him hard. What happened was the opposite. I asked him to take off his clothes...so he did. I of course improvised. I said, "Hurry up! I don't have all day! And then turned him around, bent him over the table pulled his pants down and spanked him! Compliant patient? Of course.

It isn't always the sessions I do, but the people I play with. I love peeling the onion and seeing the layers. I tend to work with the energy and then use my intuitive instincts for what is next.

The other thing I love is introducing an almost complete novice to NEW THINGS.I carefully carve out a nice little space of trust, and lead the way. "Carpe' Diem!

Have a great week my dear friends and remember:

M Sharina
Sensual Femdom Mistress & Dominatrix in Minneapolis, Minnesota

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07/17/2023 UPDATE
"Busy, Busy, Busy, "Official Blog Update" Coming Soon! . . . "

Busy, Busy, Busy, I WILL be writing a proper blog post SOON, so much going on, and lots to share! 

Take a peek at my recent reviews / thank you posts, and that is a smidgen of what's been going on! There are even a couple of new pics! Is that a shiny new custom latex sleepsack?! Why yes, yes it is . . . and I love it!

My webmaster is staying on top of the Twitter embed situation, and he informed me that things have not changed yet. All websites embedding Twitter feeds are currently unable to (yes, including the city of Miami). Hopefully this will change. In the meantime, FOLLOW ME on Twitter! I'll keep you in the loop! https://Twitter.com/SharinaNicole

"Official blog post" coming later!

M Sharina
Sensual Femdom Mistress & Dominatrix in Minneapolis, Minnesota

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07/10/2023 UPDATE
"Busy, Busy, Busy, Blog Update Coming Soon! . . . "

Busy, Busy, Busy, my blog post is coming, so much going on, and new things to tell you! 

On a side-note, my Twitter posts continue (OF COURSE)! That said, my webmaster has been waiting for Twitter to fix itself. Mr Elon Musk's Twitter has broken or turned off the website embed feature. So that now you have to go to Twitter to see my feed instead of scrolling on my website for my Twitter feed. This has happened on all websites with Twitter embedded (including the City of Miami). 

https://Twitter.com/SharinaNicole

Blog post coming later!

M Sharina
Sensual Femdom Mistress & Dominatrix in Minneapolis, Minnesota

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07/01/2023 UPDATE
"Happy 4th of July Weekend! Happy Independence Day! . . . "

Happy 4th!

I know you must be having the best 4 day weekend off! (Word gets around )

I am enjoying some relaxing time getting a bit caught up. SO, if you need to reach me,  I will be around to respond to emails.  If you've booked with me before, please email me 2 to 3 dates that will work for you and we'll make plans. I have a SCHMATTERING of appointments coming up, especially in the next couple of weeks

I will give you some thoughts, post a few thank you's and some pictures as well as a Q and A posting I started a while ago. I've been thoroughly enjoying my busy schedule.

In the meantime . . . enjoy some pretty fireworks!

Have a safe and HAPPY holiday . . .

M Sharina
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06/20/2023 UPDATE
"Blog Post Coming Stay Tuned . . . So Busy! . . . "

My Thank You to you!

You give me so much during the course of every single year.

What I treasure most is how you give yourself TO me. Your vulnerability, trust and "courage" is paramount and the rest is icing on the cake 🎂

So thank you to those I treasure...Thank you for "being" in my life

M Sharina

My slave is always very sweet to me. He gifts me with champagne and dark chocolates all the time...not to mention his painstaking
dedication to serving me. He does so much for me every day and he cares for my little doggy Vivienne. He is her uncle mikey.
The absolute BEST slave a Mistress could EVER hope for

Moët Chandon Impérial A FAV!

I love butterflies...they mean transformation and metamorphosis

Something very nice from my Amazon wish list gifted to me from My EXTRAORDINARY Web Master...

Gene knows my Mistress heart plants flowers and herbs this time of year. Waiting until theJuly session to TRULY give some severe spanks out in honor of my birthday! Being an old soul, I'm 2,982 years. Get ready...
$50 Menards Gift Card

"Steph" made plans for an extended session late Friday May 26 to early in the morning Saturday just before my birthday.
Steph brought me some very sweet treats! Some beautiful liquors, and a VERY GOOD "Legendary Rye" which as you may see, we had a few good hits of! Also, some very interesting THC powder...measure your own 🤪 AND some dark chocolate laced with the healing powers of THC

06/05/2023 UPDATE
"Blog Post Coming As Soon As My Sissy Maid Finishes Dusting . . . "

As soon as my sissy maid finishes her dusting duties, my new blog post will be ready!

Busy, busy, busy!  

M Sharina
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05/29/2023 UPDATE
"Happy Memorial Day, NEVER FORGET . . . "

This is a packet of Forget-Me-Nots. I picked up at a Memorial Service for one  lost at his own hand. He was a dear friend of mine.

The plastic army men were also offered. You take them to place somewhere where they will be found in memory of the fallen.

Take a moment to remember why there is a Memorial Day holiday...remember those who sacrificed for our freedom. NEVER FORGET

M Sharina
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05/22/2023 UPDATE
"Bound and Terrified . . . "

I hear calm quiet voices in the foyer. My slave always greets those who session with me. My slave mike is a disarming and gentle conversationalist, offers water, a bathroom break and then comes in to get me wherever I am in the studio. This time was going to be different.

As my appointment is speaking with my slave exchanging niceties, I quietly move towards him. His back is facing me as I quietly approach. Both hands grabbing a chunk of his shirt, I pull him backward to disorient him and drag him half way into the main room and say, "WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU THINK YOU'RE DOING?!!?!" I grab his hair, pull his head back and push him sideways to the ground. Once there, I give him kicks to the ribs and begin my demeaning tirade of diminishing him to ruin. The room is dark, I see him struggle to see as he blinks his eyes and tries to look around the room protecting himself from my physical and verbal assault . . .

My beratements are mean. I want them to be. I catch him off guard and debase him to the point that his mental capacity has no means by which to grasp how I know his insides so well...his insecurities, his self doubt and who he shows himself off to the world to be,  which is utter nonsense. No one knows his secrets, but I do and I will exploit them to get what I want. What do I want? I want to fulfill his desire to crawl into the depths of emotion with me. This is roleplay.

He has confessed to me in our preliminary conversation a couple of simple things. "I want to be bound and terrified and brought to tears."

We went over his limits, pain tolerance, compiling things he was open to and things he was not capable of experiencing. We did this all under the guise of exchanging "our" niceties and orchestrating a role-playing scene without him knowing how it would unfold.

It amazes me how sadistic I can be when given consent to do so. Consent is imperative with levels of intensity that bends the mind and the spirit in order to manufacture the end result.

Nurturing sadist.
A sadist who beneath the surface has the ability to nurture in her ability to explore the levels of a deep dive into overwhelming despair, the only way out is to shift my energy...Nurture.

WHEN THE PHYSICAL AND THE PSYCHOLOGICAL MEET IN TANDEM TO PRODUCE A MOST COVETED RESULT.

There will be a time I'll write part 2 of that story and tell you what happens next. But for now,  I'll let you chew on that for a bit.

Things are lightening up here in Minneapolis. But Covid-19 is still prevalent as I personally know of 4 (FOUR) cases now in the last couple of months total.

I'm clearing out areas of the studio to update my 4 main rooms. You'll love the updates.

Enjoy your week! I wanted to touch base with you before my week gets busy!

So many things . . .
Until next time,
M Sharina
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05/15/2023 UPDATE
"QUICKIE post to start our week off! . . . "

Touching base about some things I've been noticing. First, there is an uptick in my experience with Covid cases. Two of my friends are down with Covid and I had a cancellation for Tuesday due to a positive test result after feeling unwell.


I'm still being very careful, not just for me and my circle, but people who remain immune compromised. TEMPERATURES are taken just before your session and if you are NOT vaccinated, testing is done both a day prior to play, and day of session (BOTH). I DO NOT mask during sessions...unless I use a little wrap around

As always,

M Sharina
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05/10/2023 UPDATE
"For Your Eyes Only . . . "

I've been looking through my clip store content and swerved into some fun clips I would to share some of them with you for FREE.

You know I don't have an Only Fans, Loyal FANS,, Sex Panther, Nite Flirt or anything like that. I have thought about though. Instead, I've chosen to offer a nice collection of clips in my clip store(s) on Clips4Sale. I've been asked to PLEASE do a subscription store by several people and it just hasn't come to fruition so, I've created something special for you instead.

Why am I doing this? It's my birthday month and I feel like sharing with you.

Now, these clips are NOT previews, and they are not FULL clips, but it'll feel like it, BUT, they are longer clips.

The first one is a ball busting clip. You'll see how I toy with my slave and how I methodically ruin him. At the time, my studio was so sparse. I had hard wood floors and a carpet to soften the blow as my slave hits the floor time and time again as I annihilate his worthless balls which is obvious each time he loses to me. A relentless pounding with my shiny red heels as he tries to cope and instead of securing his hands to a bar, I make him hold onto it proving that when he lets go, he has failed once again!

It was quite fun revisiting this clip!

So Mistress, how do I get the SPECIAL CODE for special 's only to view?

Email me.

Put in the subject line: "FREE CLIP"

That's it.

So, how are you fairing with Spring time? Allergies? Planting your garden? Collecting torture devices?

I'll tell you what I'm doing. I'm acquiring a new piece of equipment from Europe  and I will be ordering it VERY soon. Of course I'll break it in first when I get it because I'll need to become familiar with its workings. I need to know how long a person can withstand this kind of torment how it feels, what makes them give up so I may decide the minimum session time required for a full experience that is adequate for me dragging all the components out for a complete experience. I think it will be fun using it with extended sessions, minimum 2 hours, but I understand in a RT immersive experience 4 to 6 hours optimally.

Btw, although you don't know what it is right now, just know it is the NEWEST model and can include an electro-function. Sensory deprivation and bondage compliment this kind of experience.

I am so EXCITED!

So, watch for that announcement

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Until next time . . . and as always, life is meant to be SAVORED

M Sharina
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05/05/2023 UPDATE
"Happy Cinco de Mayo! . . . "

Happy Cinco de Mayo! I hope that you and your family have a fun, happy,  & safe Cinco de Mayo as you enjoy your fiesta!

Until next time . . . 

M Sharina
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05/04/2023 UPDATE
"Mistress, I am NOTHING Without you . . . "

"So Mistress, how should I prepare for a GS?" "Hmmmm, try drinking your own piss."

When I am asked certain questions like this, although I understand how it compliments a session, I also know there are those who are fishing for free verbal content over the phone, like "NiteFlirt"
 which I can't find the time to do. It normally happens when I speak with people who are new to me. Those who have an established rapport with me know that a phone call cannot compare to the softness of my feet, smelling my light scent through my stockings, feeling my leather gloves over their mouth or feel the pulsing of electronic stimulation while in bondage enunciating the reality that I truly am in control.

The dreamy fantasy someone is hoping for is addressed to the aforementioned question, "Mistress, how should I prepare for a GS?"

(Mistress Sharina's sexy voice...rather throaty) says:

Well, first, lie down and edge yourself (I give a long whispery, "yeaaaah") Picture me towering over you. I'm wearing thigh high stockings and a micro mini. Am I wearing panties? Maybe I am. You're straining to see, but as you watch, I begin pulling my panties to the side...just to slide them down. I pick them up and push them into your nose to sniff. My hand presses just above my pubic bone. You begin to feel one drip of my warm piss on your cheek. You turn slightly, the next drop falls into your mouth...you taste me and begin to cum as I slowly flood your mouth with the rest of my golden nectar. You struggle to tell me you're nothing without me as youve been instructed to do always. You now feel like you have me inside you...

That would be the velvet on the throne, the perfume scent between my breasts, and the ultimate way I turn you into my own piss receptacle.

My mind is very vivid. I get off on the TEASE (AND the DENIAL) I can't help it, but I also get off on the control and making you feel things. Things I WANT you to feel.

Which brings to mind a couple of session ideas for you. Something very unique and for your eyes only when scheduling a session with me to enhance the torment. Btw, you'll need your own special code for this.

Torturous teasing tomorrow after being in chastity for 2 weeks prior to the session. Lets see how teasy I can be with "slave tachycardia" AND let's see how TIGHT I can cause the chastity to get! Taking snap shots

He was also instructed to wear an "accoutrement" to the session, which means I'm further reducing him to an element of emasculation. (POOF!) My slave tachycardia WILL definitely need "defib"!

AND since I encompass who I describe myself to be, a "nurturing sadist," a little something else to embellish the session. Again, for your eyes only. You'll need a code for that too...COMING SOON!

I have my on another piece of equipment. I will be getting it soon. I'm in touch with the company who is answering a few questions. No doubt I'll be pulling the trigger soon on THAT! Its a secret, but Ill post pics when I get it. It's coming from England.

For me, when I saw this upgraded version, the steel cylinders, the wet mechanisms, I was turned on, so I HAVE to get it! Controlling your sensations in sensory deprivation for 2 to 6 hours of suspended animation has me thinking this kind f torment in the Medical Asylum is necessary for your health and well being. Your Medical Dominatrix Nicole not only knows your secrets, but I also know what's good for you too.

Until next time . . . 

M Sharina
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The husband wanted to watch me do my examinations on my new female patient. But, before I did I wanted to tweak things just a bit more for him so I put him in a white institutional straitjacket. That was just the edge he needed. Nothing he could do about his wife's predicament and the whole idea behind it was to tease him relentlessly.
I am keenly aware of what certain observations might do to a person watching.

He's in the straitjacket and says, "This is very comfortable and it's very soothing. It's like giving myself a hug!" he noted. Later, I put him in my leather straitjacket where he noticed intricate details compared to the canvas straitjacket I had him in. My Mr. S. custom made with padded elbows, provided a luxurious leather experience of powerlessness, and once tied down firmly he was all mine to tease, as my well relaxed patient reclined and watched

The session was exploratory, but also feeding off of what was familiar.

Your kink life is like a rubber band. Expandable and stretchy, but once you've stretched the rubber band, you cannot make it go back to its original shape.

I've seen people change dramatically over the course of may years, but if a person has a fetish, it never changes and remains the sole focus of their kink.

My webmaster posted a little announcement. You'll find it on the website. He posts it once a year, and it is an important day for me and reminds me of my Mother. She called me her "So Rare" from a song entitled the same. She would play it and call me and dance around.  I'm glad I have that memory.

Well, that is it for now...actually, it's all I will say for now because it is my "blog" and not a book!

Until next time . . . 

M Sharina
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04/18/2023 UPDATE
"What is a Little Debbie Snack Cake? . . . "

Ok, so the weather? What the actual-you-know-what! 80° one day, 3 inches of snow the next! As I write my blog (Sunday) the flakes are flying. Yes, it's daunting, but it is Minne-snow-tah! They say in Minnesota, if we didn't talk about the weather we would have NOTHING to talk about. REALLY? But if they were in MY world, we could talk about anything.

But there WAS a time...

I used to have parties in my studio and the reason I had them was because one too many times I heard, someone say, "I just wish I could be a fly on the wall..." So, I created just that. I would have these wonderful parties with all these components. Some of them were gourmet sit down dinners as a prelude to play. Other parties were planned to have people trickling in at certain times of arrival. Cocktails and Hors d'Oeuvres were served until the play emerged and then everything came together in a beautifully orchestrated evening where no two parties were the same.

Some evenings I was the quintessential Houdini. The Mistress of Ceremonies, the Conductor of Kink!

There were prancing crossdressers (yes, they pranced) and gurls sitting pretty and all lady-like with stockinged legs crossed until one of them was instructed to be SLUTTY and SEXY. Skirts were pulled up and lipstick was left on their pink Cosmopolitan martini glasses. I've always loved that.

Sometimes I got out my truly delicious 5 point crown shredder heels for a little visual with slave mike. Mike could take a lot (I taught him to) he'd say, "It's an EXQUISITE PAIN Mistress! He'd tell me while looking at me through glassy eyes.

My custom and specialized sandals which have an assortment of heels ("bullets" I like to call them) It was like loading a gun. Thank you Trample guy One of the trample greats.

Multiple Mistress trampling and a needle-heel in Trample guy's hand just to listen to him struggle and squeel like a pig. "Trample-guy" was a good sport and took my heels on his hand, bottoms of feet, and chest. I could jump on the right places and expertly in other areas with "BZ Heels." He took as much weight as possible, after all he IS Trample guy.
 
I had little vignettes of fantasy play which at one time included "007." We captured him, objectified him and teased him into oblivion.

I remember one party, Lady Careina came into the back where I was and Said, "You JUST GOTTA come out here and see what I've done!" She had about 6 slaves all in a row standing at attention. She wasn't sure what to do with them next, so I began to order them around. I love puzzles and I love telling slaves what to do

At another party, THE LIGHTS WENT COMPLETELY OUT! My parties always had candlelight so we weren't completely in the dark. We lit a few more candles, passed around a few flashlights and had a great time. There were a few of us playing in the medical room, I had "little debbie" shining a flashlight on the scene at hand, IT WAS PERFECT! The lights unexpectedly went back on. "Debbie, turn the lights off doll." Debbie was very good at following orders especially when they were succinct orders. I called her Little Debbie Snack Cake."

It took a ton of planning, but the parties were superb. Everything was done in excellence, from the food to the play. People always said it was the only place they could ever go to be themselves and talk to others casually about their kink as if it was the most natural thing in the world.

All of it was delicious and yes, very therapeutic for everyone who attended. It is nice to know others carry the torch  with their own events. It is very important to be able to express yourself properly...ALL PARTS OF YOU. Bravo to those who make it safe to be YOU.

Spring has sprung so keep the faith! Enjoy the moments through it all because you never know when those times will end, or the lights will go off.

As always, until next time . . . 
M Sharina
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04/10/2023 UPDATE
"Secret Service in Full Swing . . . "

I lean in, my subject is cinched up tightly in leather, rope and a fitted corset. I whisper, "Do you feel my hand on your breasts Zsa Zsa? Soon they will be filled up with saline and you'll be my real girl. Your corset will be fitted tighter so I can see your female form which will accentuate those breasts. Someday, I'll fit you with real breasts as a reminder that you will always be female and always my real girl."



Fantasy- Reality? It'll be our little secret...or not.

I'm happy when we share reality because for a short time we are in it together. Where play relies on your limits and my talent and skill for guiding you deeper and deeper into the zone and keeping you there, enjoying every moment, savoring the experience should be the end game.



You know often times while in the mode of administering pain in the form of "sensation intensity play." I see sweat, watch people tear up, shake and adjust themselves to try and be in the moment while fighting off the urge to say, "MERCY" when in reality you are going to pass out. My intuition kicks in. It is imperative for me to see you and notice exactly where you're at and know when to slow or stop, or interrupt. I only give one safe word because when it comes time to use it, you'll more than likely be too paralyzed to use it anyway. I intuit your safe word before you do.



I revived a retired doctor who was cross dressed. He was experiencing a vasovagal episode. We were chatting, which we did at the beginning of every session and although I know my conversation is rivetting, he began staring into space. I walked over, knelt down, asked "Are you ok?" He kept staring. I knew things weren't right, he was sweaty and began to collapse right off his chair. I did not allow him to hit the floor. Call me "Secret Service. I jumped into action, I knew what to do AND I needed to protect him from further harm and be certain no one would ever know his secret. I protect my people to the ends if the earth.

I often times say, "It's all fun and games until someone gets hurt." (Accidental hurt or from lack of knowledge)


I have seen cringe-worthy pictures and video of unsafe play. One stands out in particular where two women in boots were recklessly stomping a man's head. Eventually he will have brain damage like football players get. It's a traumatic brain injury like a concussion only worse. It's referred to as "chronic traumatic encephalopathy" and it is serious because you do not heal from it.


Other cringe-worthy pictures sending shivers down my own spine is viewing a picture with a heavy-set Mistress standing on the spine of a man while in platform heels. CRINGY. TENS pads positioned on the chest...also cringy. Your Femdom needs to know the risks and the dangers of play that although risky, will not land someone with a spine injury or interrupt heart rhythm or permanent brain damage.



When I play with someone anything can happen. There is sexy play and teasy play but there is also risky play too. I protect my people so they may go back to their lives knowing their secret is safe with me.

Notice anything different these days? The sun  has made its appearance! I took my Christmas lights down finally.  It felt good. I threw most of them away because "something" chewed the wires! My Damien kitty has been on mice patrol...I just love his technique for killing them. I say, "Go into the light little mouse."

I know it is Spring because I've had a noticeable influx of sessions. I have had to double up on days to get someone in. Sometimes it works, sometimes not, so please let me know in advance.

Enjoy the beautiful days ahead!


As always, until next time 
M Sharina
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04/08/2023 UPDATE
"Happy Easter! . . .  "

Whatever you believe about Easter, know that in some way, I share it with you . . .

Wishing you and yours a very HOPPY Sunday!

As always
M Sharina
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04/03/2023 UPDATE
"A Lemon Slice Will NOT Save you . . . "

Unconsciousness is not a State of "Mind over Matter."

I remember my "latex cat" would tell me stories about self bondage and sometimes getting out by the skin of his teeth. I've heard other stories about tying a string around a door knob in order to walk away from it and zip up a bondage bag while inside...yes, it can be done but can you get out?


Caption: My Latex Pet
Circa 1997

On a DANGEROUS note, someone told me breathplay is ok as long as you have a slice of lemon nearby so you can chew it. The premise is that it will snap you out of becoming COMPLETELY unconscious. (Right?...WRONG!) You can guess why it won't work, right?



I enjoy minute amounts of light breath play. It "feels" dangerous, a bit threatening, but it is very minor with me in control and you under my spell



I've had people ask me what to do about their "addiction" to breath play. In short, I tell them not to do it because it is accumulative and eventually weakens the body. These are people who like to ride the rails and not go off...but, you start playing with asphyxiation and it can BE very dangerous and fatal.


Interestingly enough, along the same lines, but not with breath play, a man whose been seeing me for over 15 years who cannot take flogging anymore because of his age is now resorting to other forms of tweaking his endorphins. He LOVED flogging. He used to wear me out! I'd flog him for an entire hour incrementally stronger until he would give me a "mercy."

So, last week he says he burned himself with a butter knife which he heated over an open flame 🔥 He said it didn't leave the mark he wanted like the last time he did it. WHAT?!!?! I rubbed 400 i.u of vitamin E on his wound and sent him home with some to use. He has a flare for BDSM and sometimes I see marks and ask him what he's done. He'll say he took an electric cord and swatted himself with it until he could see the marks. 👁👁 He's sweet and we have a great rapport. He trusts me and I'm not as intense as he'd always like, but it is my duty to balance safety with his need to feel something.



These kinds of things are needed and are very meaningful to a person's well being. Being put in bondage, having the breath controlled, the cuts that are made on skin to relieve pain, anguish or stress or just because the mark is necessary as a reminder of going through these things to get to the other side.



"The mind is willing, but the body is weak." This, I know. Just look at fantasy vs reality.

Drop me a line, tell me your story if you have one and how you struggle with your dangerous fetish and if you struggle with doing it. Is there anything you could do to replace it? What lengths are you willing to go to in order to find relief?

I use the phrase,  "in a perfect world" 🌍 because there are dangers. We do ride the rails with a Devil May Care attitude, but it isn't wise.



When the things we're drawn to are dangerous, there has to be a way to get our needs met without getting ourselves into physical trouble doing it.

Benefit- Risk Ratio

As with all things, keep your nose right above the water line...

Remember how much I care about you and enjoy being your guide and thought provocateur.

You be mine...

M Sharina
Sensual Femdom Mistress & Dominatrix in Minneapolis, Minnesota

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03/27/2023 UPDATE
"I saw something very interesting on the telly the other night . . . "

There was a man sitting by the pool in a lounge chair while this larger kid did a cannonball and got water on him. Not a big deal, wasn't that much water, but the older man, I'd say mid 60's got very angry. The kid, about 17 I'd surmise was large in stature and weight. He was quite rotund and reminded me of a Samoan or Sumo wrestler.


The older man got out of his lounger and confronted this kid first threatening, and then punching. The kid got him on the ground and held him there. He would not let the man up and no matter how the man struggled the kid held him down by straddling him with his body. At first the man was frustrated, but he knew he couldn't get away. He kept struggling and moving his head back and forth. He was no match for this kid.

All of the sudden something very interesting happened. The man said he was sorry, but he really meant it. The kid got off of him immediately and stood by him. The man, still on the ground becan to cry and put his hand around the boy's leg in a loving manner. The kid helped him up and the man explained how sorry he was.

They fully hugged with arms wrapped around each other. It seened as if the man just let himself go. He crumbled and he was so sorry. It was almost like a man hugs his child, only the roles were reversed. The young man was the teacher as he was wise beyond his years.

As I recall the man had suffered a death in the family. I think his wife had been sick. This man had anxiety and pain that festered and when something small happened, he lashed out. It may have been his only outlet since the crisis event had happened.

I could not help but be reminded of the people I have worked with over the years where they came to me specifically for this experience. The idea of it can be quite off-putting to see it because maybe it appears to be mean spirited instead of the therapeutic benefit that is ultimately derived from it.


How does it work?

Emotions are moved, even forced to a pinnacle until one reaches the other side of their despair. I can say as I've watched it, there is an emotional breakaway.

These pent up emotions stop a person from moving through life in a peaceful and positive way. There needs to be resolve to move forward in one's own personal life. This is why people have a lot of physical issues and emotional instability. Disease can also manifest in our bodies when we carry around all this despair from traumas.

As I write this, I hear the bird feeders going into overdrive. I love the sound of the Spring song birds beginning to thaw out!

Things are lovely this time of year, although it looks pretty bad until the green starts to show.  Not putting the boots away any time soon and certainly not the fetish boots I adore... Yee hah!

Until next time,
M Sharina
Sensual Femdom Mistress & Dominatrix in Minneapolis, Minnesota

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03/21/2023 UPDATE
"Depravity is only a Perspective! . . . "

As a dominatrix my encounters with people are different than the average person making their way through the day. My days are sprinkled with ODDITIES, reading emails from those needing to be punished or compelled to fulfill their fetishes, which is a huge part of my life's purpose...AND it is the way in which I do it that speaks to the importance.

What are these oddities?

A self described Christian told me, "Depravity drives you crazy and the devil bombards me with lustful urges." He wanted to be punished, but getting to the crux, he was just looking for a sexual encounter, which of course IS NOT WHAT I DO.

I find the struggles very interesting, but I am also compelled to help find solutions that are within my power and expertise and DO NOT reside in my list of TABOO and No interest. DOMINATION IS NOT PROSTITUTION. Not that I have any judgments for people who do this kind of energy work. It just does not describe what it is I do.

I spoke with someone yesterday who was a complete novice. Of all things, he is interested in "testicle skewering." That was an interesting conversation. Oftentimes I "peel the onion" to get at the core of their interest. I did and now we have a special plan.



When I post pictures of my shoes or feet, "Mistress PLEASE sell me your socks and old Sketchers!!!!!" They essentially want to sniff my feet from AFAR.



I do get the occassional 2 AM voicemail message from someone who just wants something specific. "Mistress, I'm looking for "panty games and dares." OK, how about this. I want you to find a pair of your wife's worn panties, get them out of the dirty wash. I want the crotch side over your nose and the rest pulled tightly over your head. Then I want you to go to the supermarket, walk through the store proudly and buy a pair of pink rubber kitchen gloves. If they don't have pink, you'll need to hunt down a clerk and ask them if they have any pink kitchen gloves, and if not, what color they'd recommend. After they recommend the next best color (purple not yellow) ask them which aisle the store keeps their "personal lubrication" in and if it happens to be locked up, and if so, do they have a key. You'll also need condoms...once directed ask, "So your vegetable department is on which side of the store?" OF course you must take a picture of yourself, then video your conversation without the clerk knowing.
There, how's THAT for a game?

I get many serious calls and emails, but the thing I love the most is after having seen a viable person for a session, their secrets stay safe with me forever.

I adore fetishes and people who want to explore their kinky side. Like the guy whose fetish was focused solely on his BELLY BUTTON. Yes, I tickled it, poked at it, used my porcupine quills, wartenberg wheels, violet wand, and toothbrushes for about an hour while he laughed and winced while in bondage.  I wouldn't trade in ANY of these experiences for ANYTHING!

So, how is YOUR week going? Mine...well, today I'm polishing my toes. They are bare naked...

Until next time
M Sharina
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What do they say? "Knowledge is POWER."

If there was a perfect potion that would help you endear yourself to any Femdom you wanted to see, would you want the recipe?

DEFINITELY!

I've just posted a guide for anyone who wants to know the HOW TO'S of "Contacting a Dominatrix."

Here is the link: https://sharinanicole.com/bdsm-domination-sessions/contacting-a-dominatrix-a-how-to-guide-for-contacting-a-dominatrix-femdom-mistress-or-domina#how-to-guide

It may be shared by using the link provided. DO give me credit when you share it.

On another note 🎵🎶🎶

I've been doing some early Spring Cleaning and I opened a box with some pictures in it. I will be posting some of them very soon. I think you'll enjoy them. I was pretty new to Femdom, and I used the Dungeon of Wrapture in the early days. These pictures were taken during that new time. I was fascinated by everything especially when I was introduced to trampling. What? Business attire and my one pair of black shiny high heels I had from when I had gone to Nordstrom and bought them. Yes.

My latex pet, who identified as "Latex Cat" was the one who introduced me to latex. I dressed him in a latex suit, full hood (breathing holes only) a collar, and hung him from the manual winch at Wrapture. Mistress Jacquie showed me how to invert him. I am so glad I have a hard wired suspension system. No handle and no loud noise! It was a total blast. I remember those days as intoxicating.

I was thrilled if I got a new pair of heels or was asked to join Jacquie in a session. I LOVED watching her. It was incredible.

Time flies, but I think we only realize it when we're looking back.

So, I hope you're enjoying time inside while the snow falls ❄ I'm taking advantage of it by clearing out the "cobwebs." 🕷 It is LIBERATING! Do it, make room for the new. I mean that IS what Spring is for! 🐞That, and getting spanked. 😁

Until next time
M Sharina
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You may not know this about me, but I started teasing men online. FOR FREE. Instant Messenger (IM's) was a thing and it was an addiction for me. I would literally lose time.The thing about addiction is about your life becoming unmanageable because of it, so I stopped. I'll tell you the entire story about it sometime. But I did enjoy a particular kind of exchange and there were many. In particular there was this locking chastity device contrived by me for the masochistic. It was always with a needle being soldered through the penis keeping it in place and locks evenly distributed in strategic places. In real life I would have to worry about things like INFECTION, length of time and a whole bevy of issues. But anything in my head was game with the right person. I enjoyed being a TEASE but I also enjoyed being SADISTIC. There were no real limits. I love walking that fine line between fantasy and reality and through IM's, the Internet was my oyster.

Sometimes fantasy involves SADISM. But is there a difference between sadism and cruelty? Maybe the difference is evident in what is truly in the .

I know cruelty. I've been on the receiving end and I was unnerved because I didn't think I knew it truly existed. Not in my world. Cruelty is what one person does to another person to hurt them psychologically or physically.

I am not a TRUE sadist because I need permission to be sadistic. I am not CRUEL because cruelty is an overt willingness to hurt someone. Sadistic is an interesting word, but have you ever experienced the recklessness of true sadism? A true sadist does not need permission to be sadistic. The sadist takes pleasure from the action. Do you think cruelty is the same?

Sure, I can BE sadistic AND I can be cruel but when the scene is over I will bandaid and antiseptic spray you back together. I care about your spirit  We come full circle so you can be affected by what I do.

Question:
Is shoving someone's head in the toilet to drink your piss sadistic or cruel? Neither? Does CONSENT turn these two words around? Then cruelty is found in roleplay and that changes at the end of a scene. I think the word "consensual" makes the unrealistic tangeable.

Where is... 🌻🌼🐛🐞🐝🦋🌻💐🐜

As I write this, I look out the window and see a thick flurry of snowflakes flying at an angle. Weather can be a cruel Mistress...SADISTIC even!

ANNOUNCEMENT!
Look for my NEW PAGE to be posted within a few days. It will not matter where you live, what Mistress you serve or which Mistress you'd like to serve. You will have every tool you'll need to gain Her favor.

Well, that is it for now! I can think of a million things to tell you, and I should really keep track because, I do have a fertile mind.  

Until next time and VERY SOON!
M Sharina

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Certainly the therapeutic value may be simple and a bit like this: "Just let me lose myself for a while and I'll feel better, afterwards." It's like a chiropractic adjustment.

If you see this movie, it may clarify part of the "why," especially if you use D/s for reasons you don't understand. It enunciates the need for Domination and submission to connect with the emotional sides of resolution and release.

I hope if you see this movie you'll drop me a line and tell me what you thought about it.

So, are you finished with old man winter yet? Reminds me of ice cold sheet packing for the mentally insane.

Stay healthy, it's important right now. When the temps go up and down our immune systems may get compromised, so be good to yourself!

Until next time
M Sharina

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02/21/2023 UPDATE
"A Mistress Walks in Ballet Boots, No? . . . "

I think sometimes I breathe kink

I like to watch movies that have a theme to it and a kind of BDSM overtone. I'm sure you've seen some of these movies like Basic Instinct, Secretary, Venus in Fur, 9 1/2 Weeks, and 50 Shades of Grey, which in my opinion opened that cracked door to mainstream vanilla types to kink in a way that made it even more acceptable.

Then, my very favorite opening scene in a series, Billions was able to encapsulate the need in one particular man to escape and release his demons by way of BDSM. To experience pain and humiliation in order to let go. Those who understand, understand.

A long time ago, over 20 years after its release, I bought a French movie called Maîtresse. It came out in 1976, which when I think about it, the content of the movie was so far advanced, I wonder if the world was really ready for it at that time. Although the 70's was a time of burgeoning sexuality, experimentation and exploration. BDSM was often thought of as a "dark" interest and taboo.

Since I saw that movie, it was one of the things that grew my interest in BDSM. Not so much the idea of it, but the feeling of it. I could smell her dungeon... the latex, the leather, all of it. When her dungeon was revealed inside her home through a secret passage, the thief inside was curious of what the use of some of the items were used for. The leather and latex hoods and implements of pain were all foreign to him and he didn't understand them at all. In the trailer he sees these short ballet boots and says something like, "How does SHE walk in these?"

On the cover of the movie jacket it shows a woman with two sides, two faces. One is the dark haired Dominatrix, and the other, a blonde pretty lady. For me, my dual personalities merge, but I keep them separate like you do. By this, I mean that even you have parts of you that must come together, but you also must keep it a secret from those who would never understand. So, when we are together, we get to live out that part of us we keep hidden from others.

I could go into so much more detail, but I'd rather not be a movie critic and just experience my experience from these movies because all if them are about a human "relationship."

Back when I was learning my skills to be a Dominatrix Femdom Mistress, my skills were cultivated by practice. What one cannot come by easily, is the ability to take each moment in a session and decide what is next and needed for the higher physical and emotional experience to let go.

Anyway, I wanted to share that with you since I've had a little extra time on my hands with the SNOW STORM BLIZZARD we are getting this week! I'm catching up on a lot, but also finding time for leisurely things like revisiting old movies and new. I'm about to watch a movie called,  "Dogs Don't Wear Pants." Another BDSM themed movie I'd surmise will be interesting.

So enjoy your week, be safe and watch for the plows!

Until next time
M Sharina

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02/07/2023 UPDATE
"Teasy Tuesday . . ."

I have always loved the seasons here in Minnie, but I must tell you, it has been a literal STRUGGLE to be in the below temps we got last week! Way too much humidity. Makes it feel like the ice is running through you.

STILL...when I do venture out, it better be for a good reason.

If I'm not scheduled for a session, I dream about it. My dreams aren't really too much unlike my sessions and I get to see people who have died and some I haven't seen in a long time. But my dreams are more edgy than in real life. No limits. You've seen cats do it when they play with a mouse.

It's been a hard season for more than just weather, but we are braving it together, right? I am not sure how much cold we have left, but I do know my dungeon studio is always warm especially my main room. The cabinet is full of torture devices and as you know, I have some really keen "Machinas." I have hesitated to get them because I like doing things myself. I've never been one to turn things over to the power of the MACHINES! I only use them as an accoutrement (say it frenchy like, "ahh-coo-trah-mah." Yes, that's it, very nice.

Whatever it is I use, I use it in concert with my skill set. I will always have the desire to have you fully IMMERSED when you are here with me...your respite, your vacation, your therapeutic Asylum.

Be patient, the weather will change. I'll plant seeds and grow an intangible (for now)  garden in your mind.

Time stands still where I am. I LOVE that...

For today, it's Teasy Tuesday! I post teasy things on twitter AND you can see it embedded right here on my website! I posted something yesterday you'll like. Take a look see and if you enjoy checking twitter during the day, FOLLOW ME

Check out Sharina Nicole MINNEAPOLIS DOMINATRIX (@SharinaNicole): https://twitter.com/SharinaNicole

Until next time...

Stay happy, healthy and TEASED!

M Sharina

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01/17/2023 UPDATE
"Do It . . ."

"You want me to do what Mistress?"

"I want you to SUCK MY C**K! I will be training you to be my whore so don't disappoint me." 

My slave looks puzzled but complies with my wishes. He is wondering what his Mistress will really expect of him and how far he'd be willing to go for Her.

With Mistress' collar denoting OWNERSHIP, he is hardly in a position to argue. He KNOWS she will give him an alternative choice and he needs to comply completely or be prepared to choose. Take the lesser of two evils so to speak. But what if the Mistress chooses by withholding what the choice is?

We have a long history my slave and I. He thinks back to when the choice was not revealed. It was like, "you have this door and you already know what THAT is, even though you don't know how far your Mistress plans on going." Then there's door number 2 which is closed, you know nothing. Pick slave. The latter is what you chose. MISTAKE! There is nothing worse than what's behind THIS door. Your Mistress ignores you. Treats you like an object. You are nothing. That was worse than anything. He thought about it. Then complied to her direction no matter where it would lead. This is TRUST and it is also TRAINING with the slaves necessary element of HUMILIATION.

Imagine your Mistress knowing you so well. She digs into your brain and pulls out a predicament with what could be the most unusual outcome. Would she? Could she?

 My mind is fertile. Often times I'm restricted by what I can post. I have not posted anything to my NEW instagram. But I will. I do TWITTER, but I don't post THOSE CERTAIN pics, that's for Fetlife.

Today on Twitter is what I call, "Teasy Tuesday." I posted a couple of GIFs.

I had the heat on in the car. I peeled off my coat and everything underneath. The darkness on the road with the flash of the street lights. I was warm, but hot just thinking someone might see

I think about things during the day and when I close my eyes at night. I'd urge you to feed your mind and feel your body.

Until next time,

M Sharina

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01/09/2023 UPDATE
"Nail Yourself To The Cross . . ."

I speak to quite a few people and have so for years. People ponder DOMINATION and SUBMISSION but little do they know, I have conducted quite a few sessions that have nothing to do with Domination OR submission.

Sometimes the theme is simply EXPLORATORY or could be a deep dive into MADNESS in the case of fantasy and intense roleplay where you may be put in a position of wondering if what is ACTUALLY happening hasn't clean gone off the rails! I'd call that a "thrill ride."

I was speaking with someone recently who explained his fantasy but has never experienced it before (FEMINIZATION) and said, "Maybe I shouldn't be doing this." Which signaled me to ask if he had a religious upbringing, maybe Catholic. He immediately said, "Catholic." I have nothing against belief systems or religion in general, as long as people keep in mind they are free moral agents and guilt plays no part in a balanced life that hurts no one.

Although there is such a thing as karma (natural alignment of cause and effect...you reap what you sow.) In religious belief systems, we are taught overall that indulging oneself in pleasure, perhaps masturbation or a fetish or kink, is wrong. This is only truth if you believe it. There is a lot of self inflicted pain through guilt. It's natural. I myself have come to terms with being "PUNISHED" for something pleasurable.

Guilt does not serve you.

In this new year, aside from the resolutions which may come to harm more than support, SHED what does not serve your spirit

Here's to a TRULY New Year! With HAPPINESS as the resolution!


M Sharina

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01/05/2023 UPDATE
"For a Bashful Girl in TRAINING . . ."

Those of you who know me also know I enjoy a special connection with you. THIS ONE I

I sent THIS  to My Felicity! Such fun instructions during the holiday!

Oh, have a great holiday and one evening, I want you to have a nice girly cocktail. If you don't drink, make it non alcoholic. Slip away if you must... find a moment.

Choices:
Kir Cockrail
Champagne
Pink Squirrel

Blow job shot
Lean over the shot. Put your mouth over the glass, wrap your lips firmly around it, tilt your head back and feel the cream enter your mouth. Now swallow.

I like this so much I'm posting it for all my girls

M Sharina

01/03/2023 UPDATE
"Unexpected Loss . . ."

A friend of mine committed suicide last Sunday, New Years Day. I knew him through the work I do and I also knew his wife very well.

Over the years I've seen many people from all walks of life in my studio. Army and Marines stand out in a unique group of people needing specialized therapy, which, they do not always get. PTSD is real, it creeps up in waking life and in dreams. The stress buries itself in cells and will not let go.

A retired gunnery sergeant explained to me how he'd wake up in the middle of the night in the corner of his bedroom hiding from artillery fire. He'd wake up terrified. TERRIFIED.

The man I knew was a gentle soul, adored his wife and children and they had a happy home. His business was going well and he was very talented. Deeper inside he fought every single day until last Sunday,  he couldnt carry the weight anymore.

I know (like I know) how people use my skills for therapeutic value. I take it seriously, because no matter what the interest in "play" people use it as a way of distraction, comfort, catharsis and healing. Struggling against bondage, being mummified and sensory deprived, being dressed in panties, humiliated or feminized, it does not matter. The end result is the same whether it's needed or not.

I'm not saying everyone needs "specialized therapy." What I am saying is that people who use it to elevate their spirit, need it greatly.

You will be missed . . . you have always been an angel in so many ways. You. Will. Be. MISSED and you are LOVED

M Sharina

HAPPY NEW YEAR 2023!

Let's chat.

"Christmas is over and we're into the New Year!



Remember y2k? I do. It was a weird time. We were all contemplating technology failure through software. Think hospitals, University, power plants, utility companies and telephone systems. Plus, there was a time crunch!

Time flies so fast. Things change in a heartbeat. You know it. You've felt it. You've been through it

So, what's going to be different THIS year?


Think back to 1999. How much in your life has changed since then? If it has not changed, you might have some work to do.

Going back, I remember when I first heard of spankings and sex. What? You've got to be kidding me! Spanky spanky? Now I understand. Not only do I understand about giving one, but receiving one too.

Years ago I had a masochistic/switch boyfriend. He introduced me to an erotic spanking. Ok, I get it now. That was a big wow. The warming of my bottom while being teased to no end. That is one of the reasons I love TEASING (and DENIAL) so much. I understand it. Of course I did enjoy sadistically annihilating him in different ways returning the favor. We would flip a coin. Top or bottom?

Trying something different in a thoroughly experiential way can be mind blowing. It's the most fun I've ever had.



These levels of sexuality is a gravitational force. Apparently, mine has become "The Conductor of Catharsis and,Resolute Peace." Energy Adjustment.

Unknowingly, this is who I've always been meant to become. From everything I've ever done, from every experience I've ever had. Right here right now, the purpose of my life is clear. I am an empathic and therapeutic Dominatrix (with or without pain)

It's the NEW Year, but it is also your continuum of life. Do you know what your "purpose" in life is? Do you WANT to know what it is? Maybe "lifing along" is ok. That is ok too, and there are reasons for this. If you want to know, that's a whole new package to open

Remember: Guilt is not life affirming. Thoughtful reflection has its place when we take responsibility. But guilt has no place because it takes our power away. Be thoughtful, take responsibility and move forward.



I wish for all the people I know and have a fondness for, to take to heart what you have left to experience -  because you just never know. 👀

I'm here. I'm here now and I look forward to this New Year because IT'S LOOKING EXCELLENT!!!!!!

Mwah!

M Sharina

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I talked about fantasies in my last blog post. In case you didn't know, I had my wisdom "tooth" out. While I was reclining waiting for the dentist to come in, I heard some drilling going on in the other room. I could not help but think about "being" the dentist.

"Dr. Nicole will see you now." says my lovely, leggy, sexy blonde assistant. I take a look see in his mouth, his eyes strain to see my breasts. My assistant walks by, her light perfume wafting through the air. I lean his head back, "Take a look at this." She leans over him, close to my face, his eyes pop. "Yep, we're going to need to put him under." "That's nice . . . we can do what we need to do while he's under." She smiles at me knowingly. I smile back. I know what we have a "desire" for . . .

Our patient wakes up in the "Recovery Room" and CANNOT MOVE for reasons the head Nurse has decided is "Best for the patient."

Whispers, "New website Page COMING!!!"

Bundle up! But stay FROSTY!


Until next time,

M Sharina

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12/09/2022 UPDATE
"Perfumed Cleavage to Smother . . ."

This one is going to be a "bebe le' "HOT" blog post because REALLY, I don't think I'm alone in this, but I think incessantly EDGY thoughts ALL THE TIME!

So, I was having a conversation with someone this past week when I caught myself saying something before I had a chance to think twice about it and that it absolutely was 100% honest. I said, "A day doesn't go by when I havent thought of something sexual or kinky." I stopped, thought about it and then thought, "Yeah, I do think of something kinky or sexual every single day." I only wonder how MANY thoughts per day do I have? Not just while I'm awake, it's when I'm asleep too. Naturally for me, akin to how many times one "daydreams" or "touches our face" because with the latter, we do that 23 times PER HOUR according to the CDC. There ARE things we do every day with repetition. For me, I'm tuned in to erotic thoughts and daydreams mostly.


For me, there is a constant stream of emails, phone calls, sessions that do fuel my already sexy mind.

What do I think about? What is my process? It's random.

Off the CUFF, I'm stricken with ideas. I might single out a person I happen to see and I wonder what they would look like naked. News people are my fave and mostly ALL females unless it's men in a group. Especially if it is a conservative news person who has say 36 DDD bra size. They hide it well, no cleavage in sight, but I have x-ray vision...

If I see 2 or more people, the game is: "If I had to choose one person in that group to deep kiss, or have sex with, which one would it be?" I HAVE TO CHOOSE one of the 2 or 3 or 4. "So, if you had to fuck someone in that group, who would it be?" I get an incredulous stare if I'm speaking openly...

 

Have you ever had thoughts like that? I think of the size of a mans penis, what he looks like masturbating. I think of how and what a particular woman looks like when she comes, what she sounds like and how nice to be there when she does it. A fly on the wall. Is she loud? Is she sweaty? Does she taste herself? Are there secrets?

When I dream, sometimes I'm dominating someone. I do things that I would not be able to do in a session, but in my dreams, I can do anything.I want and with reckless abandon. The teasing is harder, the breath play is edgier, the slaps are breathtaking and the humiliation is annihilating.

I have this unique way of helping those find their personal limits and guiding them over that threshold. Just read my Thank You notes. This is one of the noteworthy themes and I appreciate knowing this.

I can't help what I think about. I ride the rails of what I can do safely and what I wish I could do. There was a story in the news where one or more of the women at a nursing facility was "abusing" the elderly. They were bathing them, turning them on and forcing pleasure (yes, you can force pleasure on a person) They were slapping and kicking them (nonconsensually) and climbing on top of them to dominate. I found out about this because my chunky heel trample guy told me about it. He said, "Oh Sharina, if I could be in that nursing home I'D BE SO HAPPY for the rest of  my life! He prays to the kinky gods for this reality.

I thought about it. Wouldn't it be great to give fetishists what they really want for the remainder of their lives? Bondage, sleepsacks, catheters...heels on chest while a  sexy women thumbs through a magazine...IMMENSE JOY! Eyes looking upward seeing stockinged legs, knowing that their nurse would gift them with their worn stockings and panties to sleep with.


There's this other thing I think of often. It is a fantastical fantasy, but I would love it. For me, the idea of being a SPECIALIZED NURSE doing specialized things, would be THE BEST thing EVERRRR. Id be the on call duty nurse. ENEMA Nurse, CATHETER Nurse, and my very favorite SHAVING before surgery Nurse!

I cant tell you everything because you may get the "wrong idea" about me. Sometimes in a session I'll say or think..."In a perfect world" I'd have no consequences, no lines to cross...but I do.

It's the holidays and its almost Christmas I also know it isn't the easiest season for everyone. We are reminded of "conflict." It's a challenging season no doubt even if we are at peace with ourselves and each family member, but some are in recovery from addiction (this is ongoing) and some have some pretty tough memories. So, hang in there, if you need to connect with me, say "Hi" or tell me it's a not so great time right now, I am here. Drop me a line and we'll chat about it a bit.

Remember, think of one thing, one goal to focus on and begin today. We all want to maintain a BALANCE. If you feel "lesser than" (we all do) do a Random Act of Kindness. Leave things better than you found them, put a gift certificate for groceries in an envelope and have someone else give it to someone you think may be in need. A single Mom, a struggling Dad...When we do this, our actions spread like the ripples of water on the lake when you drop a rock in.

Be a rock to someone...

I'll be in touch! I promise! Life gets busy. I'll keep you posted about new things coming...equipment, a new website page, upgrades on rooms. I do love posting pictures to show you though. The Red Room I'm using quite a bit. Sometimes I use 2 or 3 rooms in one session Whatever tweaks the session for you AND for me...So, stay frosty until we meet again.

Until next time,

M Sharina

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11/24/2022 UPDATE
"You are Meant to Fly on a Roller Coaster . . ."

I took a little time off after Thanksgiving to recharge. I'm sure you understand..."But MISTRESS!!!! Where ARE you?!!?"

A sleepy, relaxing way of being is usually at the forefront of what we experience when we take breaks. I'd say we also put our kinks on hold until after the Thanksgiving Holiday. I don't. Almost every night, I dream about what I do in this life, because THIS is my life's purpose. Sometimes though, we just need a bit of a holiday.

Think Madonna's song: HOLIDAY
"It would beee, it would be so NICE! (Jump)



I'm having my web Master Post 2 very lovely Thank you's. People are so nice to me. Power girl spice Cheri reminded me 2 times not to forget to add to my Amazon list. The only time during the year I post anything to celebrate is during my birthday. My web Master likes to post something because, as he says, "people want the opportunity to celebrate you."

I also received the most heart warming gratitude letter from slave mercury on Thanksgiving.

I'm grateful and amazed about a lot of things. Mostly for the wonderful people I get to play with. I enjoy the "relationship" we're in and how my form of therapy works. Even if one doesn't have a fetish or kink, the mere idea of putting yourself in my hands to orchestrate a new experience is cathartic. I use all different kinds of methods. The end result of my kind of therapy is just like putting your hands in the air as you anticipate flying down a tremendous hill on a roller coaster. It's thrill seeking in a very different way. I remember the first time someone put themselves in my hands to submit. It was THRILLING! I'll never forget it.



So, we got through turkey day, Christmas is coming and I know for some of you, it adds new stress and reminders of experiences good and not so good, and of course, people who are no longer with us. It's just that time of year.

Just know that I am here in whatever capacity you need me to be there. I am happy to answer simple and some complex questions through email, which I will anonymously post so others may benefit. If you need an in person meeting, I'll have my web Master put up a new page for this.

I know there needs to be some kind of outlet for times during the year, but especially now during the holidays. We can experience utter sadness, and dysphoria. Its natural to feel these things AND it is greatly illuminated during the holidays.

We press on. We do. It can be challenging, but hang in there. Before you know it, you will have a whole New Year to begin fresh.

I am a firm believer in setting ourselves up to win. I do not subscribe to New Years Resolutions. If you want to change your life, pick ONE thing, master it for 30 days. Think on it, take action and I promise, your life will change. If you begin right now, today or Dec 1st, you will have something mastered by THE END of Dec, in time to ring in the New Year with an actual VICTORY!

Use a calendar, tune into your one goal. SEE your end result.

Keep me posted, drop me a line and let me know how you're doing with it. The key is to pick something ATTAINABLE, yet something a little stretchy. You know a rubber band never goes back into the same shape it was once you STRETCH it. If you stumble, RE COMMIT YOURSELF. New day, new moment, use it.

Pressing on and I am excited for the NEW YEAR! Be well, and remember to take care of yourself,  because if you don't you won't be good to anyone else, and you want to be good for someone.

M Sharina

11/07/2022 UPDATE
" 'Packing' for Pleasure . . ."

First
I'll tell you what I'm up to for this week (and last.) First of all people think it's a bit ridiculous when I cannot schedule them within a short time frame. I balance my work with play time which is one and the same, but because I have a unique way of getting into a person's space, I take time to regroup. Normally I get to book my sessions in advance, and I'll never schedule a new person on the same day I speak to them over the phone. Please plan in advance!

New!
My NEW Red Room will be basically finished THIS WEEK! I absolutely MUST, as I have plans to use it this week during my extended! Finishing touches on my MEDICAL ROOM / KLINIK / MEDICAL ASYLUM too as you'll get multiple feelings about it depending on your session leanings. One is a MEDICAL ROOM, for others, a MEDICAL ASYLUM, you know, "mental institution." The other feel is my Institut de Beauté complete with beautification treatments!

■I'm looking forward to posting some pics featuring my custom LEATHER "STRAIT JACKET" SLEEPSACKS with one LEATHER LINED. If you look, you'll see some supreme CANVAS SLEEPSACK pics with leather belts. I had it customized for the perfect fit. The matching CANVAS HOOD is confining, but completely comfortable even for longer sessions. You DO want to feel how insane you've really become, right? "Yes Doctor Nicole." My reclined sleek white MEDICAL CHAIR is another option.

Care for a peek in my small cabinet? The others are full, and this one has about run out of room.

 

I love my 3 Erostek boxes that are NOT SOLD anywhere! (they're impossible to find anymore)

Alternative
So, I thought I would also mention that on occasion, people want to sit down for a chat, an extensive conversation about all kinds of things. It could be personal, a request for perspective, or a generalized connection with your Mistress.

I'll briefly elaborate by saying since I have not made the decision to go out to a restaurant, what I've done is provide a lunch or dinner with beverages in my main room where the atmosphere is warmly lit, table set up and we are served while chatting. Personally,  I have enjoyed the intimate conversation where I do not need to worry about those who eavesdrop. If you are interested in this kind of thing, I offer it.

The Goods
Just today I was reminiscing about my "packing dick" which I still have. It could be used and fitted to the urethra in order to pee out if it in a men's bathroom if one were so inclined. For me, it rounded out my Gemini personality, and there are SO many of my personalities I let out of bag. This particular personality enjoyed "women's boxers" and packing a dick on occassion. Now, if it could ONLY do the thing real dicks can do...

I don't really think all of us desire to explore the other side, but I do know there is a need for it. For me, that soft fleshy apparatus made me feel different and I enjoyed it. I LOVE being feminine and all aspects of it. I enjoy male energy and being able to allure men in a consensual environment. The power that a woman has over men is wonderful and yet men, when they understand their ability to allure women with gentle power, only feeds their masculinity as it feeds my feminine power to be feminine.

And then there is PLAY!
This week was VERY COOL as although I am always working with people in various forms of Feminization, I got to play with someone on the F2M perspective. He was male energy all the way and because I enjoy playing with male energy so much, it was quite an exquisite honor to be with *his* particular energy. "Here, let me take you "there." I do not take the rapport I initiate with anyone AND the trust that they have in me to schedule a session for granted. I know it can be NERVE RACKING! Especially when I am their first.

This same week I spoke also to an out and proud M2F living her true self. Courageous and strong she is AND I admire that mindset so much. Listen and learn...

I will be enjoying an extended session this week having Ms Mya there with me to embellish the hotness We've played together for many years.

I think that is it!
WAIT! Please remember to VOTE FOR WOMEN at the polls. We all need to support women in all forms, WOMEN, Supreme Mistress Deities...Respect women's rights It's an important time in our history.

Until next time...

M Sharina

10/27/2022 UPDATE
"Down From the Ledge . . ."

 During a crossdressing session, someone experienced shear panic! I was caught off guard, but I have been faced in the past by Medical Emergencies, paranoia and yes, PANIC.  

Mistress,
(Personal Message Omitted)
 
On a different note I was on your website and I saw your note about me.  I realized how caring you are but also how well you really know who I am.  It is very comforting but also maybe dea little scary because I have kept this so deep inside me for so long.  I mentioned I have been to other sessions before but never anything like yours. You truly brought something out of me I that I never felt before. It was amazing but I think it was so new that it overwhelmed me.  I do want to keep striving to bring that feeling to the forefront.

Thank you

 
I know she left in a good mental state, which is very important to me.

Last week I put an experienced player in a strait jacket, which he loved, and although he adores bondage, as soon as I placed a leather hood over his head, he told me he felt panic. I immediately removed the hood, checked in with him and used plan B which was a comfy padded leather blindfold.

I never know and YOU never know how you will respond to being played with. So, we deal with it when and if it comes up even if you're experienced.

I've been working hard to return phone calls and emails.  If you don't hear back within 3 days, please contact me again, Thx!

I keep ordering more things that'll make your session more fun and just may tweak you into liking something you never thought you'd love. Like the Doctor who was introduced to 2 different straight jackets while I played with his wife and he LOVED IT!

Which, I have a super nice canvas hood that is coming this week! It matches the canvas sleep sack with the belts. I WANT YOU IMMOBILIZED! (But only if it doesn't scare the hell out of you!)


It's still "LOCKTOBER," so for fun, I got a little sissy pussy chastity device to add to my collection. Too cute!

So, over and out for now...
M Sharina

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I had a session last week. This person had sessions with other Mistresses before me. It was a 2 hour Forced Feminization session. Abruptly, I hear, "Mistress may we stop, just finish the session?" I did a check in making sure it wasn't a physical situation. Come to find out, the experience was overwhelming. There was no pain, tight bondage or anything out of the ordinary that would cause discomfort. Although I went slow, I think the experience had him confront his insides truly being on the outside. I got under his skin . . . molded him, spoke to him gently coercing the inner Femme out. He wasn't completely ready for this and panicked.  I did talk him down off the ledge.

I transferred him to the bondage table, turned the lights down. Explained the effects that sessions have on some people and that overall, no matter what the session entails, the residual effect is therapeutic. I ran my fingers over his body while speaking. I placed my hands on his feet, cupped the toes and squeezed the arches.

I create a safe place for people to explore who they really are and sometimes it is relevant to leave that part of them at the studio until  they return, when they get to embrace it again.

This was all too much for my crossdresser and I've had all to many people who are at so many different levels of their male to femininity persona to wonder what their next personal step is, it didn't surprise me, but it did.

So, if it looks like a man and the insides are girl, there can be varying degrees of interpretation and acceptance to confront (or not) Leave it as fun, interpret your truth any way you like because I create a safe space to do so.

Things come up during sessions. They just do. Shedding the layers of armor we pad ourselves with, is one thing that creates freedom to be who we are, even if it's just for a little while to share it with someone who understands.

Reflected in the Thank You note I received from "Felicity", I am happy she worked through whatever stopped her during our first session together.

Accept yourself for "who" you are. Sure, fear comes in sometimes, but that's where the juice is. When you stretch a rubber band, it doesn't go back into the same shape it was. Be comfortable in your own skin. 


M Sharina

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Why am I mentioning this?
MSP - Minneapolis Saint Paul Airport is #1 (Numero Uno!)

J.D. Power 2022 study: Top 10 BEST MEGA AIRPORTS in the United States.

Well, for you it means no fuss, no muss for a quick airport shuttle. My driver picks you up from MSP Airport and delivers you to my Studio Fatale and back to the Airport. Wearing silky panties in coach while you anticipate meeting your Mistress can be thrilling...or THRILLING! It is such a short drive to Studio Fatale a quick straight shot. One or two stop lights...

The 30 minute spanking sessions are OVER now. "NO MISTRESS! Say it isn't so!" YES, it is so! The problem with them was, it was too difficult for ME to do a 30 minute spanking even if it might be a Judicial Corporal Punishment red hot bottom quickie, a Mommy Dearest, NO-more-wire-hangers, or a "This is going to hurt you more than me, I promise,. Now don't make a mess over my lap kinda session...

My NEW RED ROOM is almost finished. Since I talked to you last, I embellished the curtains, hung a sexy mirror, added lighting, added furniture, and the bedding is very schmarmy. Think: HOLLYWOOD REGENCY. Obviously, I STILL have my phenomenal collection of wigs, makeup, exquisite lingerie, heels, garters & stockings all for my crossdressers!

I did get my canvas bondage sleep sack with a full array of thick leather belts! Ooh, STRAP IN! I have also tried it out. I like the arm sleeves inside, and you will like it too with me at the helm of your torment

I suspect Wednesday will be one last hot day until....Studio Fatale takes over your heat source! BUT! I will batten down the hatches and the only Her-ricane is the one in your panties.

Cool breezes up my skirt today as I toil in the studio creating new visuals for my wonderful slaves,dolls, sissy gurls, laboratory animals, patients and PRISONERS.

Did I miss anyone? Drop me a line. I think it's safe now.

Until next time...
M Sharina

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Well, I am around, just not in obvious view! I will tell you what I've been up to in the NEWS section of this blog post and also say I've been flittering about on Twitter tweeting bits and pieces (where I have permission to post pics) and doing quick check-ins. Overall I've been doing extended sessions which, I will only schedule one session per day. (Protecting immune compromised and those with health issues.)

The kinds of sessions I've been doing have been extended. Main interests have been with out of town people seeking unique experiences. Some I know, some are new to me.

SESSIONS:
Examples are Forced Womanhood/Crossdressing, Hypno-Control, Sensory Deprivation (deep dive) Medical and Roleplay of all sorts (yee hah!) Warden/Prisoner, extensive CBT/pain-pleasure wave, mummification and belt bondage.

My favorites were the 2 part/2 day session. Major sensory deprivation, OBJECTIFICATION, forced feminization, sensual hypno-therapy and guided imagery taking us BOTH to erotic places. I used the Nova Pro on the second day. Good thing he requested a driver...😊

The other very intense extended I did was 3 part/3 day. "Sarah" was immersed up to her pretty little pierced ears in dress up, crossdressing, feminization transformation. Some "talk therapy" where only your confidante could possibly understand your life as it is and receive the right energy back.  

I can go months without doing any CORPORAL you know, but then I start "handling" the singletail whips, placing them down, looking longingly but walking away. Consensual is very IMPORTANT to me... But you know what I mean. Every email I open up is a surprise...

COVID:
As for Covid, if you have not been vaccinated, Omicron will hit you pretty hard whereas if your VAX's are up to date, it's much better. Better if you have the latest vax against Omicron, which I will be getting this month.

NEWS:
Finishing touches on the "Red Room." Everything done in excellence takes time, but I do enjoy the process! Right now, getting ready to hang the mirror. Soon I'll post pics on Twitter!

CONTACT:
I will be changing my voice mail to reflect alternative ways of contact. Give me time to return your call or Email.

Exchanging energy with people is what I do and it's what I enjoy. I don't know how to get to know you or do sessions any other way. I am emotionally committed AND I choose who I share energy with. This is why the initial phone call is so important.

I KNOW that everything I've done in my life has lead me to where I am now in assisting others to their supreme experiences. From my Esthetician background, to my medical training and experience, to hospice and bereavement counseling and life coaching transformation. I combine it all with my 26 years of experience in professional domination. I have loved all these things, AND I love being with you the most utilizing all my skills.

EQUIPMENT:
I have a new CANVAS SLEEPSACK with 3 zippers and BELTS! Excited to use it for the first time. (You will not be sleeping in it, but you could try. You know how wet dreams are, right?)

I expect my LEATHER SLEEPSACK to be arriving this week from Europe. This one has leather encased arms to be tied outside the sack itself. Smothering leather.  I only buy good quality soft thick leather.

NEW leather ARMBINDERS with lots of D-rings is also on its way.

There you have it! I think I've updated you on things and mostly "fun things." Which as you may recall I now have 2 really Fffffun machines to add to the "machines I already have now, but I need those with curiosity and a bit of stamina might help too

Until next time...
M Sharina

Sensual Femdom Mistress & Dominatrix in Minneapolis, Minnesota

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Should I state the obvious? Entering into a new season where being buckled into a leather sleep sack takes on a whole new meaning. Do you get the chills when you feel a cold breeze moving in on your face like I do? Well, we both need to keep warm,  so how 'bout I do some titillating things to you while you are surrounded and encased in the intoxicating smell of leather?

I must keep you warm while you adjust to the Fall chill in the air. Don't worry. You'll be in a TIGHT FITTING CHASTITY DEVICE while you feel a certain vibrational tone of ELECTRO-STIM that has entered your core. Your real vacation begins...now as we both say "Helloooo, Fall!"

It could be "The Year of Encasement" while I try out some new items I'm collecting. LEATHER STRAIT JACKET sleep sack where you'll be doing anything but sleeping, although you WILL slip into Dream Land depending on where I want to take you.

The MEDICAL ASYLUM  will also gain an accoutrement. A long body CANVAS sleep sack with pretty tan leather belts. I can see you now, tape over the mouth presenting my signature kiss mark on your rubberized lips.

There are a million ways to skin a cat. Just ask my Familiar, Latex Cat. I have been his QMKT "Queen Mistress Kitty Tamer for 25 years." He introduced me to latex play.

When I speak of ENCASEMENT, I speak from experience inside and out of the bag. Latex Cat and I went to the Rubber Ball in England together. I put him in a latex sleep sack, latex hood with 2 nose holes and a gag. I was enjoying a bit of schmarmy vibration play while teetering over my kitty. The latex was slippery. My naked body was fluid and I fell off! I knocked the picture on the wall and cracked the lamp. My kitty was mouthing "MISTRESS! ARE YOU OK?!!?" He could do nothing.  I had a HUGE BRUISE on my arm. Pics and story are on my website, just do a search for "Rubber Ball."

Anyway, enjoy the beautiful weather here in Minnesota while it lasts, because soon you'll be needing some sexy warmth to get you through the chilly times ahead.

M Sharina
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09/06/2022 UPDATE
"Are You Ready For The Week? . . . "

It's Tuesday, are you ready for the week?!!?! Short week, but I have a few "vacationers." I'll call it an extended Labor Day vacation

I think taking time, especially Labor Day weekend (which signals the end season of summer) is very important to RE-CHARGE!

Me, I was looking through some of my boxes and found some interesting tidbits I will eventually share with you. I did an interview with a lady who started up a magazine resource for DOMINATRICES! I was in her first issue of Passion Magazine. Ms Diamond was a true "Sister" in the art of the BDSM lifestyle. I think she did almost a dozen issues, but magazines aren't as popular as swooning over the Internet.

Speaking of which, I used to also do ads in the DDI (Dominatrix Directory International) which has also fallen by the wayside of the more popular Internet directories that I'm using now. I adored these directories and magazines. I have FETISH and SECRET magazines in my time capsule

I'm positive I'll re-read the interview and see how far I've come in my skill level and view points on BDSM play. After all, I am always EVOLVING and honing my skills to new levels, because we know there's more to domination than me pointing to my boot and saying, "LICK IT LOSER" although there is a fun place for that.

Lots to do today! 3 hours this evening. I'll be taking pics since he's good with that. I sharing my excursions with you.

Updating my "mutual adoration page" with a special thank you I received in my P.O Box

Until next time
M Sharina
Sensual Femdom Mistress & Dominatrix in Minneapolis, Minnesota

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When you send me your session requests, I LOVVVVE IT! Gets my creativity sparked. I begin to arrange the ideas and then tweak it. It's like a recipe, but then anything can happen when we're actually together in person and if you're new to me...I peel the onion, always testing you to see where we can go.

Take for instance a "007 session" I'm filled with tormenting James.. especially to see if he can keep himself in check knowing that sexy women spies are always trying to extrapolate SECRET information from him.

I adore the themes...WE SPAR. Secret Agent Bond must go for his annual check up and prove he is viable to go back into the field. UNFORTUNATELY "Honey Maren" always has the last word once James realizes the water he has drunk was poisoned... BUT, if he can keep his head, the poison will not travel to his

Today, the overall theme is one of my favorites. I am a court appointed (sadistic) psychologist. It is I who will decide if my subject gets probation or PRISON. I put him through hellish experiences, make him jump through MY hoops and since I have ALL the control, I know I will win with my titillating fire, KNOWING he will fail.

I ALWAYS wonder and sometimes I ask, "How did you come upon having THIS kink?" "What do you mean Mistress? You mean by my own ability (or inability) to pass your tests, I end up fucking myself?" Why yes. Yes, that's exactly it.

The other day I was really enjoying my interaction with a "patient." Little by little I broke him down. It was real to him and real to me. I made him hold a 1000 mil bag of saline in each hand with arms outstretched and then turned on the stopwatch, just to get an idea of his overall strength which would fade as he grew weaker. Then, out came the DICE. A game of chance...a chance he would fold, a chance he could "win." But, that was just a dream. I had my ideas already. Pain? Pleasure? What would the roll mean?

The other day I spied what I thought was a cage...it was a crib and it was square with bars. It did not have a top to it AND that was the only reason it wasn't a cage.

You think this person will grow up to crave being put into a real cage when he grows older? When you're young, you learn to deal. They adjust to what they originally hate. Then there's finding yourself in your sister's closet  with your face in her shoe. The smellll... Thrown over the lap of one of the bratty girls on the playground and you get EXCITED. So, you're always chasing the dragon and your dragon is your FETISH!

Still getting new "items" to embellish your kink!  Think CANVAS, MEDICAL ASYLUM, extra bondage BELTS and lots of RESTRICTION. But don't worry, I'll get to you... I am also getting a very nice LEATHER bondage sleep sack with tit flaps. You will be doing anything but sleeping in it. Go ahead...try.

Well, that's all the news for now. I was MIA last week with emails and phone calls because I was in the studio every day. That called for a "coma" weekend. Please don't hesitate to contact me again to let me know I missed you.

I'm enjoying my small harvest of cherry tomatoes, lots of MINT and CHIVES! The flowers are gorgeous and my Lavender is SO tall I've named it Lavvy.

Enjoy your wonderful days of summer

M Sharina
Sensual Femdom Mistress & Dominatrix in Minneapolis, Minnesota

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I got a distinct BUZZ when I was watching another Mistress doing rope bondage in her dungeon. I was uniquely surprised. This was years ago and yet I remember it like it was yesterday..

I said to her, "I feel buzzed." She said, "I know, me too."
SIMPATICO

Until then, I had no idea just watching bondage play could cause me to get turned on. The buzz feeling is in my throat. A certain kind of calm energy. You know, during the worst part of Covid when it began, I stopped doing sessions for about 3 months. I ended up feeling very melancholy, disjointed and uninspired. I guess you could say BDSM play for me is like light and sun is to a person with Seasonal Affective Disorder. (S.A.D) When we don't have that component, we feel depressed and less like ourselves.

I do enjoy getting turned on by strange things. Piercing nipples, torturing bulbous nipples and feeling the warmth and destruction on mine. I've been drawn to missing fingers and limbs, physical challenges and those who are ample in size and controlling them and touching people who aren't used to being touched The list is long and it is growing.

On another note, I have a new GLASS medical cabinet for the "The Asylum." A display case for electrical boxes and gadgets. I love collecting and re-arranging these things to stun and use on my laboratory animals and crash test dummies

Are you enjoying your Summer and making the most out of feeling your feet in the grass while sipping on a cool drink? I have heard from some of you and I appreciate you including me in your life, your celebrating accomplishments, your sadness in grief and things kinky things that interest you.

I'll say "bye" for now and look forward to what is next. Time sure does fly...
Be happy and be well!

M Sharina
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08/04/2022 UPDATE
"AGAIN, The Porn Mistress! . . ."

I watch porn from the standpoint of doing things to people. I know if you enjoy being played with, you place yourself in the role of being played with. When you're in a scene with a Mistress, do you ever wish she'd do something to you and then she actually does it? MIND BLOWING!

If I were to say what turns me on the most, it is when you are subjugated to my toying with you. I like to force you to love it AND/or ENJOY suffering for me.My Mistress loves this! I will take it! For me it just means the rewards are intricately woven. I love teetering you between all emotions that fit the scene. Erotic teasing, truly the yin and the yang.

So how is your summergoing? I check the temperature on an app on my phone. Apparently, they got it wrong when the "feels like" temp was 140° Holy WTF?

My blog is late...I've been balancing email responses, sessions, website stuff, writing an article, clearing out the studio of things I don't use/need. Thinking if erecting a store from my closet to make room to bring in new stuff, which, if you've been keeping track. I've been enjoying my electrical boxes and "macheens"

That's about the jist of it! Drop me a line, I'll try to keep up!

Hot Summer Cheek Squeezes!

M Sharina
Sensual Femdom Mistress & Dominatrix in Minneapolis, Minnesota

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07/25/2022 UPDATE
"Real Life is a MEME . . ."

Recently I posted a funny meme on twitter which basically says, "Men, if you're over 50, leave the young girls alone and find a woman who knows the signs of a stroke." Funny right?

Well, over the years I've been in situations that were "very sticky" AND since your secret is safe with me, I will protect you to the ends of the earth, which means if you have a "medical situation" your Mistress needs to know what to do. So really, what could happen? I'm healthy!

*TIA - Trans Ischemic Attack
*Vasovagal nerve
*Fainting
*Dehydration
Testicular Torsion
*Emotional Triggers
*Physical Weakness
*Onset Anxiety
*Viagra Reaction
Sprain, broken bone
*Profuse bleeding
"Lingering Vertigo

*I have experienced these things first hand. The rest I am aware of and know what to do.
 
There are a lot more, but I bet you've never thought of these things. Some can happen at any age, while others happen when you're older.


I had a retired doctor visiting. I've known him for 19 years. We were relaxing and chatting before play. He begins staring into space. I caught him just before he collapsed in his chair. I had to safely get him to the floor without subjecting him to a concussion. I knew what to do and he was saved from a trip to the ER in women's lingerie. I took quite a few steps in reviving him. He spent his whole life being a doctor and with vast experience. But that doesn't help me if he is UNCONSCIOUS. I need to know what to do IMMEDIATELY.

We are only human. We need to be cared for and protected.

A trip to the ER is not sexy. A trip to MY carefully construed Medical Asylum IS, because it is planned, woven intricately into the threads of your hospital gown.

It's going to be a HOT ONEthis week! Be careful, hydrate yourself and know when to sit down, put your feet up and CHILLAX!  The only "ER" you really want to visit is the one I've created in my studio. Dr. Nicole will see you now...

As always
M Sharina, MD
Medical Dominatrix

Sensual Femdom Mistress & Dominatrix in Minneapolis, Minnesota

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07/19/2022 UPDATE
"You Better Work Bitch "

Can we talk about porn for a second? As you know, I find pornography very interesting. It fills a gap between fantasy and brings it to life in living color. It also has us fantasize even more.


I remember watching a video at the suggestion of Ms Mya. It has since become a favorite. It was called "Bella Loves Jenna." There were parts if it that were questionable, like the midget on a bicycle riding it in circles in a Circus atmospheric haze. Jenna Janeson was in it. I don't think I've ever enjoyed watching a woman suck cock more than this. She's literally loving it up, there's all this foamy drool, her mascara is running, her eyes are watering and she is getting high off of taking it so deep. It is SO hot MAJOR hot, tssssst!


I've since found Harmony videos to be the best. Well done, sexy, dreamy and more hotness than you'd need with one rendezvous with yourself. The ones I watch always have some BDSM intertwined. The Dom always uses her slave in one way or another and I don't mean to bake her cookies.


My all time favorite, which I would play at parties, was a spliced video of Britney Spear's "Work Bitch" out in the desert on this platform with these hot women who are all dancing in unison...cut to a pool...then light flashes of more hot women doing things that aren't in the original Britney video. Pussy, fucking, cock sucking...the vid brings you in gently so you don't know it's really happening. You question Brit for a split second thinking she has gotten TERRIFICALLY racey and how did she get away with THIS? Then WHAMMO! Who ever did this video did an amazing job, plus there's a singletail whip,  black shiny thigh high boots, what's not to LOVE?


Then, there's the unadulterated Mr. S Fetters catalog. Male on male toys. I remember the old catalog, it was huge with the same men in the store as in the catalog.  I'm not gonna lie. My heart was a flutter, and I LINGERED in the store. My favorite was Anthony. A beautiful short haired blond and perfect boy body. He said he liked my top. I smiled, acted normal enough but almost dropped dead.


Onto other THINGS! . . .

My Red Femme Room is coming along great! I had a small chandelier installed so my ladies feel GLAMOROUS. I loved it when it was pink, but I decided to change it to something more GLAMOR FEMME. Still not finito because
I am waiting for a custom piece, and in the process of procuring another finishing touch.


Uniquely, I've never found "Quick and Dirty" in my repertoire. Everything I do is well thought out or researched. I did get a couple of machines, you know the ones... I haven't brought my latest motorized device to the studio yet. I'm fine tuning this heavy work of art.


Nice to touch base. This time of year is so busy, but be very careful in this heat. When the humidity is high, it is very dangerous to be out for too long. SAFETY FIRST!

I have a pretty flower box garden at home. I have mint, basil, rosemary, lavender and chives! Oh, and two tomato plants, one cherry and one regular.  There really is something about the affirmation that one can actually make things to EAT! Nosh nosh!


Love to you now and until next time...

M Sharina

07/04/2022 UPDATE
"Playing With My Toes . . . "

First of all, HAPPY 4TH OF JULY! I hope that you and your family have a safe & happy 4th!

What better way to celebrate the 4th than by putting on a few coats of new toe polish? BLUE SPARKLES! I it!

Last week was a blaze and I do mean hot in the studio. You'll see it on Twitter which is embedded here on my website.

So many fun things . . . I used my anal CHASTITY device and a urethral CHASTITY device, in concert, a real concerto! Loved every minute!

Mucho time with my slave from out of State...3 days of bondage, caging, an assortment of chastity devices, painful prickly CBT devices, FIRE PLAY corporal...well basically I used him up! He loved being my slave which took him out of his stressful element where he placed himself in my all too capable hands.

I recovered over the weekend lounging in my skivvies and painting my toes and definitely smoothing out my fingernails for some fisting this week. Not always pretty, those short nails, but I take my craft seriously and cannot do things I love (and you love) with long sharpie claws.

This week, catching up on a lot! Finishing the Red Femme Room, FINALLY. Emails, sessions and phone calls. I wish I had a secretary, but there are things I can only do. Like feel your energy up over the phone and if it feels right, torment you to the living end.

Looking forward to the new things! There are always new things, eh? In the meantime, MWAH to the 4th! Make it a safe one . . .

'Til next time,

M Sharina

06/22/2022 UPDATE
"The Terminator . . ."

Can I just say, "I'm so happy to be back!"

While I was away, I was not able to return phone calls, and emails fell by the wayside, but I'm caught up right now. I've taken today, Tuesday to regroup.

SCHEDULE WISE as it stands right now, I have this Friday (or) Saturday open, and then a 3 day session from Monday to Wednesday. I will be taking Thursday to chillax and then I'll be scheduling appointments after July 1st.

I am able to be taking pictures of this 3 day session...EXCITED. It will be different than the last extended 3 day with "Sarah" who was eventually put on the proverbial RAILROAD TRACKS and left for me to rescue! (I did not. More tease,  more bondage, she knows the drill)

This will be a FULL PRISON AND BONDAGE SCENE. By the time my PRISONER leaves, he will be in an utter state of euphoria and a good brain scramble...AND, I have a new leather bondage system for PRISONERS arriving tomorrow. A cornucopia of "medical *treatments* BONDAGE, electro-stim, ELECTRICITY CATHODE shooting up the prisoners orifices. No. YES. Nnnnoooo! YESSSSS!!! (Slaps prisoner) "SNAP OUT OF IT! YOU HAVEN'T A CHOICE!" Enemized and NEEDLE POKED, strapped down like a helpless laboratory RAT!

(I am sooooo excited!!!!)

Ok, so there you have it. I kinda lingered a little in that Warden/prisoner scenario. I'm also thinking MEDICAL INSANE ASYLUM where the prisoner requires physical THORAZINE!!!

I do hope you're havin' a summer! So far, so hot, especially in my panties....you know it's TRUE. If you were lucky, I shoved them into your nose and taped them to your head.

Let the "games" begin...

M Sharina

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06/12/2022 UPDATE

"Teetering on The Edge . . ."

I LOVE IT! I have new ear buds, a charging station and a keyboard case! Working smarter not harder Thank you so much for helping me celebrate my birthday! Your gestures mean the world to me...

I did plant lilac bushes and flowers! Pretty up the world I say!

NEWS FLASH!
I will be in Colorado June 16 to 21st and I have some sessions scheduled for that week with some phone calls to return, so please plan your session time in advance, especially to be booked after June 22nd. Thx

NOTE
I WILL BE RETURNING PHONE CALLS AND EMAILS WHILE I AM AWAY.

I hope you are ready for SUMMER!

I know I am...

M Sharina

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Wishing you and your family a very safe, and happy Memorial Day.

Enjoy your Memorial Day Stay safe!

 

M Sharina

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05/25/2022 UPDATE
"I Have a Window . . ."

This will be a quickie note to touch base. You know I like to jot something down for you on my website blog, so here it is and better late than never!

I have a fellow Gemini whom I celebrated while he was in tight bondage. CUPCAKES! Make a wish...

Btw, I love my new locking belts!

I wanted to thank you for some very nice birthday treats you have been so generous to gift me! Id love to post some pictures soon. My birthday is May 29. Dare I say it's magical!

UPDATE: I will be visiting Colorado in a few weeks! I have a purpose for being there, so I may be able to fit in a session or two depending on a few things.

Having said that, I will also be visiting Southern California, (San Diego area near Murrieta) so if you're interested in where I'll be for both trips, drop me a line.

I'm still posting on Twitter, so look for me there AND I occasionally post on Instagram too!

I think it's safe to say, "May showers bring May flowers!" Enjoy what's coming because before you know it, those little flakes will be flying!

M Sharina

I don't know about you, but I'm absolutely SWIRLING in SPRING TIME!

I am taking some time to plant flowers and put up some "spring lights" that look just like baby's breath. Tiny little LED lights in the foyer above the door, spring wreath in place, LOVELY! I am a trendsetter for the neighborhood.

I have also been rummaging through my garage at home "clearing out the wreckage" and finding memories. I found a very thin wood paddle I need to smooth out. I cannot bare to throw it away. Also, some FANTASTIC pictures (BELOW! - SCROLL DOWN!), a heavy electrical plug that needs work.

By the way, I now have 3 Erostek ET-312B Electro-stim boxes (plus a smaller Erostek ET-302R Electro-stim w/ remote), you cannot buy them anymore through the company who no longer is making them. I will be getting 2 of them tuned up. If you have one and need it repaired, I have just the guy for you! For you E-stim lovers, YES . . . I STILL have (and use) my E-stim2B, P.E.S., tens, and more).

Did I tell you about the other things too? I get so excited about NEW toys! I'll have to get some pictures of the BLACK BOX and the Supreme leather straps. Today I'm heading to pick out just the right locks for them because each one has a DOUBLE LOCK.

Strapped into the birthing chair? YES PLEASE!

Thank you for touching base with me during my birthday month! I've loved hearing from you AND one really nice and descriptive story of a dream...I LOVE THAT!

EXCERPT ONLY (from someone that wrote to me and shared their dream):

SHARINA'S NOTE: I left out the really explicit parts

"You walked in front of me as i was bent ober the edge and Ms placed her cock into my mouth, giving direction and telling me that i am about to get....

DO I LOVE INFILTRATING YOUR SLEEP AND DREAMS?
I IT!

Well, enjoy my funny memories today and have the best week!

M Sharina

05/10/2022 UPDATE
"Isn't That Just the Dog's Meow . . ."

I wasn't sure if I wanted to tell you this or not because it is so strange. But I cant help thinking about it.

I had this dream where I was in someone's yard with a fence that separated us. I looked to the left and there were 2 large poodles walking around straight up like humans. Their hind legs were a bright pink, like they had been dipped in pink dye. One of the poodles had this huge penis (as you know, I look at porn and pictures of stuff to collect) It was very long and very "dangly" and very thick between the legs. The dog turns into a woman who looks sexy but kind of house-wifey. So this poodle dog person starts to insert this long and heavy rubber penis in the other while it's bending over with its bright pink furry legs. All this time, I'm not staring, I'm seeing it out of the corner of my eye...

Hello and WTF? I kinda liked that dream.

My dreams are vivid and most of the time sexual. I think we dream things that are little pieces of what we think of and experience every day. I never saw a pink legged poodle, but there it was, a larger than large standard poodle. The whole thing was not shocking, it was more like every day life, I was just trying to get glimpses out of the corner of my eye.

Weather is getting nicer! I planted flowers and hung my wreath on the door with purple flowers. I also have timed lights just like Christmas. We need more JOY!


But Covid numbers are up. I'm only seeing those who are vaccinated right now for my safety and yours. I'm vaccinated 1-2 and booster 3.

Here is the news on my equipment excursions! I now have 3 Erostek boxes, which you cannot buy from Erostek anymore.

I have a fun new device called the "Tremblr" and truth be told it is much more powerful than the Venus. I now have my LOCKING LEATHER STRAPS! I just got them yesterday, so I have yet to break them in. They are SUPERRRRRBE!

Enjoy the Springtime that has finally arrived but don't forget to fill your mind with kinky things that show up in your dreams!

M Sharina

Your Titillating Tormentor

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05/03/2022 UPDATE
"Bondage Porn . . . "

So I was watching some videos on porn hub Sunday. There was a very nice hog tied lady, her legs spread, vibrator positioned, nose hook encouraging her head back and FORCED orgasms...(I turned up the volume) Squirting videos used to be my favorite, but just like fashion, seasons change. Watching her IMMERSED and totally in it, pressing up against her restraints and not only feeling uncomfortable but feeling forced pleasure.

A woman in bondage, nothing more vulnerable and powerful. I love watching her being forced to orgasm. Legs spread apart, a fucking machine penetrating her...so beautiful. There isn't anything she can do...she is helpless.

I think when a rigger concocts a dilemma especially for a sexy woman bucking up against her restraints feeling sensations of vulnerability, trust and intense pleasure, the rigger feels proud and satiated.

I'm not a rigger in the sense of the word, but when I put together a unique set of sensations using the tools I've chosen, I am the CONDUCTOR and conduit if EXPERIENCE.

YES MISTRESS!!!!!
So, I got some new TOYS! One is in a large BLACK BOX that plugs into a wall. I also have 2 new floggers, a BULLWHIP, a glass phallus to add to my brimming collection of GLASS. Another rosebud sounds kit with gold handles, some crops and canes, (acrylic) parachutes, one with thicker spikes, a pink latex pair of panties with an extra feature, some SPIKEY spin dials (Not wartenberg, I have quite the assortment of those) and a few other things I can't remember...I also have on order some LOCKING bondage belts arriving soon!

ALL FOR YOU

Sooooo, DO something VIVID every day. FEED YOUR SOUL and your sexy mind. Find the time and do it because you never do know what's around the corner in life.

Love,

M Sharina

Your Titillating Tormentor

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04/26/2022 UPDATE
"Ok, WHAT?"

I had something happen to me, It happened last week when I was doing some online shopping. I saw this huge assortment of dildos and one in particular struck me in an odd way. It was long, slender and had kind of a circle on top like a blind eye, but no eye, just like something you'd see in abject horror under a microscope. It turned me on. I could only think if it invading me and what that'd be like. THAT was the part that got me.

I wouldnt propose this particular item would do the same for you, only that I know you've perused the Internet and found something unexpected and it hit your pants just like it did mine, and whammo!

Maybe it was something that happened in a scene. I took the reins because I knew just a little adjustment and tweak of a session would be the right thing for you and take you into that special place...I'm always re-evaluating during a session. I'm like a mixologist, only with D/s, BDSM

I always like to touch base with you, and this week I'm a little late. But here I am after a full day of chill and ready to go today with "J" and since he LOVES it when I take pictures of him suffering, I'll be posting some soon (somewhere on kink friendly social media) He does take nipple torment/torture quite well!

Btw, I'm getting a new piece of equipment very soon! DHL will keep me posted on delivery. Any day now. Drop me a line and I'll tell you what it is. Also, my two rooms are coming along...finding time to finish the tweaks! New rooms you may be surprised turn you on

Make it a good week!

M Sharina

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04/20/2022 UPDATE
"Quick Minute TOUCH BASE"

I've had a very productive Spring and so far so good I'm so happy about that! Still making touches and slight improvements on the Medical Asylum and the Red Femme Room.

I was at the studio on Monday getting ready for my SRS (sex reassignment surgery) Roleplay session.

I wanted everything to be perfect, so I set out everything I'd need the night before. I'm glad I did. It was 3 hours of breast infusion, catheterization, suturing, full make over -mtf transformation.

My slave mike did my laundry while I was "puttering" and finds it interesting to observe my processees. A word about a slave who dedicates his life to serving me...the word is "RARE." He anticipates every need and desire...IRREPLACEABLE!

I have not had anyone take me up on my offer for a 30 minute spanking session, yet. I did have someone inquire about a 30 minute slapping session, with verbal abuse with me laughing at him. Stop at 30? Now let's not get carried away with 30 minute session ideas because there is ONLY ONE.

I'll be posting on Twitter to keep you swooning over my irresistible feminine wiles... (also updated on my website)

Be patient with responses. At times, I'm great with same day quick returns. Other times, sessions, emails, phone calls, studio, pictures, posting, Twitter and Instagram...well, you get the idea.

This week, I'm looking forward to seeing someone new to me. Interested in the Nova Pro sessions, I also got something special to go with it, so I may do some very DEEP IMMERSION techniques into floating while in bondage.

Keep me posted, and drop me a line!

Talk soon!
M Sharina

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04/18/2022 UPDATE
"Cigarettes Aren't Just for Smoking"

What IS it about true CBT masochists anyway? Lately I've been having a few conversations about cock head burning and the overall "un-niceties" of severe CBT. It is definitely medieval. I mean even if you cannot take it, you get turned on by the idea of it being done to you. You can't help it. You're made this way.

Am I a SADIST? Yes, but not in the true sense of the word. The Marquis de Sade didn't care about consent. I need permission. I only love seeing someone in pain when they have given me their blessing to do these things. I am a consensual sadist. Therefore for me, "Nurturing Sadist" is who I am.

Not everyone can take a severe ball busting until the tops of my feet are bruised. Take last Saturday for instance. "Sharpie" needed some intensity. A ball busting was in order. So like I do what I love to do, I ease him in with a light crushing of my firmly clasped hand, right around both balls. I can hear him struggling so I know where he's at physically. I mean I say this all the time, but it is truth "The mind is willing, but the body is weak." Can I exploit this? Yes. I begin to kick lightly, like a little flutter of the foot. I don't linger too long. I do this a succession of times and when he least expects it, I slam my barefoot right into him. He tries to double over, but his wrists are tied up with suspension cuffs. His knees meet, he's trying desperately to protect his jewels, but they are obviously MINE.

So, getting back to my question. What IS it about TRUE masochists anyway? From my experience most masochists enjoy concentrated pain from their favorite source. High heels, singletail whips, paddles, needles and sure, FIRE like a red hot burning cherry at the end of my cigarette.

One repercussion is scar tissue. Do they care? Not really. They indulge themselves in that intensity and Devil may care. The feeling is so good and such a release they will submit to it. Scarification is also a sign of strength and a badge of honor.

I like having conversations about it. Like when my needleheel sinks into Trampleguy's skin and he squeals like a pig. Those conversations I treasure

I hope you are enjoying your Easter weekend! I have really enjoyed this time to re-charge. I've been working hard on my RED FEMME ROOM. It's so pretty! I need a couple of touches yet. Already had my Femme girl Stephanie for an overnight extended. Testing. Testing 1-2-3

Weather looking better for deeper in the week. My trusty slave mike keeps me posted on weather and Covid numbers. I'm in the know

Drop me a line. Do you fantasize about a sadistic Mistress torturing you, but the fantasy stays in your mind or ARE you a MASOCHIST? Either way, I still love who you are . . .

Until next time!
M Sharina

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04/05/2022 UPDATE
"Accidental Tourist"

Coaxed, coerced, lead a stray...call it whatever you want. I love the kind of persuasion that feeds my creative side. I love leading you into the kind of girl I want to toy with.

So, this is how my Friday and Saturday went.

He arrived looking rather demur in male clothes. After all, he knew what I was going to do. By Friday evening "Steph" was transformed into a luscious and sexy Jessica Rabbit! I made up her face complete with thick batting eyelashes. I tried a few wigs until I reached the RED one with the sexy bangs. I blew up her tits with saline to a double De-licious. Snapped on a bright orange bra with rhinestones and matching panties with a peek-a-boo bow in the back. Then, I put her up in the big gurl heels and voilà! Jessica Rabbit!

So, I have this thing about multiple personalities. We all have them you know, and since I am astrologically a Gemini, I draw attention to the one's I create. Most of the men who see me want me to transform them into females. Some just want to explore their feminine side while others want to be taken advantage of. Dressing in women's clothes will make you feel whatever I want you to feel. Sexy, humiliated, voraciously twisted and transformed.

We all have an opposite sex side. Mine is male. I get a thrill when I stand next to a transformed male in heels, wrapping my left forearm TIGHTLY around her corseted waist, her left leg between mine and my right hand feeling her up. I can feel her vulnerability oozing right out of her.

Accident? No, I created her.

Saturday, we had "a girls night in." I invited "Candy" over for some FUN! I guess you could call it a revised "Secret Naughty Girls Club" where I am the Conductress of two pervy girls...

Almost fini with the Red Femme Room. I think I'll call it, "The Scarlet Letter." What do you think? I need a few more touches...and then more overnights to come. Unless of course I'm throwing you in the cage in The Panic Room. Then, you'll be my PRISONER and that's a whole different story altogether!

How are you? Ready for Spring? It snowed on Sunday, but I'm patient because no matter what, it's always the right temperature at Femme Fatale

'Till next time...
M Sharina

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03/28/2022 UPDATE
"Suspecting Victim"

Drop me a line my faraway friends. Make my mind melt.

M Sharina

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03/21/2022 UPDATE
"Masking Fetish? No, not THAT!"

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I had no idea how many things you could hide under a mask. I mean I had an inkling because my duct tape dolly slaps (you guessed it) duct tape over his mouth before strapping a mask to his face and shopping for treats.

Think about it. If you were brave enough, you could wear red lipstick or even the crotch of your Mistress' worn panties OR a THIN SCENTED SOCK under that mask!

Yeah, we all have secrets. Wearing a remote control vibrating egg while walking around with friends at some outdoor event. Can you literally orgasm in public with no one knowing? You know the jets in the whirlpool at the health club are pretty strong. I suppose if you sat just right you could do it.

So, HAPPY MONDAY! The week is off to a brilliant start! After all, you're reading my sexy blog to get you going.

 

I'll be posting new pictures and touching base throughout the week on my Twitter, so if you need a booster, here it is!

Make it a great week!
"Yes Mistress"

M Sharina

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03/14/2022 UPDATE
"Deviant Behavior Rocks My World . . . "

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As a Dominatrix, I diverge into lots of different fetishes DAILY. Funny, but sometimes it's through organizing my toys, which I ADORE 😍 ESPECIALLY when I get new toys for my pretty cases. I carefully move the pieces around and feel such BLISS 💋

With new toys, there's that feeling it is utterly virginal. I wait patiently to use it for the first time. I must pick the perfect person, like with those ball coffins with SPIKES! Anything with screws or weights, or ELECTRO-STIM I can't help but think about psi and torque. 👁👁 Oh, and I have a new humbler with the connectivity of built-in ELECTRO-STIM. I'd say I have a collection now of 6.

Like last week I had a kind of Dollification session. I have a love for objectification when it is coupled with sensory deprivation and hypnotic suggestions with guided imagery. I want to see how far I can put you under in total IMMERSION. I control Every. Little. Single. Thing. 😳

Then, there are your cherished letters. One said, "These are my weirdo fetishes Mistress." Well, a fetish is a lifelong feeling you get from an inanimate object. This was more a DEVIATION. Get it?

I have heard it all, but then there's that one fetish. I think, "Well that's not weird at all. (Let's tweak it)" So, I get an email expressing the desire for EMBARRASSMENT. It's a medical themed scene. Examinations with watching him use the toilet. "Ok," I think. "Shall we make it more interesting?" Once we are on the same page thru our letters, my patient arrives, I lead him into the Clinic Asylum. He is told to dress and put on this hospital gown. 🧥 I return. I add a nice concoction of warm water to "enemize" my patient. The water is warm and the introduction is quite relaxing. My pitcher is nearby and slowly I add the cold contents. (rather slow I'd say) IMMERSED and UNAWARE.

Progressively my patient goes from nurtured to an uncontrollable lack of control. I lead him into the bathroom and find it totally fascinating that he is shy to expel, but cannot help it. Therein lies MY tweak on embarrassment as Nurse Nicole controls the DB valve. 🚑

There are the little things of course. The pointing out, "Your legs are spread and tied open now." "Take off your clothes, but step up on that platform first.Turn around, bend at the waist and take off those pantyhose." I like watching people. They feel uncomfortable because I'm watching them and they can't imagine what mortifying thing I want them to do.

"Do it." As I recline in my chair, feet up. Still watching...then more instructions. I get up, I walk around them, my heels squarely hitting the floor.

So, every week I get to unpack the aborations of fantasies! What will it feel like between us? I you're novice, I'll put on your training wheels first because we're here to have consensual fun.🚲💋♥️😍

I'm checking my mailbox and doorstep today. I have two new items to add. 🎁YAY! NIPPLE STRETCHERS and an interesting little device to aide in more STRETCHING. Can't really give you a hint, only it's stainless steel, has screws and opens things up. It's like the other one I have only this one has a bud shape in the middle of it all.

💥💥ALERT!💥💥💥ALERT! 💥💥

Did you SPRING FORWARD? My slave alerts me on weather, Covid cases, and anything else that is pertinent. 📈 "Snow on Monday, 50's the rest of the week!"

I have so many irons in the fire 🔥and some projects left over from LAST SPRING! I will keep you UPDATED and POSTED as usual so you may be a part of MY world. 🌍

I know you're itching for a session, (plethora of emails and phone calls ☎️ hello) after all IT'S almost SPRING!!!! 🌻🌷🥀

Tty soon,
♥️
M Sharina 💋
Sensual Femdom Mistress & Dominatrix in Minneapolis, Minnesota

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03/07/2022 UPDATE
"Porn Videos & Me . . . "

My week is always interesting as I am satiated with your need to live out your fantasy. It's my life's blood.

So I did kind of a "House of Gord" session with someone who made a frame for me to attach to my suspension system. I literally was able to lift him up off the ground. He was being punished for being a peeping Tom, breaking in and steeling my panties. At one point, I looked at him squarely while he was dangling from the ceiling all trussed up and IMMOBILIZED and OBJECTIFIED into being a helpless girl. I squeezed his face in my hand and I said, "How DARE you. I will DESTROY you." Then I enjoyed a one sided banter about how only a puny, worthless piece of non-human garbage would stoop so low." I literally felt violated as he hung there, so I slapped him, toyed with what was a "little" bulge in his catsuit. Pathetic. I adored that... ADORED.

Speaking of which. I could only say something like the following to someone (different person than above), who has seen me for YEARS. But, we were talking about different kinds of edge play. I said, "In a perfect world." Like, not just take you to the edge of the cliff, but push you off! He smiled...same page.

I'd never do that in a million years, but isn't it nice to know what's rolling around in my fertile brain just before a session? Then I proceeded to decorate his nether region with 32 - 20 g needles. Each time, a wince, white knuckles and a yell. I pushed him forward, toward the edge of the cliff with each needle insertion.

I can't help but think of my recent session with my TRAMPLING rug davi. I put shoe tracks on him, pin him to the floor with chunky heels, nudge his ribs with my boots and tell him stories about how I'd kick him down the stairs and as he struggled to crawl his way up, I'd be waiting patiently so I could take my boot, press it to his forehead and push him down the stairs again! I'D BE WAITING and do it over and over again. He loves my stories..."In a perfect world."

So, I'm watching porn last week. A cornucopia of odd stuff, but not edge play. This is UNSAFE play. I swerved into it by accident.

In one vid, I'm watching some dom sitting in a chair, her slave is kissing, massaging and loving up her bare feet. All of the sudden, out of nowhere, she whacks him alongside his head, HARD! He seems unphased. Doubtful he can hear now. He continues and then out of nowhere, she WHACKS him again! I hated this.

Reminds me of a vid I saw years ago where these two young women UNRELENTING in kicking the absolute shit out of this guys head! Think concussion, think football brain injuries, dementia and being a vegetable. He liked it, and they didn't care. They were doms and they were kicking the shit out of his brains. I'm sure he's in a coma or dead by now.

Another vid, 2 very young Mistresses, one slave on all fours kneeling next to a platform that has another slave lying on top. The "Mistress" proceeds to step up on the slaves SPINE to get to the other slave on top where both young girls begin a ridiculous diatribe of laughing, giggling and trampling. I wanted to crack both their heads together.

Do you love your fetish so much, you will acquiesce to someone you could lose your hearing to, or have nerve damage from spine trampling in platforms? No no NO! Be safe out there! Ride that edge...but put yourself in the hands of someone you can trust.

Drop me a line? Eeek, I have a backlog. But I do enjoy your touching base.


Love and slappy foot kisses!

M Sharina

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02/28/2022 UPDATE
"Pussy Panties . . ."

What a nice response I received from my session memory last week! I get a definite feeling when I reminisce. I know you do too. BUT, try something different. I'll scramble your brains and then put them back.

I implemented a bit of shock and surprise in my last session roleplay. He resisted...I liked that. I strategically told him to SHUT UP! I think he growled.

We can try new things you aren't accustomed to and do it safely. There's something about THINKING you have marks and brain fizz, but you were just played with in a psychological way. It's like chastity without the cage.

I did get a bit of a response, about the question I asked about "what new doms should know"?
Many had pet peeves about some doms in general. Perhaps, I'll post it in the future if I can spin it in the positive.

Last week was great working on the new Red Femme Room! Organized and in TIP TOP naughty girl shape for pictures & video sessions.

All of the accoutrements you'd EVER need to be as femme & sexy as possible!
DID I TELL YOU. IT'S BOUDOIR RED?

SO MANY WIGS! These are gorgeous. I collect them. I'll use the perfect wig for your best look. Color, style...it's all relevant!

Excited for Spring! Covid numbers are going down. Still practicing safe Covid measures at Femme Fatale!

One more thing. Sexy dreams and fantasies. Drop me a line...

MWAH!
M Sharina

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02/21/2022 UPDATE
" . . . Bound & Terrified"

I think he thought it would be like any scene, but it wasn't. I remember the telephone interview clearly. I focused on 7 little words. "I want to be..." I also remember he wanted to be driven to tears inverted on my suspension system. There he was after a long initial breaking down of his emotional objections. He was and I did. I knew what he needed.

I remember the nuances of the scene. The darkness in my Corporal Punishment Room and the blue light hue as I sat watching him struggle with what might happen. He "looked around the room" even though he couldn't see anything. He was blindfolded, bound tightly to a chair and there was no music. I sat and watched. His legs were spread, knees open with no escape. My heels were on, I sat in a chair not too far away from where I put him, right in the middle of the room. I waited. As his breathing relaxed, I stood up quietly. I took a few steps forward and with cane in hand, WHAMMO! No warm up. THIS was the warm up. He had a bit of time to think on it after my initial assault, and from the stinging pain to his thighs wondered where it would be coming from next. I took my heels off quietly. I walked behind him...the assault was happening from a different direction. I broke down his defenses. He became vulnerable to me, and this was the name of the game.

I can't even begin to explain how intuitive one must be to know what is necessary in a session to have something occur. "Bound and Terrified" was what was called for in this scene.

I have so many things at my disposal. Things I have collected...things I cherish. I'm experiencing some kind of childish "glee" as if I reside in an adult FAO Schwarz, except the train set I have is hooked up to my subject and I'm working the controls for a gradual train derailment! Is it pain? Is it pleasure? WTF is it?

Not all my sessions are like this one. Of course not. I move along a theme of what YOU love. Why? Because if I did what I wanted to you because I was in the mood for X, the energy would be off and not fun for me at all. So if I take what YOU love, enjoying it with you...it is BLISS, no doubt about it. Just like "Bound and Terrified" guy. He loved every minute and I loved it too because I was the conductor.

So, I got some new toys, just like I said on my Twitter feed. More to exhibit in my equipment cases illuminated with light. I'll have two big items coming in March. I'll need another case for the Medical Asylum and one for the Panic Room. EXCITED! Hints: Hands free torment. An accoutrement to my large heavy steel puppy cage. Locked forever. Zapped and humbled. Train set controller...🥰 You'll never guess...(maniacal laughing)

Pictures coming for some other things AND I'll have a brand new Red Femme Room to enjoy you in!

Covid numbers are going down. Well be getting a winter storm here so I've taken tomorrow off until it passes. 👁👁

Spring is on the horizon! 🌻🦋

Drop me a line, and share your ideas for Spring!

M Sharina

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02/14/2022 UPDATE
Happy Valentines Day to you!

I have an ongoing connection with the people I play with. I've posted one GIF and a couple of pictures (BELOW). Each person could not be more different from the next. I cherish each one...

The last letter I found by mistake. It came up when I was searching my emails for my Mother who had died recently. I thought I would post it here...

Always remember your LOVES.

M Sharina

 

Love Letters 02/14/2022

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Sent: Mon, Feb 14, 2022 at 2:35 PM
Subject: Thank you

I just wanted to thank you for being an amazing Mistress to me I hope you have a great Valentine's Day

"KB"

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2/2022
Mailbox on Fetlife under the name: "sxxxxxgxxxxxx"

Mistress Sharina , you have a magic about you that is indescribable as you definitely are one of the most important ladies in my life as well the trust and the bond is un breakable even when I’m not tied up at your mercy I’m always thinking of ways to get to see you and the time spent together is the highlight of the year , you given me huggs after a session that have kept me going thank you 🙏

"RD"

 

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Interesting story. His therapist recommended that he see a professional Dominatrix so he could learn how to let go. He picked me. Our sessions were filled with bondage, sensuality, tease and denial...and yes, letting go of the attachment to control

2014
Hi Mistress Sharina,

I hope you realize what a special lady you are. The world is a better place because of you and if more people were like you, it would be fantastic.

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and approach to life with me. I will try hard to follow in your footsteps as I believe you are right.

"D"

 

Always remember your LOVES.

M Sharina

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02/07/2022 UPDATE
Big Screen Fetishes and a *Question to YOU

Ever watch TV and think, "Do they know what they're doing to fetishists?" I was watching Netflix yesterday. It was a chillaxin' day of movies. I like to tune my vibration to "lighthearted funny" to take the edge off. So, I'm watching Seinfeld, and there's an episode where Elaine is sleeping on the sofa with this guy kind of backwards. She wakes up and her feet are right smack dab in his face. No, I don't mean a funny little oops and an apology, I mean BOTH FEET(((firmly))) planted and curving right over his entire face and smooshing right into him JUST LIKE I'D DO IT, IF I WERE TEASING A FOOT GUY with my feet! I had to watch it several times, it was GREAT! Do you think they add this stuff on purpose, or do you think it's an accident? Maybe a little bit of both, but we all know Quentin Tarantino has a foot fetish...but it's pretty tame in his foot depictions in his movies. You almost have to catch it just right to notice, but then there's Selma Hayek doing her dance with the snake in From Dusk Till Dawn...

This is the other thing I was thinking about the last few days and it's more of a curiosity than anything else.

Here it is:
*What do you wish NEW dommes knew?

Maybe the question isn't just about new dommes but established ones too.

What attracts you? What turns you OFF? What's a red flag to you?

You know what to do...drop me a line. I may do a thread post on twitter Also, if there's a thread you'd like to see, let me know that too.

Remember to "tune your vibration around and fluff it up a bit. Watch something silly and uplifting. Trust me, it'll help your body chemicals adjust to the long winter and other things that may bother you. You may also need to distant yourself from people who are negative, self absorbed or siphon your energy because they lack in certain emotional areas. Don't let this happen. It isn't healthy. Draw lines.

The Covid numbers are going DOWN. Is it a trend? I'd like to think so!

Love and BONDAGE and TEASING to the hilt!

Talk to you Soon!

M Sharina

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01/31/2022 UPDATE
Talk Dirty to Me PLEASE

I wake up, I'm turned on by a dream and sometimes during a session I think of something odd and I'm turned on and I think about a remedy for these thoughts.

I had a session last Friday with my crossdresser gurl "Sandy." She's blonde, has a really nice ass and pretty legs. She was wearing a black, shiny and stretchy kind of leotard underneath her disguise. Think, "man at work." The strip around the crotch went right up her ass as a reminder, she had a secret and is going to see her Mistress.

When she arrived and stripped, I could see she needed adjustments. "Here, I need to slut you up." I dressed her in black thigh highs, black locked-on high heel pumps and a tight corset. But the most important thing I did was I gave her double bewbage with really nice nipples that punked out like large pencil erasers. You couldn't miss them. (See my embedded Twitter page)

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Normally I take the time to do a full make-up thing. But this time, I gave her a quickie do-over that sufficed. I threw on a blonde wig, some bright red lipstick and blue eyeshadow with hints of gold. She looked just the right amount of "tantalizing whore."

Then I'd mess it all up by training her to suck my Mistress cock the right way. When she gets it wrong, I slap her face with it. But THIS time, I felt having her look more like she was rode hard and put away wet from the get-go was just the thing! Her lips were definitely smooshed!

I made her deep throat my Mistress cock like Jenna Jameson in Bella Loves Jenna. I was impressed especially when her gag reflex kicked in and she didn't even care. She WAS such a little whore, I could see her grinding against the bondage and suffering intense pleasure as the electro-plug was turned up in increments until the pounding was noticeably deliberate. Try to catch your breath now Sandy...

Dinner Party to the 3rd Power.
I'm not sure if you've ever experienced one of these kinds of parties and I dont think they're popular very much especially now, but there was a thing called a Progressive Dinner Party. The idea was to get a group of people together and enjoy each course at a different home. You'd have cocktails and horse d'oeuvres at one home, a cleansing salad and soup shooters in another, the main course at another home and finally desserts and cognac in the last home. I told Sandy I'd want to do a a Progressive Dinner Party with a twist. I'd want to bring a special party favor. HER, a crossdressing, cock sucking, whorish little slut with huge bewbs and a micro mini skirt!

The dinner party would go as planned, but the party favors would be requested for service of any kind and used throughout each course as anyone saw fit. THERE WERE NO TRUER SLUTS THAN THESE GURLS. They were hungry for it, they begged for it, but they could not speak, they could only look hopeful with their eyes, waiting patiently as they sat on the floor with their satin gloved hands in their laps. A fin délicieuse of raining cum all over these sluts at the final destination for desserts! Could ANYTHING be more perfect or more perverted and lovely?I really don't think so.
Someone wrote to me last week and asked, "If you could do anything, like the sky is the limit, what would you do to a slave?" I liked that question and I did not have to think about it. I already had a list.

Until next time

M Sharina

Sensual Femdom Mistress & Dominatrix in Minneapolis, Minnesota

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01/24/2022 UPDATE
The Utmost in Sadistic WHAT?

I collect devices of torment, but that's no secret. You've been eyeing my special cabinets wondering what's really in there. I know you do. My mind is serpentine, fertile and yes, sadistic, but with the right subject AND yes, there IS the right subject for every little perverted thing I can think of.

So, I will be getting a specialized device, a devious contraption just to own another piece of you.

There, I said it.

But not the piece you might think. You know me better than that.

My fantasies lately have been reaching far around the corners of my perverted and sadistic mind, creating scenarios that must come true.

What are they? Do you want to know the beginning, the end or the middle? I'll give you some colorful hints... Prisoner is incarcerated by the Warden of the Femme Rouge Regime to first coerce a confession with punishment to follow. The Femme Rouge Regime is also known as a detention facility for sexual deviants where my prisoner will be incarcerated for as long as it takes in order for complete rehabilitation to take place.

Questions? I'm sure you do. But this facility is ONLY for those who require the utmost in sadistic behavior MODIFICATION as this is their last stop before, you know... (Warden makes a slit-the-throat sign with her finger) So, you see how important my work is here.

You have no idea (sometimes I do tell you) how my mind just wanders. It creeps under my skin and I just know it does with you too because I read all your perverted letters to me. I know you're faraway sometimes and you cannot come to me and you just want me to give you a few words. So I do. But here, I try to convey with my own elaborations how it is when I have these thoughts too...Thank goodness for this odd camaraderie we share.

Thank you for your recent letters and for "dropping me a line" as always. It keeps me warmer in the frozen tundra!

Until next time

M Sharina

Head Warden
Femme Rouge Regime

Sensual Femdom Mistress & Dominatrix in Minneapolis, Minnesota

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01/17/2022 UPDATE
Of Course, Cigarettes Lead to Heroin

I have a very vivid memory of a sexual encounter I had quite a few years ago. Sex on the warm hood of the car, while rain drops began falling from the sky. Indelible...

I get to hear all kinds of stories and fantasies, but more than that, it's the conglomeration of real time sordid stories I love the most.

There's one story in particular from an older gentleman and his wife who were at a rock and roll club called Dibbo's in downtown Hudson, WI. Feeling a little drunk and a bit amorous like they were, his wife decided to sit on his lap. She had a flouncy longer skirt on (no panties) so he decided to unzip his pants and with an erection fucked her right there. The bouncer got wind of it and kicked them out. They laughed hysterically about it because they were caught. But, isn't that the thrill of it? Fucking in public places IS thrilling! So is a remote control electric butt plug in your slave's arse when he's trying to take a piss and I'm sitting at a table in a lovely Italian restaurant, smiling, (giggling even and at times hysterical) waiting for his return, while I incrementally turn up the intensity. I know exactly what the numbers mean on my control box so it's easy to exploit intensity. I'm waiting patiently for a somewhat less composed slave to toddle back, plop himself down and explain how it all went while gnashing his teeth...

Our sexual experiences can be edgy of course, but what about what it leads to? Is it like smoking weed leads to heroin? Maybe it is more like smoking cigarettes leads to putting your cigarette out on the tip of a man's penis. In my case one *could* say that.

I view cigarette smoking as something quite sexual. The filter goes up to my red lips, my mouth parts slightly, I feel the filter with my tongue as my lips hold it tightly between my lips. I take a drag and as I do I hear the tobacco burn. My fingers raise, I exhale slowly the burning remnants of smoke as I savor that little buzz and the taste of burnt tobacco in my mouth. Almost makes you hard, doesn't it?

I have observed in myself every sexually filled experience has lead to it being embedded under my skin. It crawls out and I use it to embellish a session with words that are explicit and play that is edgy. I always say, "In a perfect world, there are no limits.'

So tell me...you know, drop me a line and tell me what's under YOUR skin. Does it infiltrate your own kink? I love it when you write to me. ♥️

Love Always and Always,

M Sharina

Mistress with a Red Hot Poker

Sensual Femdom Mistress & Dominatrix in Minneapolis, Minnesota

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01/10/2022 UPDATE
Strange and Even Stranger Thoughts

So, you've come to find your Mistress has perverted thoughts with quite a history of secrets. Surprised? One thing I have to tell you, is over the years I have been asked for a keepsake of every single bodily fluid I exude. A very personal used tampon was among the many requests.

I remember my subject wanting to hold a used tampon in his mouth during the session. To oblige this, to take it a step further and as I've been known to do, taping his mouth shut added just the right touch, just the right element of intensity and the kind of servitude and involvement he craved. Humiliation and a love for the Mistress he is serving was the epitome and depth that was necessary for him to enter that space of euphoric servitude. The thought lingers long after the session has ended. The warm taste and feel of his Mistress' very essence from a place so sacred.

Has me wondering if there isn't a Sharina Nicole in a vial somewhere. Like a serial killer keeps trophies of remembrances, some slaves want a piece of me to reflect on, fantasize on forever. He savors it. It is after all his special little keepsake. Here is my Mistress' foot powder (as he runs my foot powder under his nose, sprinkles it on the morning smoothy, or watches as it bubbles in a Sunday afternoon beer.) I suppose one would literally have some of me inside them. slave-men are like this. I've never been asked by a woman for a little keepsake. Wait, actually I was asked by a woman if she could snip my panties right off of me. I said yes and she proceeded to cut them off and place them in a zip lock bag for safekeeping. She was prepared...

I posted something on my Twitter page (you may scroll through it right here as it is embedded into my website) on a woman who jarred her farts. Men, lots of men literally want to open a jar and inhale her gas. She'd place a little rose petal in the jar to make it last. I get it now about this kind of fetish, which I find very interesting. She explained it (my words to follow) as if to say sitting on the jar, so close to where she will deposit this gas, coming out of her body from the inside and how personal it was. I get it. Her beauty and personality made it all the more intriguing, plus she was making a small fortune in selling her fart jars. Win/win I'd say.

I've always been fascinated by a slave's willingness to enjoy such things. To sniff my armpits, beg to have me grow hair there just to keep the scent embedded. The soft hair tickling their nose as they sniff, inhale into a unique ecstasy. I have done that, grow hair in my armpits for a dedicated slave. Scented panties shoved into their nose, slid into a hood, taped to the face...forced or compliant, the need is strong and it stimulates a special kind of servitude and bonds the slave to his Mistress.

What is YOUR experience? Do you feel as if wanting these parts of your Mistress is along the lines of normal kinkyness? Maybe you feel an utter embarrassment by it and dont care because you love it so much. I'd say the latter

Drop me a line...express it to me. Is it subtle or severe this power that scents and fluids have over you? From wanting to sniff between your Mistress' toes, to wanting the dirtiest stain filled undies possible, I want to know. I'm a bit perverted that way.

I trust you've made some declarations for the New Year? If you haven't done just one thing that stretches your rubber band, GET TO IT! Life really is short. One never knows when we'll be floating right into the heavens.

 

As Always,

M Sharina

Sensual Femdom Mistress & Dominatrix in Minneapolis, Minnesota

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01/07/2022 UPDATE
Is This For Real?!

I just had to write another blog post to you because I've been thinkin' about this thing about masochists. It is so undeniably cold here in the "Frozen Tundra" (as my slave hub says) you must really want something in order to venture out. I look at it this way (since I am not a masochist) Warm up the car, leave it, bundle up, get in, go, get out of the car, walk to the door and it's a perpetual warmth that feels good. I love the creation of my studio. It has morphed in ways that can tweak the senses blindfolded or not.

I have noticed recently, the only people that are booking sessions right now (in THIS COLD WEATHER) are MASOCHISTIC. Yes...PAIN PUPPIES. Sure, they don't care...not icy winds, sleet or minus below degrees will keep them from getting their fix on with me. My guy from the Dakotas is here and we just had a session last Wednesday. I'll see him again on Sunday. "Stanley," a nipple masochist (I have a collection now of those perky little bulbous beauties) Saw him just before Christmas and I will see him next week. My older guy Ill see very soon...because once a month come rain, snow or a stiff freezy breeze...he is committed to receiving his "therapy."

IS there a connection between the elements and masochists needing a fix when really, no one else wants to leave the warmth of their abode? More people are working from home now, so who would know if it was hot toddy time with Netflix or you just needed an incentive to keep up the good work? It's all about the end result, right?

Those cute little crossdresser girls are not going to brave this weather! Not gonna do it...But the MASOCHISTS, they do not care.

Funny, but I remember Patris and I back in the day forging the weather no matter what. There would be snow on the ground, loads of it, and we'd be wearing black, shiny platform boots, and high tail it to The Gay 90's, The Metro, or Ground Zero. Those were the good ol' days. Remember The Metro? It felt like a city block of bars all connected like a mall and there was this leather store downstairs where I remember buying silicone dildos and cock and ball devices. I got my cherished leather cover there. The Gay 90's used to be a place where you could go and feel safe as a gay or transgendered person. There was a nice mix of people, but they all fit in nicely. The men were hot and half naked and would do "the train" which reminded me of San Francisco. Well, things change...SO, remember, "THESE are the good ol' days." Notice it, because things change and not always in a good way. Even now with Covid and it's continuum of morphing, we get to find ways of making these the best of times too, in a way we couldn't if there was no Covid.

Do I miss it? Oh yeah, I do very much. But it just makes the memories brighter.

Always,

M Sharina

Sensual Femdom Mistress & Dominatrix in Minneapolis, Minnesota

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01/03/2022 UPDATE
Memories and Plans!

Salutations to 2022!
...and salutations to you my lovely fetishist and kink extraordinaire.

If there is only one resolution you make for this New Year: To Thine Own Self Be True.

When the basis for what you give to yourself ripples to others in other areas of your life, you will feel complete. All is well and you handle what comes with calm power and love. So do it. Be that.

I rang in the rest of my year with some pretty delectable sessions. I enjoyed 3 nipple torture sessions. The most intense was 6 hours. Pulling, twisting, clamping, piercing..."Ring my bell." At one point, I tied my "gentle giant's" nipples to the suspension system, and in order to extend the use of my arms while doing other things, I used one of my canes with a rounded end to pull on the rubber tubing. Just when the nipples rested sufficiently with no stimulation, my cane would vibrate them to their core. That way, I'd get a little gasp and moan...I loved it!

I think I scrambled the brains of another subject, by blindfolding him and teasing him into oblivion. I also left a mark so he could see it when he rang in the new year, just as if I was there wishing him a Happy New Year.

We often fail to be touched very much, and since I am very tactile, I enjoy taking advantage of my inanimate and objectified "object" by tuning into what I feel is necessary and needed. Since going into a new year and getting rid of the one that's being left, it is easy for me to tune in on the spirit and fill it up by rearranging the energy. (Think mad scientist..."It's ALIVE! It's ALIVE!"

Memorable was my Feminization session. Something about the way my Kerry transforms. She's a little doll who can take a hard shellacking on the bottom. Plus, you know how I love my fem-girls...squeezing the bewbs, enjoying the look and then taking advantage of her. DE-LI-CIOUS!

So yes, there are these memories...My very last session of the year is always special in some way, and 2021 was no different. A special slave came to me, one who I'd named "mercury." It struck me during one of our sessions, I believe it was the first, that intellect, communication and his deeper thoughts would translate this slave into a mercurial being. slave mercury came in chastised and ready. Wonderful way to move into a new year...mercury.

As I do, I'm sure you look back at the year and reflect somewhat. Reflection may come in a memory or a wave. Things you've lost, things you've gained. It really is part of our process in our being human.

For you, what will be different? I should have warned you, LOADED QUESTION! Will your relationships get brighter? Will you do one thing in this whole year that has you feel as if you are proud of yourself for holding your feet to the fire? Just one thing. While you chew on that and ponder, remember, when you stretch the rubber band, it is never really the same shape, even if it's difficult to see the change. You know it's there...so S-T-R-E-T-C-H!

Drop me a line and tell me where you plan your "stretch." Share just one. I'll ask you one question, "by when?" That's when the FUN begins!

We have a whole year. No time to waste, so just DO IT.

I love you. Thank you for trusting me to be your guide.

Cheers!
M Sharina

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01/01/2022 UPDATE
Happy New Year!

Wishing you and your family the Happiest New Year, and all of the best in 2022!

May this be your best year yet!

M Sharina

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12/24/2021 UPDATE
Merry Christmas & Happy Holidays!

Wishing you and your family a very Merry Christmas & Happy Holiday!

Have fun & be safe!

MWAH!

M Sharina

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12/21/2021 UPDATE
Turned on? Moi?

You are not the only one who gets turned on during a session. I do too. Out of the clear blue sky, it hits me. I feel edgy and driven to tease and seduce.

I was doing a session with someone who was referred to me by another Mistress who was out of town. He is much older, has some health issues, ileostomy bag, no bladder and no prostate. He has these bulbous nipples I can twist and pull, clamp and then needle prick. I remember the second time I pierced them. I attached the needles to cords, and then attached the cords to my permanent nipple piercings for a glorious in-the-mood-for-it energy pull. That was hot and it tweaked my senses. For my new subject, it was quite the visual. I love orchestrating scenes, but when I get tweaked in some way, all the better.

The other day I had him in the middle of the room and I attached nipple suckers to his nipples. I love trying light to heavy stimulation after they turn the nipples into larger versions of themselves. Nipple suckers are a good way to prepare. Besides that, when they come off, they're sensitive, so I can pinch and twist them for a reaction. As soon as I took them off, I could see how nicely swollen they were. I pinched them slightly for effect, and then I slid my nipples up against them...what a turn on. I feel turned on just explaining it to you. I believe some things are solely beyond the mind and although tactile, visual too. For me, I love seeing everything. The pull of the nipple as the needle slides in. It does not concern me the kind of "package" a person comes in.

I remember having a chat with Prince Michael years ago about things that happen in a scene and we shared how "strange things" in a scene just turn us on. Sometimes I think we are more animalistic and carnal than a reasonable human. With me, you get to shed your constraint of propriety.
Which, in essence means, we like what we like and cannot help it.

I have been unusually distracted, busy yes, but this particular time of year always seems to have us running in circles. I'm very lucky. I get to do sessions with you...my stress level is nonexistent and I am calm. Wrapping gifts I LOVE. Gift giving is a whole process I look forward to, and when I do my glorious wrapping, I'm in heaven! I'll post some pics on twitter soon! I've neglected my social media platforms like Twitter and Fetlife. (Instagram not a fav...boo hoo)

Website:
I am still working on a new page for you, coming up soon!

Christmas:
Remember, it's the little things that create the world we live in. I never ever walk by a Salvation Army kettle without donating some greenbacks. Think about it. How many times do you walk by a kettle in a Christmas season? 3 times? 10 times? It's so little and yet such a big accumulative contribution to have donated 1 or 2 or 5 bucks each time you walk by. Give to others...It will return to you 10 fold, I promise.

New Year!
I'll be posting for New Years, however, a word of advice about "starting" the New Year. Question: What new thing or habit do you choose to create a change in your life that will make a difference? Pick 2, do it every day, check it off on a calendar SPECIFICALLY for this purpose. The secret is to start NOW. If you begin day one of the New Year, you will fail. Begin now, mark it off your special calendar, make your commitments honest and attainable and don't wait, keeping simple START NOW. Set yourself up to win.

That is all for now!

As usual, tell me how you're faring during this time of year with Omicron invading the holidays! Keep your chin up as my Mother used to say when I was little.

Drop me a line,

M Sharina

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12/07/2021 UPDATE
Wham Bam THANK YOU Ma'am!

Quickie note, because I missed posting my usual blog post yesterday.

I love this time of year, but it's so busy AND I end up getting restless sleep because I have "these" dreams...Of course they are random and never make any sense. There's always public nudity, no shame and if I'm lucky I get to fly. (astral projection) It's always down a flight of stairs, but I'm always high, I never plummet.

Tomorrow will be fun and taking pictures to post! I have a few sexy girly ensembles I need to set out this evening. Black and red or pink and purple? Blonde wig for sure...

Do you dream explicit dreams and when you do, must you explain to your bed buddy?

Drop me a line...I loved your responses from my last post. If you didn't read it, look for it. I may post my response to two letters. They were very articulate thought provoking. Yes, I read them all.

Until sooner than next week, I'll Ttyl!

M Sharina

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11/29/2021 UPDATE
A Different kind of "Nursing" Home

A confession is something one admits to, so I'll call this a confession. Truth be told, I have quite the collection of confessions. I don't know if I should tell you all the details, but because everyone has fantasies and certain "requirements to feel normal," we sometimes swerve into something that brightens our psyche.

My confessor read a news story where at a particular nursing home, a couple of the nurses got caught "abusing" their patients. These ladies would, slap, "handle" and force their patients to do things "unusual" under their supervision and control. They'd also force them into liking it, by giving them an erection and making them orgasm.

Needless to say, the idea struck a nerve, and my guy could dream of nothing else. This also made me fantasize about my own personal 'Asylum" of mental cruelty and pleasure. In a perfect world, I could have a clinic which catered to those who wanted desperately to live out the rest of their lives under the care of kind and caring medical staff with questionable ethics.

I feel totally elated with the whole idea, and thought about it in detail.They'd have to sign forms (I mean it's consensual after all.) Each patient would need to be in their own right mind to sign and would use a check off list with a whole section about their leanings towards fantasy and consensual play. Makes my head whirl.

I would train all these qualified nurses who had a proclivity towards the bizarre...AND unorthodox relationships with power and control. A perfect union.

I'd be the head nurse with a licensed female doctor on staff, and in each patient file would be their medical history, required medications, preferences toward bondage, humiliation, mind fuck, and things like sensory deprivation, minor clinic surgery, electro-stimulation, catheterization, bladder irrigation, enemas, "and such treatments" when bathing or watching the sunset. Of course, there's a whole section on "forced" this and "forced" that. Imagine not being able to speak because you are under forced silence, or the forced trickle of liquids into your mouth and down your throat for the sheer purpose of "testing."

You know I do this already, but only in small increments of time. Normally 2 hours to 3 days. My 3 day patient was so physically high at the end of his stay, he felt very well adjusted and quite therapeutically altered, which is always my goal anyway - no matter the session. The patient was wet sheet packed, deprived of his senses with various medical treatments and tested with the outcomes recorded. To say he "disappeared for a while" would be an understatement. The fantasy he lived out with me, Dr. Nicole, Medical Dominatrix, was extraordinary. He wanted the extension of a long term medical session in which time, literally stands still. He made that happen because it was his dream. These are experiences you take into the end portion of your life, because one never knows how the end of our life will be...memories to revisit.

I remember a session long ago when I had a particular back to back session. I put my first guy in the cage downstairs in a strait jacket while my 2nd session was happening. When I went downstairs and opened up the door to my heavy steel cage, I took off his blindfold and found him so discombobulated, he had NO IDEA what time it was, or how long he had been in the cage. I love that. "Lost time" and space.

I love utilizing every bit of my equipment for a tailored experience. It's kind of like the fantasy I concur with the Asylum theme of CNC (Consensual Non Consensual.) I have my ways of explaining every single unorthodox treatment, not to mention the fact, it's always for the patient's own good.

As we arrive toward the end of our year together, I can't help but smile with how happy I am with my life and my own experiences and the ones I have created.

I will be posting a new page very soon. It's almost ready and I know you'll be pleased, so please keep up with my website.

We will be chatting more until the New Year and beyond, but for now, you know I love giving you some food for thought.

Drop me a line and tell me YOUR bizarre thoughts. I KNOW you have at least ONE. If it's interesting, I'll post it in next weeks blog with your anonymity in check.

M Sharina

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11/26/2021 UPDATE
Auto-EROTICA!

So, I'm in the "real dungeon" (THE basement) . . .

After all, I do have a PANIC ROOM down the hall from there, and I'm looking through boxes and clearing out some stuff, and I find a picture of one of my roommates' friends who is emulating auto erotica. I mean, you might remember having roommates and their friends coming over and having drinks . . . or not, and being silly, but I never really noticed this picture until NOW. Likely because I know more about it . . . these things, these fetishes and behaviors are cats out of the bag (MEOW) in case anyone notices.

I wonder if that guy was into that stuff back then, or if he was just fuckin' around. I wonder if he is even ALIVE.

I'm posting this picture, so you can see it, but I'm also blurring out his face. He was super cute. This is the picture . . . this is the guy.

 

 

Fetishes occur early and kinks develop in circumstance. That is my read on it from my observation and the many people I've seen. I mean you never know who you're rubbing elbows with, who's got a kink and who doesn't.

I did meet a guy who was into auto erotica and he thought, if you are by yourself while masturbating and semi suffocating, if you bite into a lemon, it will pull you out of a kind of suffocation spiral. No. No it won't. Good idea though, but not feasible. You have to stay conscious to taste the lemon otherwise, you're just a puddle of drool.

You know what to do, drop me a line.

Stay safe!

M Sharina

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11/15/2021 UPDATE
Are You Fucked? Really Fucked?

You've had a thing for confinement ever since you opened your eyes, head firmly pressed against the crib bumber and started to cry. WHAT?!!?!

Yes, your special little place of safety...the crib. Looks like a cage for a reason. It's a useless piece of equipment designed to imprison while sleeping. Is this why some people have a fondness for CONFINEMENT?

Made to stay and sleep in a place relinquishing the desire to cuddle up, they acquiesce to a place of imprisonment whether it's liked or not. Like PUNISHMENT.

I have 4 places of confinement, and 2 are heavy steel cages and one is the next step into confinement OBLIVION, which I've had a couple of people well accustomed to restrictive confinement, PANIC.

Couple that with bondage, remote control electro-stimulation and an extra layer of leather head bondage and you have a mental and physical struggle that ensues. YOU FEEL FUCKED, but it's a good fuck, 'cause it's a mind fuck and you're trapped and you love it. You've learned to love it.

Do you trust your incarcerator? How far will your captor actually go?

This is not just play. These are fetishes for confinement, but they're also experiential exercises.

Go ahead, ask me why. You know what to do, drop me a line.

Stay safe my wonderful friends and readers from afar. Covid numbers are up!

M Sharina

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11/11/2021 UPDATE
Happy Veterans Day

Happy Veterans Day

To all the men I know who are Veterans, thank you for keeping our country free.

Thank you for your service

M Sharina

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11/08/2021 UPDATE
"Trigger" Isn't Just A Pony

I was tuning into one of my favorite scenes in pornography, Bella Loves Jenna with Jenna Jameson giving the best, most explicit blow job ever. I love it because she looks high from it. There is so much saliva and wetness and sweat and deep throating, I can't help but admire it. In fact, I tell my cherished Feminized Sissy Sluts to watch it if they really want to please me when they suck my Mistress cock.

There are absolute parts of it that are such a turn on. For me, when she takes this man's rather large cock into her mouth and it slides in just a little too deep, she makes this sound...a quick trigger I make an audible involuntary gasp.

I've noticed this in sessions where I say something, and I hear that little
involuntary gasp...like I hit a spot mentally and the response is without thought. It's a trigger.

I'll give you an example. I say, "Here you are with your legs spread...(gasp) and you have no choice to be used for breeding." (gasp) "I am going to inseminate (gasp) you now, and you will be filled with my sperm...(gasp) Then, you will be impregnated." (FUCK YES)

So many ways I enjoy tweaking a session. I enjoy reactions, especially when they are INVOLUNTARY.

Suffice it to say, we can't help what turns us on whether it's visually stimulating or auditory. It's the unknown, and I like unwrapping you like a package just to see what's underneath.

I remember one of my favorite trampling guys buddy. He said he never owned so many chunky heels and clogs until he met me. The first time he came in he brought a few favorite clogs for me to wear. Then he progressed to athletic shoes, cleats and golf shoes, but the CLOGS! He'd carry in this huge duffle bag until he just sort of stored it with me. I got under his skin and tweaked his fetish for trampling. I brought to light pictures in his head he could fantasize about, and he did, and he was more addicted than ever.

Do you notice triggers in your sessions? What are they? I would LOVE to know, AND give me an example of what tweaks the kind of session you love.

You know what to do...drop me a line, yeah, that's it. You do it so well.

M Sharina

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11/01/2021 UPDATE
DISCIPLINE.

It really begins in childhood. How much, how little depends on your need (as you awaken to it) to be utterly dominated by a FEMALE DOMINATRIX. Why? Because you're used to it, and somewhere along the line you realize there is a funny little bulge in those pants of yours because if it.

Brought to mind last night as I was enjoying the trick or treaters arriving in full regalia, a little boy coyly knocks on the door. I answer and put out my large bowl of skittles and dum dums. He picks one. "Would you like another? Take one." I say, in a sweet, but Governess kind of voice. He looks, he picks, he turns, and as he walks down the steps towards his Mom, she says, "Use your manner words Justin..." Justin whispery, says, "Thank you."

I winked at the Mom. "Now Justin, you need a very hard SPANKING for me having to remind you again." My fantasy world never quits...I know the truth because it's usually the babysitter or those hot, bratty little school girls that tackle you on the playground, or that oblivious girl that sits behind you kicking your chair. She doesn't care, but then WHALLAH! Lifelong fetish! Then you're always looking for the same scenario. The clogs that kicked your chair, the worn nylon stockings you found in your boy hamper. It never ends.

So, did you have a nice Halloween? I did. All those innocent little children with their sweet voices and grubby little fingers clutching at the candy in my dish. Not a single one knew how diverse my life is.

Drop me a line about your fetish. I'm interested. How did it start and what are you doing about it now?

Must run, I know today a cool wind is going to blow up my skirt.

M Sharina

Implementor of DISCIPLINE Minneapolis, Minnesota Dominatrix & Femdom Mistress

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10/25/2021 UPDATE
Boxed dolls, Let's Pretend...oh, and Videotape!

"If I had a crate, a specialized box for big gurls, I could put you in it all dressed up and then take you out and do indecent things to you." She a doll who misbehaves... Cheri would be "The Naughty Cheri Doll" complete with her own wardrobe, nail polish and a set of big, bigger, BEST bewbs!

My thoughts are deviant, I can't help it. Maybe I've seen too many documentaries on sex dolls...but like I've told you, my mind is fertile. I'd like a doll I can impregnate...see, I told you. When I have you on my table and I'm transforming you, I'm thinkin'.

See what I mean?! (oh yeah, click the link and scroll through the pics to the bottom!) Hot Minnesota Crossdressing Dolls Pics

My Chicago guy has been away out of town as of late in Sicily. I am Sicilian and now he is certainly salivating for a "double cross" since his vision has always been a sexy Italian hit woman (me) his wife has hired to, well, lure him from a bar to her hideaway...Oh, the details, I ADORE THE DETAILS! The black, low cut neckline of the sexy and alluring woman at the bar. Scotch neat, dark eyes, expensive gold jewelry...the poison pill. Those are the sessions that get under my skin. He has a few Doves, jokes that it's the only reason he visits me, while we laugh and I slowly come down off my perch.

I love every minute...

So a couple more things to tell you. I am booked through to the end of October, so if you're planning a trip, please plan in advance for November. I can only schedule you right now if I have a cancellation.

A simple note to the women who pour over my website...

Writing this with a lighthearted smirk, my Web Master has pointed out to me that some of the "competitive" websites he's run into have some very distinct similarities in the verbiage that I use on my website. These words are part of my personality, like when I say, "Drop me a line..."

I won't mention everything that is noticed, but I will say, my website is thee most updated, detailed and informative website in the realm of professional domination. I can see why regular perus-ers may want to gleen as much information as possible, but as you must be aware, it is my own personality that is the context of my website. My reviews are stellar.

In expressing this, when I was a novice dom, still learning my skill set and forming my own website over 25 years ago, I can also say I have learned from other experienced Mistresses how to organize a website...like things that are taboo or cleanliness being important. That was eons ago and I have embellished on all I've learned.

My website has since morphed into quite a unique conglomeration of my own history as a person, my life now and all the pieces that fit together to include my own form of domination, which I consider unique. The words I use in a session create the vibe. My abilities to work with people in a therapeutic mode through their fetishes has been key. This technique is an acquired skill.

I believe we are a Sisterhood of Dominants who although we may help each other in many ways, I would invite you to be your own unique and creative self.

So, that is about it for now. I didn't get as much done as I would have liked this past summer, but sometimes I think life has a unique way of bringing us back to our roots when we enjoy it most.

Until next time, drop me a line. You know I love keeping in touch

M Sharina

Minneapolis, Minnesota Dominatrix & Femdom Mistress

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10/20/2021 UPDATE
Dreams and Humiliation

Ever have a weird dream out of the blue? I love my dreams. They are so off the cuff like little surprises. I open my eyes and sift through it.

So, in my dream I took a submissive on an outing. This particular sub/slave I've known for about 23 years. I was going to humiliate him in public so I tied his leather wing tip tassled shoe laces together. (Oh this should be fun. Run and get me a latte' slave and bring it to me in 3 minutes. IMPOSSIBLE, right?) I tied the shoe laces with as much room between them to walk, but not walk very well. HOP! Perhaps a quick shuffling of those wing tips complete with a business suit, folded pocket square neatly tucked into the breast pocket. The anticipation of waiting for just one hilarious misstep...I'm BREATHLESS!

Humiliation comes in all forms, from lighthearted fun to a jarring head in the toilet. What do I prefer? Both. I'm the sign of the twins. For some people (I've noticed) the more humiliating the better and sometimes it is very slight. After the session, I hear..."I feel so relaxed, I can continue with my life now."

Humiliation isn't for everyone, but for some people it is NECESSARY as a unique form of therapy. As a part of a simple mental outlook and a serious release towards feeling normal, one may feel "adjusted."

Share your dreams with me and I'll share mine. These dreams are little parts of what we think about, aberrations of our experiences, fears, joys and tidbits of things we love.

So drop me a line, you know I do LOVE it when you do...

M Sharina

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10/16/2021 UPDATE
Fall is Here!

Fall is here, with Halloween fast approaching! I have always loved Minnesota's changing of the seasons.

You may have noticed that I added some fun new pics on my crossdressing & feminization sessions page, don't forget to scroll all the way down!.

As you may know, things have been busy lately, and I feel very blessed with the depth of your understanding, this is what I'm most grateful for.

I'll be posting another new update soon!

Please keep in touch like you do, and drop me a line! I love hearing tidbits from your world...

From my world to yours...

M Sharina

Minneapolis, Minnesota Dominatrix & Femdom Mistress

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09/27/2021 UPDATE
The Secrets We Keep

Why do men crave domination? I'd say the percentage of men are definitely higher than women, but I have seen individual women who are adventurous and know themselves well enough and are confident in choosing an excursion that is kinky and personal.

I remember one woman, mid thirties, black hair, striking and slight of stature. She was in the middle of the room. She wanted to be dominated by a woman and experience the sensual side of corporal punishment sensation and eroticism through powerlessness. (sound familiar?) Of course, when introducing anyone to something new, I like to couple that with erotic teasing...lure them into taking more than they thought they could and enjoying it. Then, there's the element of woman to woman, which not all women are familiar with, so it's safe to explore with a woman who knows how to introduce a sensual concept, pain or no pain.

So, I wanted to move her from the middle of the room and into my hydraulic birthing chair. As I lead her, I could see she had left a puddle right in the middle of the floor. The room was darkened more than usual as I do with some women, and as I looked back, I could see it glistening in the blue hues of the room.

I love the obvious indications a person cannot hide. People can be so quiet and in their head especially when blindfolded. But I like that. Totally immersed and gone...

Last week I had someone arrive who was seeking to finally experience his first ABDL session. A fetish most wives do not understand. Although I do encourage men to bring their wives with them, it isn't always possible and one must think carefully with that kind if decision whether it's ABDL, crossdressing, a medical fetish, the list is long.

As much as I'd love to guarantee your secret is safe out in the open with the person you love the most, I cannot, and, it is a very careful decision to be made because once the cat is out of the bag...meow, it is out.

You're secret is safe with me.

I call what I do therapy because this is what it is. Before you decide to share your fetish, if you ever do, there's the personal experience. Then, you may decide to venture into telling someone, or not. Without a doubt, there are caveats, and sometimes it lands somewhere in the safer middle like it did with slave k.

I have guided some people in mulling that decision over. Take for instance slave k who was about to get married. He wanted his lovely wife-to-be to know everything about him. She knew he had a thing for stockings and indulged his love for this, but there was so much more. He wanted (needed) to be humiliated, made to do things that would bring the element of his desires to a level of catharsis. His innocent wife-to-be couldn't possibly understand, *or see him this way,* so he kept the rest a secret. But I could see him this way. I enjoyed seeing him this way. No judgments, this is my forte', my skill set, my expertise.

This is a personal choice. This is a life choice you're making here and a kind of therapy that isn't understood by everyone. I have an innate sense of what is necessary in a session so I may smooth out the edges. It happens with novices, but it also happens with those I have played with before.The needs of a submissive, a slave, a pet are relative to their experience or lack of experience. It's up to me to peel the onion and to carefully nurture that kink no one else could possibly understand.

Life is like that. Not always a clear cut answer or path, so you wait for the right moment to decide. In the meantime we are both in this together.

I hope you are enjoying the beginnings of fall. I love the changes of the seasons. We get to hunker down and eventually look forward to renewal!

This is a very good week to drop me a line. I am busy with a sprinkling of sessions, but I've also allowed myself a break to finish up some studio projects.

M Sharina

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09/20/2021 UPDATE
Touching base AND "No end to the interesting." . . .

I have a million things to tell you, but I'll break it down if I can, if not, get ready for a wordy update. You don't mind, do you?

I received a noteworthy comment on a picture I posted on twitter. @WeakMike made mention of a pic (which you may see right here as my twitter is embedded) by saying he thought it may have been "some kind of demonic enslavement, where I extract the man's soul through the tip of his mini..."(matchstick) I LOVED THAT! The thing is, although a picture is worth a thousand words, you may not know what words were being said, if any while he was sublimely being impaled. I can tell you this, IT WAS INTENSE as I created such turmoil in my slaves body, he spoke in tongues and almost lost his mind. Dont worry, I scooped up his brains and funneled them back in. He speaks even better than he did before.

Also, on the opposite side of the spectrum I'm learning a lot more about my ABDL's. Although I thought it was an anomaly, the combination of crossdressing and AB seems common. There is a kind of crossover. What I've also noticed is there may be a combination of play with diapers or a different theme all together. I spoke to someone today expressing his need to explore these avenues, but was afraid he'd have marks and his hair waxed. No doll. You leave as you have arrived unless of course you'd like marks or want to be waxed...all too happy to play within your safety realm, unless of course you want to be "bound and terrified" which sans marks or not, you WILL be affected and have memories of a fantasy well played out. CONSENSUAL is important to me, this is why I study your interests (and limits) before you arrive. I'm not some fly by night assembly line assembler, cutting out cookies I make desserts called, "Fantasia." No two are alike.

Yesterday, (Sunday) I had a session. It's rare, but Saturdays and during the week it's more likely although Mondays are not my favorite day. I'm "energy thriving. " Anyway, yesterday was quiet, I knew what my session would be like until, I took it to the next level of frenzy. He was on the bondage table, tape over his mouth, thin plastic bag over his head, arms up legs up. Every now and then I'd lift up the bag as it pressed up against his sweaty face, sometimes my hand would land right over his mouth outside the plastic just to make it interesting, other times, I'd reach in and pull his thick hair. It was so good, and I knew it was what he needed, so who cares...quiet Sunday, not really quiet.

Vikings lost. My slave mike was wearing his Jersey. He's so cute.

I have been very busy, which doesn't always give me the luxury to keep in touch. I read every single email you send though. Sometimes I write you back late at night, or it gives me food for thought and I take it into my sleep and dream. Sometime I'll tell you what I dream about.

I know I must be missing something, if so, I'll save it for next week!

Until then...

M Sharina

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09/13/2021 UPDATE
INESCAPABLE PERVERSIONS . . .

I love it when people come in from out of town to see me. I was very pleased to spend an entire day with a baby boy ABDL and his Mommy. The CONTRAST between that session and a bondage session I enjoyed is striking!

That bondage session took a kind of Goth turn when I spied in my cabinet a new sounds toy I had almost forgotten I had which was gifted to me recently. But when I was looking for something "just right" to titillate my slave, there it was. Curled horns, tubular sounds waiting for the force of a rocket ship blasting into space enabling the most perfectly perverted animation.

I wear so many hats. I'm a Gemini, sign of the twins. I like to refer to my carefree and dangerous sister Saint Sabrina, as an extended power of mine. She's nice, she's unpredictable, she's slow fingernails down a chalkboard...and, you cant help but stare.

This week looks just as riotously fun, with 007 coming in for his out of body mindfuck roleplay. I can't wait! I don't ALWAYS know what I will do or where it will swerve, I only know that I culminate the most lovely loss of control.

So, I will leave all that there for this...

It's been an astounding couple of weeks though hasn't it? From Labor Day to the 20th year of remembering 9/11, kids going back to school. Where has the time gone? Fall is right around the corner as I see big bushels of mums outside the grocery stores.

Don't worry, I'm here for now. A place of rescue from the stress of life. It's needed because it is therapy what we do here.

QUICKIE NEWS ITEM: I am requiring all sessions to provide vaccine status. I will continue to take temperatures, sanitize hands and if you'd like to start fresh, you may spin in my shower before the session. Does not/will not take away any time from our time together. Our time is important. It's the precious present.

Oh, and my "airport service" has been working like a charm. Picked up upon landing and brought back to the airport before boarding. There is no fee for this. I'm literally 6 miles from the airport terminals.
So, there it is in a nutshell. Sorry I was MIA last week for the blog...but HERE I AM! So, do your thing, drop me a line to let me know how you're faring.

M Sharina

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09/11/2021 UPDATE

Remembering the courageous and fallen from 9/11 on this day.

My heart, thoughts, and prayers go out to you and your families.

This tragedy has impacted us all, and we must stand together as one.

Never forget.

M Sharina

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08/31/2021 UPDATE
PILOT TO CO-PILOT . . .

Wait, I am the pilot...unless of course I decide to be twins, which, press the button and wallah! I am both!

In the middle of my week I was able to have some nice connections with some new people. Virgins to me, I adapt them in my own way to my forms of domination, which are different to say the least.

Fondly I remember my session with a tall drink of water, pretty, and submissive, lovely really and malleable...until I had him tied, relinquishing all control to me and losing his mind through my successful attempts to tease, influence and control. "I am the Captain now." I don't have to physically tie someone up in order to fully control them. I adapt a sort of power dynamic that challenges their willingness to BE the perfect reflection of who I see them as being. Putty. Powerful in their relinquishment of control. Manipulated willingly. To me, that's the good part, the juice of a scene when I know you've really handed over the controls. I am the pilot.

Excited for a new month! Transforming the "Lucky Girl" room to something VIVID! I think those lucky enough, girl or likewise who spend the night, may not be able to sleep for various reasons. Speaking of which, lately I've enjoyed some longer sessions and look forward to an overnight here and there. I utilize my "Panic Room" for true slave enthusiasts. With the hint of a blue light menacing over my rather large (heavy steel) full body encompassing puppy cage, there you are...tormented, chastised with cock cage and arse chastity. (Yes, I control everything.) A perfect combination for your tormenting pleasure. Pleasure?

I'd also say my "Corporal Punishment Room" has a warm flavor since I make you all comfy with remote control stimulation and tease throughout your night. Sleepless in the Twin Cities.

So, seasons change, but its always interesting and warm where I am...

Drop me a line, I always love hearing from you.

M Sharina

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08/23/2021 UPDATE
AND SHE HAS A SISTER . . .

My time is just enormously INTERESTING and I wanted to share it with you

 

To me, no matter how long I've been enjoying domination, I always manage to find a new way of tormenting my subjects. If my session is long, I make some plans about it, but then end up doing something COMPLETELY different! Blow me over with a feather, right?

Ok, so I was "twin" nurses...or was my blond sister Sabrina the nurse, and I Sharina was the doctor? Yes, the latter and former. My sister is VERY tactile and has a dirty mind. She's flirty and does not like to follow protocols in my unorthodox medical training room. I eventually had to take control of the situation by asking her to sit down and SHUT THE FUCK UP! I tied her to a chair in the back room after a somewhat brief discussion about her suspension from the clinic!

A cis gender female made a second appointment in my Medical Asylum for a thorough and very "proper" medical examination. I do believe I diagnosed her with "Hysteria" and took proper steps for a very successful medical treatment and necessary "alignment." Her treatment will continue, as a women's health is very important to her mental well being.

ABOUT FACE! Forward march! You have been remanded to "The Panic Room" in my private prison for 12 arduous hours and will not be let out until you show signs of being sufficiently rehabilitated. You will be in steel shackles, fed prisoner's rations and intermittently tortured...taken out of your jail cell to receive CORPORAL punishments and a marking so you will not soon forget.

Virgins? Have I said virgins to real time play EXCITE me? I have a newbie this week, but let me tell you about "V" from a distance of about 6 hours away. Anticipation can be the key to disaster. It's like being excited to go on a ride at the park and its not as great as you thought. Well, this was different. The session was very dynamic. Gentle spirit, engaging in a fantasy, and a very much anticipated scene. Part of the session was living out a fantasy, which I adore because I take great care in coming as close to reality as possible. The restraint, sensory deprivation, the struggle, the plight! BUT, I use this saying, "The mind is willing but the body is weak." You know that one? I was very proud of "V's" perseverance. On all fours, knees spread, arms tied and lifted, in heels, tied slightly up, double bardex insertion and as I began to fill "V" up, she began to whimper and moan...just like the video. I loved every minute. LOVED. EVERY. MINUTE

The sounds...the exasperation! It was set up for 4 hours, but I lingered in it a bit longer. Understandably a bit of sensory overload, but it was fantastic.

I also reconnected with someone I had not seen for about 3 years. I made Cosmopolitans for a little celebratory salute at the beginning of our 6 hours together which ended up being longer of course. She's been on a journey of MtF transformation. I did a *saline infusion on her and her bewbs were so pretty! She ended up being a really nice bra model...("Chicks really dig that")

*See pics on the Feminization page.

Last Saturday I found a new look for my crossdresser Petra. I have SO many wigs...it's nice to be choosy Black underbreast corset, thigh high stockings and long satin gloves...The blondish wig was long. She looked like Farrah Fawcett with glasses...

Seems like when I am filled with play, we share the same endorphins especially when we're doing a needle to pierced nipple pull.

SO, if I haven't responded to your phone call, it's because I've been busy.

FASTER RESPONSES THROUGH EMAIL!

Also, I cannot respond to same day or next day requests for a session. It's only possible (but doubtful) unless you've seen me before, so please PLAN YOUR SCHEDULE ACCORDINGLY.

*Please note: I am booked until Sept 1 unless I have a cancellation.

Thank you too for dropping me a line to check in. I'm doing great as are all of us at Femme Fatale. Staying safe, masking and vaxxing and keeping my people SAFE!

M Sharina

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08/10/2021 UPDATE
IT'S A VACATION DAY!

As summer sails by, I can't help but reflect on the many different experiences and memories I've created.

 

Femme Fatale, Bond Villainess, Experimental Research Technician, Unothodox Nurse, Dominatrix, Feminizer / Transformer of Men, Femdom Mistress, and more.

 

Summer is off to a good start indeed . . . Drop me a line AND let me know how YOUR summer is going. YOU KNOW I ALWAYS ENJOY CONNECTING WITH YOU AND FINDING OUT WHAT YOURE UP TO.

 

MORE:

You know someone told me again last week, "You're my vacation Mistress." I love that.

M Sharina

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07/26/2021 UPDATE
BEING PRICKED, & LEFT FOR DEAD

Fly on the wall:
I tell him the poison is coursing through his veins now at full force as I see he cannot help but be excited. It's all making him weaker and weaker and it is futile to do anything about it. Every bit of his excitement is getting him deeper and deeper in the muck, and as I see it, a literal sense of satisfaction washes over me. He's angry. He doesn't know how this could happen, but it's real and it's happening and there's nothing he can do to stop it. He says, "Fuck you bitch!" (As if being irate is going to help him out of this inescapable predicament.) I get closer, stare him square in the eyes and I say, "Fuck you" back. He's a goner and he knows it. I love it and I don't want to leave this feeling of power. It would be nothing without his powerlessness. Nothing. So I stay in it to enjoy it just as long as he can hang in there...he doesn't and there is one last sudden gasp and groan for air.

I can't just leave this emotion, it lingers. I want to slap his face again, say, FUCK YOU" one more time...but it's nicey nice come down time. DAMMIT to hell!

I get into character quite easily with roleplay, but screw me, I love it so much, it's hard to leave it. I love delving in deep, especially when I'm playing a Medical Dominatrix. (M.D) with all the devious elements and devine layers of power, I savor them ALL.

I tell you it's a ride. I spend the night before in preparation planting seeds for what I might do. The scene already begins to get under my skin. I like it like that. Whatever the intensity, I'll reside there with you, especially when you are processing the experiences of forced womanhood. I have lots up my sleeves, because these are also my mini workshops...

So! I hope you've been fairing well this week. I see some of you are traveling through Minnie. Remember, if you have a layover or are planning to see me, I will arrange for my driver to pick you up at the airport and return you back safe and sound. I am very close to the aeroporto, say 6 miles.

If I didnt know already you have a life with your own responsibilities to tend to, I'd capture you and keep you. My playtime never really has to end...


M Sharina

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07/19/2021 UPDATE
SO, YOU WANT "THAT" DO YOU?

I have a very long and immersive session tomorrow with the theme being "FORCED WOMANHOOD." This includes the things I imagine, and within the limits of my subject and I cannot wait!!!!

Strong reason why I RARELY schedule a session off the cuff. Even a day in advance can be an issue with my particular kind of preparation, plus, I'll just say no if you are new to me.

So, what I'm excited about is the transformation itself from head to toe. Lots of training and explaining about how he will FROM NOW ON be referred to as "she" and "her" and "FEMALE" and will now have a girly name. She will learn how to walk and dress and menstruate all the way to giving birth. Like I said, "immersive."

When I pluck and wax and coif hair, mentally I feel as if I'm making her mine. Designing her to perform as a woman, ovulate as a woman and experience pain as a woman. I watch with fervor, the male persona DISAPPEAR with my expertise! Poof!

The different personas I have in the course of one week is quite interesting. James Bond will be poisoned once again this week with the shake of a hand..."Why hello James. Nice to see you..."(extends hand, he reaches to feel my smooth skin which ends up causing him to feel distracted...and poisoned)

*I want to make a note here about something that happened last week. I spoke with a nice gentleman about a session for this week. He was going to take advantage of my layover service as he had a 4 hour span of time to enjoy. He waited 5 days before sending me his itinerary. Too late, I had it booked solid with a back-up if canceled. He cannot schedule a session with anyone else here in MPLS because I am less than 6 mi from the airport and offer pick up service. So, there it is.

Let's see, anything else I need to tell you? Oh, I loved your letters from the last blog posting. Not a lot of time to respond to each, but I thoroughly enjoyed each one! My kind of people...

Ok, I'll try to post on Twitter this week, but it'll be more of a challenge. I don't post genital pics on Twitter...maybe Fet. I did post 20 needles in the shaft of the cock and one rather small gauge through the actual head. What a THRILL! (Fans face)

So, if you think of anything you want to tell me, you know what to do...DROP ME A LINE

I hope your summer is hotin all the right ways...smothering, all encompassing, straight to your panties or crotch HOT!

and

 

M Sharina

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07/12/2021 UPDATE
DELVING DEEP IF YOU DABBLE...

I'm an avid reader and a I also delve into audio books. I'm a Gemini personality, grounded with my moon in Cancer. I read and listen to all kinds...Right now I'm listening to a book written (quite descriptively) by Marilyn Manson, The Long Hard Road Out of Hell. It begins with a story about his grandfather living in the basement, a locked cabinet where hidden inside is a bag of dicks with discolored vaseline on the tips, dirty magazines and an assortment of marital aides. I was hooked...

One of the things I've noticed in Marilyn's writing, is how two opposites are put together, and also how they fit. I see this in my every day life as a DOMINATRIX.

I'm called upon to literally take someone out of their vanilla life and put them in my chocolate, cloudy swirls of cherries (plucking) and shake up the psyche in a way that seems right for them. The addiction to my plucking of cherries has me planting seeds that always germinate, even if it's years down the road, as this is what good Mistress relationships are made of.

I remember putting a trans girl in my latex vac bed at one of my parties pouring latex lube all over it and having an assortment of people run their fingers all over her. Me with a Hitachi wand forcing her pleasure while she was made to breathe through a tube which the air was intermittently cut off. As it was her birthday, a plate with little creamy cupcakes were lit and presented to her once she was unzipped out of the smothering latex vac bed and with what little breath she had left over, she blew out the candles while we sang happy birthday.

Imagine being in that dark place, no control over your breath to be cut off at any time where your attention is pulled away by imminent pleasure, which you also have no control over. Devilish-Dichotomy

I thrive on the correlations between art and reality where the mind meets the soul and those fun dark little places that take you and I right out of the ordinary. It's a must to thrive.

So, what are your favorite dichotomies? Simple ones are pain and pleasure together. A more diverse set of duo experience would be the sense of existentialism and bondage. Then taking your vulnerability and wrapping your mind around my little finger, I begin to whisper, you begin to respond. That safe place that is also dark but you want to explore. It's like a high ropes course (which I've done twice) All the while being harnessed in safely, it's easy to believe you're not SAFE. You work through your issues, some of them are about trust. Most of the time we play, and through that play, you work through issues just like a high ropes course. You take it out into the world you know. THIS is not just play. That's the beauty if it in our fantastical world.

This week I've been painting and getting ready to fully transform my Lucky Girl Room. Right now it's pink and black, but soon it will be a completely different color. What color? I'll give you a hint: Razor...(you'll never guess and it'll be a surprise) I've designed the hint that way.

I washed quite a few wigs recently, 11 in all. I'm very careful with cleanliness and the need to wash, rinse and condition, so it's great I have so many. Plus, I got in a nice array of eyelashes! Conservative, Sexy Secretary, Vamp and Super Slutty or Drag Queen. I have an affinity for slutty. Big surprise there.

How was your week? Anything new? By the way, I love all the newbies I'm planning to corrupt. They are innocent, wanting to explore, but they have yet to realize this will be a lifelong endeavor that will encapsulate their world completely. But then again, I remember when YOU were new, so you understand. You never forget your first Mistress or the one who takes you to the next level and far beyond.

Drop me a line, you know I love it when you do...

 

Hearts and Kisses ♥️♥️

M Sharina

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07/05/2021 UPDATE
PLAY WITH ME MISTRESS!

So, I've been looking at CBT devices today. My collection is getting there. Can I EVER really have enough? NO. The dichotomy are the combinations of LAYERED PAIN devices with my CBT fans, and I have many. With spikes? Without spikes? Combination IMPALER...yes. I will tell you what my favorites are:

Cock Spikes
Anal stretcher (always a nice combo)
Weights that TRAP the balls
Urethral Stem Chastity
LOCKING devices
Pricker anything
Humbler
"Chastity" that doesn't have to lock, it's just PAINFUL
Self infliction of discomfort

I have yet to put a slave in a humbler and watch him crawl around the dungeon performing tasks. I imagine the top of the armoire needs dusting. I'd slave-sit just to watch.

 

Which brings to mind, dusting my toy armoires. A slave would need to put them back EXACTLY the way they were. If not, a violation and use OF the devices that was not put back correctly. The games I like. Speaking of which, I have one coming today. I have a devious game I've construed...(smirk) The softer side, no pain, just lots of tease and a hopeful escape. I hope you had a very nice and safe 4th if July!I had a great weekend.

Share with me YOUR favorite CBT devices. You know what to do, drop me a line, maybe a link!

M Sharina

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07/02/2021 UPDATE
WHAT WERE THE RESPONSES TO MY QUESTION: FAVORI9TE PORN?

WOW!

The thing I find interesting, is those of you I know, have a love for the kind of porn you see yourself in. SURPRISE! A contraction of your true fetish. Something you'd love to experience...your toe in the pond.

The thing too is you can take it to the next level of intensity by watching what you may not be able to do in real life, but you still imagine you can.

The dirtiest, smelliest feet right in your face, hovering as you salivate to lick and suck all the dirt and smell off.

The biggest mother of a STRAP-ON cock plunging the depths of your pussy, while made to suck a real fleshy cock feeling the cum smatter all over your face and in your mouth.

Ball gags buckled tightly in the mouth while bound, you struggle to walk in the highest heels and the biggest boobs. (Think House of Gord)

Then before the Internet, one person mentioned buying magazines like Hog Tie & Captured but kink.com is a super fav.

Medical porn, being gassed, chloroformed and taken advantage of. "Experimental procedures" with sex change operation with no anesthesia...

I must say, I truly enjoyed reading what you love. It feeds my sexy, fertile mind.

M Sharina

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06/28/2021 UPDATE
DID SOMEONE SAY PORN?

Someone mentioned to me in a PM,
"I never knew you loved man on man domination before." Well, I do, very much. There are a lot of things I love and it's not something I've chosen to love, it's something I'm drawn to.

I used to pour over my prize Mr. S catalog because the pictures were so hot. It was a black and white picture diary of toys and play. I think my heavy steel CAGES are in there too. (Which they don't sell anymore)

The really cool thing is, years ago if you went in the Mr. S store in SF the guys in the catalog were also working in the store helping you pick out things. One time my favorite guy was sitting at a table, says to me, "I like your top." I responded, "Oh thank you." Sweetly smiled and almost dropped dead. His name was Anthony, his face was square, chiseled, boyish and blond. I still have that top. I'll never get rid of it, I've had it for over 20 years. I bought my very first flogger from Mr. S. Latex gloves, clover clamps, parachute...leather strait jacket, tit flaps, padded elbows...and cages. Yeah, a histwah of items I adore.

Brings to mind, favorite porn. We all have a fav. Sometimes it's just a visual thing that turns you on, or maybe it feeds that fetish of yours. Recreational, TABOO, squirting, foot POV...skads to choose from, but the ONES that turn you on are the ones you're "drawn" to...a compulsion.

So, what's your favorite? Why do you love it?

It's still June and I'm still celebrating ️‍HAPPY PRIDE MONTH ️‍ which always includes LEATHER PRIDE. 🖤No parade this year, but I've been posting on Twitter some favorite past time Pride pics. https://twitter.com/SharinaNicole FOLLOW ME. All my friends are real.🧡Drop me a line and a juicy link!

M Sharina

Minneapolis, Minnesota Dominatrix & Femdom Mistress

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06/26/2021 UPDATE
SATURDAY NIGHT! HOPE YOU'RE HAVING FUNNNN!

Enjoy this wonderful weekend! I added some fun pics on my crossdressing & feminization sessions page!

You'll want to see those! Fun & sexy!

Enjoy! MWAH!!!!

M Sharina

Minneapolis, Minnesota Dominatrix & Femdom Mistress

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06/21/2021 UPDATE
HAPPY MONDAY!

It was a rainy weekend so I CHILLAXED! That's slave mike's word for it and if the shoe fits, slide that baby on.

I'm preparing for a very busy week ahead especially with one late evening session going into morning. So, except for posting Foot Fetish Friday pics, I will be MIA to catch up on other things.

My fertile mind is tweaked for this evening as I will be seeing someone from Chicago who has not been to Minneapolis since Covid struck. We seem to feed off of each other as a very devious roleplay unfolds. I'll give you a hint: I'm hired by his wife to lure him back to my hideaway. Once there, the jig is up. (Eyes wide, rubbing hands together) Can't wait!

Thank you for letting me know the website was down. My Web Master was on it with lightening speed and NOW my website will be even faster. I despise waiting for sites to load...

So there it is and here we are!

HOM kisses,

M Sharina

Minneapolis, Minnesota Dominatrix & Femdom Mistress

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06/14/2021 UPDATE
OLDER, WISER, AGELESS

You must feel it. The heat, the sweat, our world finally getting into SYNC! Still, at Femme Fatale, I'm careful with you and with me....and a BIG THANK YOU to you for remembering my birthday! I'm very subtle about it (on purpose) I SO enjoyed every surprise! In my opinion, birthdays are for REFLECTION, where I've been, and how I want to move forward and with whom. As it is, I feel very blessed with the people I attract, and the depth of those relationships! This is what I'm most grateful for.

I promise to be in touch more. When I'm MIA, I'm busy taking care of things. You understand...

Cheers to another YEAR!

M Sharina

Minneapolis, Minnesota Dominatrix & Femdom Mistress

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05/31/2021 UPDATE
HAPPY MEMORIAL DAY!

Please remember our veterans and their families, and to honor those who gave all in serving our country in the United States Armed Forces.

Thank you so much for your service!

I thank you.

M Sharina

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05/28/2021 UPDATE
Salutations toots adorbs!

Today was a great Friday. Not only am I reminded why I am a practicing dominatrix, but also why I love it so much and will NEVER STOP 🥰 Each one of you is a unique expression of who I see you as and the marks I leave on you are only indelible long enough on your skin because sadly, they fade, but in your mind the memories stay. But, I thank YOU for the memories I get to create every day. Here is to a New Year for me tomorrow. A whole new beginning of growth and experiences with YOU. Cheri said it best in her thank you to me for the session today. "With your skills and firm hand you delivered both that will take awhile for the marks to heal and slowly fade away but not the memories of today." M Sharina

Minneapolis, Minnesota Dominatrix & Femdom Mistress

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05/21/2021 UPDATE
HAPPY FRIDAY!

 

The weekend is literally HERE, but we've also got another big weekend coming up!

May 29, is my birthday, and I've decided "ageless" is much better than a number. Both my Gemini twins are opposites, so I'm young hearted with an old soul. Just ask St. Sabrina what she thinks of her twin sister Sharina.

Also, Memorial Day is Monday, May 31st. Please remember our veterans next weekend. IMPORTANT. I'll be posting something special for my wonderful Veterans.

A few excerpts from letters from last weeks question. See if it jibes with your thoughts.

Keep safe, tell me what you're up to and drop me a line...
M Sharina

Minneapolis, Minnesota Dominatrix & Femdom Mistress

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05/11/2021 UPDATE
"My Singletail Garden"

I just finished posting my answer to a new question I think will especially interest you. Ok, I have a question for YOU now. What kind of fetish do you have and have you ever been in conflict with it to the point that your life became unmanageable because of it? Curious How are you faring while we are transitioning to SPRING? Have you planted any flowers? I am getting ready to. 🥀⚘ Then again, I've always considered my favorite garden to be the marks that bloom into colors on your bottom 🧡 They are so PRETTY! I miss my "Teddy," a true "SAM."

 

Well, keep in touch, like you do, and drop me a line! I love hearing tidbits from your world...

 

From my world to yours... M Sharina

Minneapolis, Minnesota Dominatrix & Femdom Mistress

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05/03/2021 UPDATE
"BUT HONEY..."

I wanted to let you know I posted something new on my Q and A page. I thought this question was viable for posting because it hits home for a lot of people. I have solutions...

So how are you faring these days through daily life struggles? Are you getting enough rest, working your finger to make a hole in your plastic wrap, and a firm heel pinning you to the floor when you need it? I certainly hope so!!!! My days feel positive, more with the sun shining. You too? Tell me about it. Drop me a line and we'll discuss. As always, M Sharina

Minneapolis, Minnesota Dominatrix & Femdom Mistress

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04/26/2021 UPDATE
MR. SANDMAN

I have enjoyed reading about your dreams since my last posting. Some of you are quite the creative types! I suppose there are several kinds of dreams. On the short list, and ones I like best, are the arousing fantastical dreams where I am aroused when I wake. The other is when I can torment someone relentlessly with no repercussions. The closest I ever came to that in RL was "Instant messaging" on AOL.


Snipets: "You had me tied to the bondage table in the middle of the room..." "He was a Catholic Priest asking me about my fantasy." "I could breathe under water."

I LOVE the mind...I enjoy playing with it through your fetish. What better way to take you on a brief vacation...

Until next time, drop me a line and share your brilliance with me.

M Sharina
Minneapolis, Minnesota Dominatrix & Femdom Mistress

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04/21/2021 UPDATE
IS IT WEDNESDAY ALREADY?!

I always have strange dreams...I'll share.

This morning I woke up out of a dream remembering I was a nurse in my own medical clinic and I had catheterized my patient and asked my assistant to plug the tip of the tube until I could find something to drain it in. I searched around and all I could find was this very long hoagie bun. As my assistant opened the end, the piss from the tube drained into the bread FOREVER! This makes no sense. I won't even tell you about the lobsters through the doggy door. Lol

I have a vivid mind and even through sleep...I play. Reminds me of the online domination I used to do through AOL Instant Messenger. I was always castrating this one man. If you don't have an outlet for fantasy, maybe you dream.

Have a great rest of the week!

M Sharina
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04/19/2021 UPDATE
LET THE GAMES BEGIN!

She drags you over the wood chips so she can pull your pants down and slap your bare bottom when no one is looking. She pulls your hair back so hard your neck is stretched and she does it like she couldn't care less. She didn't care if your worthless balls shriveled or you cracked a tooth.

I was told recently by someone, he wanted to act out a fantasy he had when he was 8. He was placed on a gurney and put in a diaper before a surgical procedure. (I'll be the caring nurse, you be the patient)

A lifelong itch that stems from childhood. Looking for that first-time buzz...

I enjoy your emails and your fantastical brain. So drop me a line!

 

Stay HAPPY,
M Sharina
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04/12/2021 UPDATE
THE BEST LAID PLANS

Even as a new domme, I had always had things I relied on for the depth of a session. One day in particular, my session would be absent of music.

My submissive was waiting patiently for his usual thrashing and as I entered my groove, I didnt so much notice the absence of music, but what replaced it instead. I heard sounds I'd never heard before. I heard clearly the cane as it wafted through the air and as it hit my submissive's bottom. "Whoooosh, WHACK!" I could hear the exhale and obvious struggle that followed. I heard the slightest sigh, and the firm tone of a groan as he struggled with strike after strike. I had never heard these sounds before. The sounds involuntarily escaped his mouth in a brilliant exchange of power. Change, is inevitable, but what we do with it, is important.

Life is a bit different, and we are STILL going to "groove," right? Right.

I enjoy the sessions and the people I see during these changing times.

We're figuring it out, and just like a lack of music, we make our own. I enjoy you keeping in touch, so drop me a line.

Until next time,
M Sharina
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04/05/2021 UPDATE
OH, BABY...OR IS IT BABE?

Oh, Baby...or is it Babe?

I love it when people "drop me a line." Poised in the line was a question. "So Mistress, did you ever have something happen in a session that was really funny?" Well, many things have happened, but one in particular stands out, and when I was very new to domination.

I had someone tied up. The term is "spread eagle" which makes me laugh. But he's tied up, unable to move except for his mouth. He could not stop calling me "Baby" or "Babe." I'm thinking, "Why in the hell is he calling me this? I am a dominatrix!" So, I slap him hard across the face and I say, "If you call me "Baby" or "Babe" one more time, I'm going to slap you again." "Heyyyyy what'd you do that for?" I waited...I teased, I whispered in his ear sexy things. He starts to utter, "Oh baaaaaa..." I say, "Go ahead, do it...call be Baby." He looks at me funny wondering if maybe this is a ruse. It was, but by now, me toying with him was better than anything. More TEASE and more DENIAL, he JUST could not help himself because his mind wandered, so he says, "Ohhhh baaaaaaaby..." (((SLAP!))) A stinging, scorching hand to the face! "Please...pleaaaaase say it" I whispered. Please, I love it when you call me "Baaaaby." The reason I loved it was because every single time he says it, I get to slap him. It's just that simple. He looks at me funny, wondering if he should even open his mouth or just zip it. I'd say the latter, but by now he was in a heightened sense of his brains being fried. I think he's starting to get it and then, WHAMMO, he says it again, "ohhhh Baaaaaaaaabe." I throw my head back and laugh, and then, I (((SLAP!))) "You must LOVE ME SO MUCH." I utter, thanking him profusely for being a pawn for my joyous amusement. Please...say it again. Please...PRETTY PLEASE?

Fondly, I look back. These kinds of things you cannot plan, but what I did that day was turn a disrespectful man filled with machismo into a gentleman who learned a lesson about female domination.

So, it's SPRING! Drop me a line.

Love,
M Sharina

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04/04/2021 UPDATE
HAPPY EASTAH From Mistress Sharina!

Hey, go out and do a good thing today. Smile inside your mask or from a distance. That kind of Random Act of Kindness spreads goodness EVERYWHERE. Plus, it makes me happy knowing you're doing good things, while I'm not tormenting you

Talk to you tomorrow
M Sharina

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04/01/2021 UPDATE
ANOTHER BLOG POST!

It's April and my Christmas lights are tucked away in a big red box. FINALLY! (Now where are those Easter lights) I happened to notice my flat iron horse. It's from one of the houses I had when I first moved here to Minnesota. I keep something from every house. I also have a lucky horse shoe and a small mirror. It's interesting the things I've saved.

Do you save anything? Maybe something that reminds you of a session that belongs to only you? I'm curious how sentimental you are.

I posted something on twitter today, maybe you saw it. Totally tongue in cheek, but if I did use it, you'd wonder if your Mistress was stark raving mad! Well, I am, but only a little. 🧜‍♀️

Tomorrow is FRIDAY! I have some very nice pictures from my session with Trample Guy. You will LOVE them, especially if you are a foot guy. I'll be posting them on TWITTER, but you'll no doubt see them HERE as Twitter is embedded on my fantastic website.

Until mañana!
M Sharina Nicole

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03/28/2021 UPDATE
WHEN WORLDS COLLIDE

I have this thing I enjoy. I'd say I enjoy it very much. At a very specific time during a session, I want to hear my slave say, "Mistress, I'm nothing without you." When I hear it, it's because my slave has earned the privilege to say it. So, after quite a spanking and a brave reception of his first singletail whipping, I allowed my slave to say those most perfect words. I know my slave wanted to, but instead he uttered, "Mistress, I love you."

Surprising things happen in a session. The act alone of Kissing your Mistress' toes after a session can bring you into such an emotional state, you cry.

These things that happen mean you've reached a rare area of submission. I love every moment.

This week? Ill start with tomorrow. Shall we say "Sharpie" is coming in for a bit of "power ball." I cant imagine he'll cry, bark maybe...but he WILL collapse onto the floor and my foot, wedged into his latex crotch, he will be powerless to get back up again. THIS brings me JOY!

Like I said, I love every moment.

M Sharina

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03/20/2021 UPDATE
SPRING IN MY STEP!

Tell me, what did you celebrate last week? Did you enjoy St. Patrick's Day leading into SPRING?!!?! 🦋

I've seen 2 moving trucks today, watched the snow melt down to nothing, and when I took my Sketchers off, there was that old familiar scent of intoxicating foot smells.

Please remember to read my UPDATED Covid-19 info. If you're planning a trip here to the Twin Cities, contact me first! Planning is imperative. ♥️

Heard in a session: "Bark for me doggy." WOOF! WOOOOF!" "You're not a big doggy. BARK LIKE A toy poodle!!!!" "erf erf errrrrf!" "GOOD BOY!!!!"

Happy Spring!
M Sharina

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03/16/2021 COVID-19 UPDATE

Are you tired of wearing masks for protection from COVID-19? I know I am AND continuing our vigilance together is KEY to ensure we rid ourselves of this INSIDIOUS pandemic

So, what's new at Studio Femme Fatale about COVID-19?

We are CONTINUING to take PRECAUTIONS for SAFETY.

READ THIS:
1. I take precautions during every session & mask wearing is MANDATORY.

2. All sessions are scheduled in advance, and only ONE person may session in a 24 hour period of time.

3. Upon arrival, your digital temperature will be taken before every session, and your hands sanitized.

4. All surfaces (including door knobs, switches, faucet handles, toilet and sink) are disinfected with 70% (or greater) alcohol.

5. I use an air filtration w/ UV sanitizer purification system during all sessions. Before and after sessions, the air is thoroughly sanitized with SEVENTH GENERATION DISINFECTANT SPRAY (Kills 99.99% bacteria and viruses).

REMEMBER:
COVID-19 still exists in our society, and we must take precautions to stay safe. The COVID-19 numbers must go DOWN, and because of COVID-19 (and its variants), we must continue our safety precautions.

Vaccinations are a start, COVID-19 is still a concern. For those who are vaccinated, they can STILL carry and transmit to OTHERS. This is why masking is important.
WE WILL GET THROUGH THIS!

M Sharina

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03/15/2021 UPDATE
BACK INTO GROOVY

Last week was very busy. I haven't seen "Trampleguy" in forever, but listening to him scream like a stuck pig, was music to my ears. I flattened his face out with both of my bare feet.

 

I also pushed tacks into his chest with my heel. Recorded with pics and video.

I also enjoyed my oldest guy at 84 who needs to be caged, shaved, and lightly tormented. I say to him, "Your birthday is coming up!" He says, "Yeah. I won't be 39 anymore." He then smirks as I prepare dripping candle wax and warming him with my fire wands. I just love him. We have a very long history together. I love my people and keep them safe.

Last week was busy, but I was still able to enjoy the nice weather. I was ready to turn my Christmas lights off, but I had to be ready.

I LOVE this time of year. It's a time of RENEWAL! Things are turning around. Do you feel it too? I'm anticipating a great year. STILL vigilant! Please read my updated Covid-19 code of conduct.

In the meantime, I'll be in touch a bit more with: things heard in a session. FUN! Drop me a line, tell me what you're excited about.

M Sharina

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03/08/2021 UPDATE
INTERNATIONAL WOMEN'S DAY

Have you ever seen something so interesting and yet compelling, you thought you might be the only person left who's never seen it? That happened to me on Sunday when I swerved into the "LFL." What is the LFL you ask? Stands for Legends Football League. It is an American women's TACKLE football league which plays in the Spring and Summer. They play tackle football in bathing suits and shoulder pads.

 

Watch it. I promise It'll brighten your day!

A week into March already. Did you have a good week? Make this week a good one, because before you know it, it'll be APRIL! Today, I'm tackling some things in the dungeon which means I'm making room for more elements. Idle hands are the Devil's playground. So, what keeps your hands busy?

I am backlogged a bit with my communications, but hang tight and drop me a line anyway. I love hearing from you...

M Sharina
A Fan of Women Who Tackle
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03/01/2021 UPDATE
WAIT, WHAT? WHEN DID THIS HAPPEN?!

Happy Monday and happy March 1st! A fresh start to a new week AND a new month with some catching up to do.

Sharing with you a question I received yesterday. "Why is there a show called Minnesota Bound but not Minnesota Gagged?" GOOD QUESTION!

First, as you know, I've put my surprise page on hold. Since my little dog Vera died suddenly, it has been very difficult to focus on some of the things I'd planned for that page and you'll see why later on, but for now the not so secret passwords are "fun and frivolity!" So, guess what? I have my hands on some super fun pictures. My web Master has been instructed to scan them, which means I will have a new page up just as soon as the pics are scanned. Stories and explanations to match. You will LOVE it!

For now, I'm going to keep enjoying my Christmas lights until the snow MELTS. You know, like I melt you.

I'll be posting another message in a day or two. It's about something I noticed on 60 minutes. But for now, FUN AND FRIVOLITY!

Until then, have a great day, and if you think of it, drop me a line.

Mwah!
M Sharina

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02/23/2021 UPDATE
BIGGER THAN LIFE!

You've been telling me for a while now. What is it you REALLY need?
The kinds of sessions you're asking me for lately are to give you Powerlessness to Catharsis. We explore this all the time, but really, it's deeper. Bits and pieces of inertia implant itself into you until WHAMMO, "Slap me out of it Mistress." "Ok."

What I do is called therapy because it's therapeutic. Not just physically, but your mind gets an injection.
Curiosity is also a thing. It's different in real time, like listening to the radio is different than front row tickets to Guns and Roses. Yeah, I heard THAT!

Still being careful in the odyssey of NOW, and I'm excited too. I adore my Minnesota people and I'm glad restrictions have been workable here since airline travel has changed our habits. I miss my Euro, NY, Chicago and Wisconsin people VERY MUCH! Soon to change gears...FINALLY!
I want you to STAY safe, be well, healthy mind, body and spirit, and if you need to, I'm always here, so drop me a line.

M Sharina
Spirit Technician
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02/17/2021 UPDATE
IT'S THE LITTLE THINGS!

Did you have a nice LOVE day? I enjoy reading about love and all it's levels. Love replaces the other stuff, and there's just way too much to LOVE if you look for it.

Here are some things I love AND things you didnt know about me.

I love watching strippers behind the glass.

When I was in my 20's I wanted to be a midwife

I love watching high speed chases especially if it involves the high jacking of an RV

"Blue Murder" is music to my ears

I was on a live TV dance show. Grace Jones was the musical guest

I'm a news junkie

My alter ego is my sister Saint Sabrina

Favorite porn. Don't get me started

I love the natural scent of my body. I hold my panties to my nose before they go into the "wash me" basket.

I believe the spirit never dies.

My outside Christmas lights are still on and will remain on until the snow melts.

I love the commonalities we share. Drop me a line if you think of something.

M Sharina
Busting through the barriers. I love it!
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02/11/2021 UPDATE
INCOMING!

Have you enjoyed your week so far? I'd say for moi, a group of emotions being, "Riveted," "Icey Temps," "Sploshing in the Shower," and "Radiant Heat," that only covers Monday and Tuesday!

Tomorrow is "Foot Fetish Friday " so I'll be posting some foot pics on twitter . I've also noticed an increase in kinky questions recently, so I'll post some Q and A for inquiring minds like yours.

Thought for the rest of the week: Read, do, experience, view - what makes YOU happy. You may always confide in me, so drop me a line

M Sharina
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02/07/2021 UPDATE
SUPERBOWL SUNDAY!

It's super Bowl Sunday LIV!!!!! I'll be watching because I love a good game. Everyone have chili ready? Nachos? Chastity still locked tight?

Let the "GAMES" begin!!!! "Noooo Mistress Sharina, you're not going to make me do THAT when the Chiefs score, are you?" "Yes I am slave and you'll keep that nice little piece of ginger you carved into a perfect plug IN until the CHIEFS SCORE." Pictures on demand slave...Now be good and go get me another glass of champagne."

I Super Bowl Chastity Sunday!
I hope your team wins. I know mine will *wink*

M Sharina

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02/01/2021 UPDATE
TEASY MONDAY!

Are you getting through the year so far? Weeeeee!!! I'm having fun! My sessions seem sexily concentrated.

I think I love teasing you too much. Knowing you are subjected to my teasing and watching you squirm while in bondage. Are you testing it? Trying to get away? Or just trying to get closer to me? I think the latter as I know what you'd REALLY like to do if you squirmed out...

I've been doing a myriad of one hour to complicated lengthy scenes. I really enjoy working my articulate brain to create something different each time, as although I have had a bevy of new people exploring, I also enjoy my loyals. I know you so well...wink wink

I love hearing from you (still) so drop me a line.
M Sharina
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01/31/2021 UPDATE
SUNDAY POSTING (SEE YOU TOMORROW!).

I saw a movie Saturday I thought was profound. You'll see some details in my twitter posting embedded here on my website. The thing that stood out the most, was this boy who liked female things, he just did. He didn't understand how being girly wasn't accepted by everyone.

Palmer is a tough, but broken guy. Sam is a sweet and unassuming kid. Sam loves the kid's show, Flying Princess Power. Palmer asks Sam, "How many boys do you see?" Sam says, "None." "What does that tell you?" Sam replies, "That I can be the first."

I dont normally do movie reviews here, but this is an important movie. It's SUBTLE, and POWERFUL. The characters have depth, and I understood all of them. Some of you will too.
M Sharina
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01/25/2021 UPDATE
BACK TO "KINKY NORMAL" FOR ME...

Things are getting back to "kinky normal" for me and right back in the frame of mind I love to be in. After being blindsided with the loss of my Vera, it's taken a lot not to be almost completely paralyzed daily. I think you know what I mean, loss is loss. I'm adjusting.

Moving forward with the new page, which will be posted sooner than you think! So, keep checking back, I'm sure you'll find it useful.

I see snow on the ground and it's cold, but I know SPRING is going to pin us down and love us up!

Oh, and THANK YOU SO MUCH for sending your love during this time. Not only that, but sharing your own stories with me. Salve...
M Sharina
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01/20/2021 UPDATE
BRING ON THE ENDORPHINS!...

Things I've learned this week. As hopeless as things can be, they will ALWAYS get lighter, just stick with it. Use what you need to get through it, a support system, catharsis, your Mistress. What do I do? I enjoy my support system and YOU. When I am experiencing a scene with you, nothing else matters. Endorphins reside where pain inhabited.

I also had a dream that stuck with me. It was a fisting dream. Suffice it to say, I put a harness on a man, it didn't fit, so I put it on another man, it fit, so I fisted him. Is this a glass slipper hypothesis?

So! We move on from today! It's going to get good this year. Mark my words...

With Love and Happiness,
M Sharina
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01/12/2021 UPDATE
THINKING OF WRITING YOU...

I've been thinking of writing you, especially telling you about my new page, but I've been so sad about the sudden loss of my dog Vera. I am totally heartbroken. She was 10 and had an enlarged heart. Please be patient while I gather my spirit to recover.

I cannot post my new page until I am ready to refine it so you understand what it is fully. You know me, the devil is in the details.

I did put things on hold until recently. I enjoyed a session with "Teddy" burning my lips further into his chest. It's very pretty. I also shared some really nice energy with a newbie to BDSM. I remember wrapping my left arm around his waist, while the other grabbed his ass tightly before spanking him. I loved hearing a sigh out of his mouth as I continued, stood behind him, and pressed my body into his warmth.

So, please be patient. I need to be gentle with myself until I'm at full power. I'm getting there...

With love,
M Sharina
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01/05/2021 UPDATE
HAPPY 2021!
FUCK 2020!

I was faced with being brave at the end of this year. First, I must say I've begun updates a half a dozen times, but no posting until now.

I lost my cherished little dog Vera. I know this has been a year of change and loss, but this was sudden and horrible. I'm appreciative of the personal letters I've received, and also DM's on social media. THANK YOU soooo much.

Having said that, I'm beginning again. It's taking me longer to shift than I thought it would. I see her in everything...

So, HAPPY NEW YEAR! Constant evolving...You will hear from me sooner than later. I've already mapped out some of what I intended to post. I will give you a hint for now. For those of you who are interested in more than what compliments your sexuality, and WHO you are, I have some solutions.

Until then, which will be by the end of this week, Friday, January 8. You will get the whole ball of "hot" dripping wax.

Drop me a line, especially if you've had a challenge over the past year. I always love hearing from you.

2021 is HERE! I promise it will be good...

M Sharina
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12/26/2020 UPDATE
HAPPY HOLIDAYS!

I wouldn't rewind the clock for 2020 if I could. This past year has changed us, we've become more voracious fetishists and savor every moment of time we spend together. Most importantly in my life and in yours, we raise our hot torches and FORGE ahead in the brilliant hue of a new experience to come. Trust me? I'll take you there.

So, I hope your Christmas Eve and Christmas was special...just like you are to me. I've enjoyed your lovely gifts and intermittent holiday salutations in my E-mail inbox and PM's on social media. THANK YOU VERY MUCH!

These are my favorite words of December: "Cutting or burning the kiss or even branding your initials into my body would be fine." As if that were the most natural thing in the world. Also was said, " I hope you realize that I'm going to love you forever." Mistress SMILES, and my heart is FIRE. Words matter very much to me.

What's next? I'll be announcing something very special for you in the coming days just at New Years! Stay FROSTY! Just 5 more days until the New Year! Let's (((RING))) it in together, Oh..."the possibilities!

As always, drop me a line.
Heart and Soul,
M Sharina
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12/21/2020 UPDATE
YOU WANT "WHAT" FOR CHRISTMAS?!!?!

I was "puttering" in the MEDICAL ASYLUM last night organizing and fantasizing. The lighting is "just right" and I can make the room bright or dim depending on the theme. Either way, I love the word ASYLUM! I'm getting one more cabinet to store an overflow of MEDFET items and collecting more.

I will be updating you on EXTENDED SESSIONS especially designed for FEMINIZATION. My fantasy is to create a personalized "Doll Factory" theme where you are objectified from your arrival to your departure. You are a "live" doll, so you will be tutored on what women do in every aspect of their femininity. Skin care, facials, hair removal, make-up heels, undergarments and dress-up will be part of your overall transformation. I'M SO EXCITED ABOUT THIS! These sessions are constructed with a minimum of 4 hours.

Ok, now to YOU! This is one of my last postings before Christmas, so I want to first of all, THANK YOU SO MUCH for the Christmas gifts! I have yet to open them, but I wanted to express my gratitude.

I also want to wish you a very HAPPY HOLIDAY, whatever your celebrations are. I trust you are taking safety precautions and never letting your guard down, as you undoubtedly know I do as well through our communications.

The New Year is coming! I will post an end of the year post to get us in gear for the coming New Year!

Until then, keep in touch, I miss you. Drop me a line and tell me what you're up to whether it's sad, kinky or something that happened to you.

Until then,

M Sharina
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12/12/2020 UPDATE
QUICK & KINKY UPDATE

I LOVE the holidays! This year is very different, and don't you feel as if it's, "So what, I'm going to create it anyway!"

This is a quickie note to check in with you. I will be posting something on Monday too. It is important for me to keep in touch, especially this year.

Please remember, I'm posting more on Twitter, which you'll see here on my website. More than anything, I want you to be kinky and safe! "Go placidly amid the noise and haste..."

Love to you now...before Monday!

M Sharina
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12/02/2020 UPDATE
RABID FROTHING OF THE MOUTH IS GOOD!

FIRST, keeping you safe is very important to me. Covid-19 is dangerous and not consensual.

I think of lots of things to do to you, but they're all in the realm of stretching the boundaries of your fetish, which we both find a rabid desire for...(yes, I said RABID) I never say anything I don't mean.

Speaking of rabid, someone came in the other evening and I totally messed him up, which he needed. I think until life goes back to "normal kinky," our bodies and minds need STIMULATION! So, I roughed him up. I slapped his chest, smacked his bottom, used a cane and singletail whip, all while he laughed hysterically! What a joy to be a conductor of THAT!

So tell me. What are you doing to keep yourself sane? Drop me a little ol' line, and I'm talking to my International people too! I'll post a list when I compile.

Until next time, do your duty and worship the women around you. It will make the world a better place.

M Sharina
Minneapolis Dominatrix Mistress Extraordinaire
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11/30/2020 UPDATE
THANKSGIVING LOVE

I do love your letters and keeping in touch from near and far. Here are a few salutations for this past holiday.

I personally want to say, "Thank you for *being* in my life. What we share gets us through anything. ❤️💋❤️💋

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Date: Sunday, November 29, 2020

I hope your days are filled with happiness as much as possible during these holiday times and that you are able to enjoy everything the best you can! Eagerly waiting to visit with you again! Humbly & in need of your strict directions!

Sarah

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Date: Thursday, November 26, 2020

Mistress,

I hope your Thanksgiving was good one! Much to be thankful for, but we now live in a different world.

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Date: Thursday, November 26, 2020

BUT, here is what I do know : I am so thankful for you on this day of Thanksgiving . You are my ideal Mistress / Goddess /Dominant even though I have not sessioned with you . I can feel it in my heart you are the right one . ❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Date: Sunday, November 22, 2020

By chance we don’t chat...I hope you have a happy & safe Thanksgiving. It will be a low key one for one...but that’s okay.

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11/27/2020 UPDATE
AS PROMISED, A STORY FOR YOU

I sat in my chair tapping my foot, looking at the time. He was LATE. There's only one thing worse than being late and that's being EARLY! The arrival of a soon to be sniveling slave boy was delicious. "ON THE FLOOR!" "Yes Mistress," he muttered. "Now tell me slave, what on earth was more important than being here on time?" (Gulp)

Long story short, the quivering little idiot had nothing to say except he confessed. "Yes, I did it on purpose." He thought he had to "prime the pump" for a good scene. REALLY? Well, we'll just see about THAT!

I wrapped him in tape, from his scrawny little neck to his ankles, exposing only his genitals, his nipples and bottom, where I could easily turn him over and play with whatever side I wanted.Tape over the mouth underneath his mask, hair exposed for me to slid my fingers in and grab as much as I could and squeeeeeze. I pulled his head back telling him little secrets of what I was about to do to him. He had no choice, HE WAS MINE. I was going to put my fingers wherever I wanted, pinch his nipples and slap his face and he would lose control to me, who just happened to have an electrical remote between my fingers.

By the time he left, his bottom was sore inside and out. His nipples were sensitive and felt "owie" in his balls which I used for target practice so they were still flaming red. All the while denying him what he really wanted. "No slave, I give you what you deserve. Do you deserve that?" "No Mistress." " IF COURSE YOU DON'T!" "Now beg...plead, let me see what desperation looks like, or I'll ice your lousy, sorry little excuse for an appendage and stick you in chastity!" "Nooooo Mistress, pleeeeeaaze!"

We laughed...we laughed at how it was all so perfect. We talked about it, quipped...ooh, remember that part? I thought you were actually going to destroy my balls! Oh, that would have been like taking candy from a baby!

Although I don't need to be "primed" for a good scene...I think slave boy got more than he deserved. I loved every minute. Now let's see if he arrives early next time.

M Sharina
Training Boys to Men
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11/25/2020 UPDATE WISHING YOU A HAPPY THANKSGIVING!
IT IS ALWAYS TIME FOR BLOODY RARE!

 

Thigh...leg, the "Pope's nose?" Whatever you put in your mouth tomorrow, make it worth the calories I say. Me? You know my taste for RARE. A glass of champagne, a bite of juicy prime with an accoutrement of Cabernet. Then, Friday, I torture "Teddy's" bottom until it resembles something more rare than what I've been tasting.

PSA: Please remember your donations especially this year. Food lines abound and we can't have that. Things are looking up, but we don't rest on our laurels. When you see a need, fill it. You know, like I fill you...with just the right amount to thrill you. Generosity is the pillar of abundance in our OWN lives. Now, get going. "Yes Mistress Sharina." Good slave.

Now, drop me a quick line and tell me what Random Act of Kindness you've done. If you're good, I'll share one of my stories with YOU.

Until...sooner than you think!
Mistress Sharina
HAPPY HOLIDAY!

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11/16/2020 UPDATE
BEST OF BOTH WORLDS

"I was left on a gurney with a diaper before my surgery when I was 10. Now, I'm always looking for that feeling of comfort", he confessed.

Someone came in last week with marks, saying he was hitting himself with an electrical outlet cord. OUCH!

Stress is here, it's been here since the middle of last March. Things have changed, but our needs haven't changed one bit.

Playing with you gives me an endorphin rush, a sense of well-being. I miss it when I don't have it. I'm used to it. It thrills me to control you, and I feel a sense of happiness when we can share that together. After all, one doesn't work without the other.

Let's continue to be safe so our holidays are filled with nothing but sugar cookies, and perhaps an excursion where you get tied to my bondage table. (Please Mistress? Capture me?)

Drop me a line. I not only love your fantasy stories, but I also love knowing how YOU are doing too. We're in this together, every juicy little secret. 💋

M Sharina
Empath
Torture Specialist

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11/11/2020 UPDATE
HAPPY VETERANS DAY! HONORING THOSE WHO SERVED

To those who have served our country, I honor you on this Veterans Day.
Thank you for your service!
Wishing you & your family, a very safe, and happy, Veterans Day 2020
I Thank you.

-Mistress Sharina Nicole

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11/09/2020 UPDATE
FEMDOM NEW WORLD ORDER

"Get my heels slave, you know the ones, blood red pin point stilettos with an intense psi. I want to rest my heels on your chest while I drink my coffee." "Yes, my one and only Queen."

I had a dream. I was sitting on a park bench, beautiful day, sun shining, warm breeze with a dedicated and loyal slave at my feet demonstrating his submission by openly worshipping the ground I walk on. New World Order. My dream...where every person's lifestyle is accepted.

Do you ever think about that? What it would be like to live your dream? Drop me a line...true slaves only this time around. There's always next week to express how you feel honestly to me.

Until next week my slaves and supplicants.

Fondly,
M Sharina

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10/31/2020 UPDATE
YOUR BALLS BETWEEN MY BREASTS . . . BOO!

"Would you cut my balls off? PLEEAZE Mistress? I need somebody to do it." In a perfect world with no repercussions, of course I'd do it and then I'd sew them back on if I wanted, or keep them in a jar with my prized possessions, or dry them to a powder and wear them in a locket close to my heart.

I think a Dom's credo should be to do no lasting harm. But what about a short term real life fantasy acted out so without a doubt, in your mind your balls ARE in my locket close to my heart. I own them.

Halloween is TODAY! I trust yours will be creative and sexy! Share with me will you? Drop me a line, but add a picture this time. Thrill me, give me food for thought as I too crave your eye candy for Halloween!

Vixen Sharina
Mistress of the Light and Dark
I hold the keys to your soul 🦇🖤🦇

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10/27/2020 UPDATE
OUR LITTLE SECRET . . . 💋

You want to crossdress? How so? Dressed and made up sweetly and turned into a slut? Or "Total slut vibe?" Can you imagine what it's like to explore this? I do...I'm like the Mad Hatter of gurls, creating your look and "vibe" and then who are you? Damsel in distress? Hooker on Hollywood and Vine? Name it, this is your time with me.

Whatever you explore, I am the ring leader, The Conductor of Kink. I know your secrets, I've heard them all and I love them.

Name one thing you wish people knew about you...I'll listen, just like I always do. So drop me a line, I'll smooth over the creases and hard lines and turn them into pliability and submission. You'll giggle at the thought, just like YOU always do.

Until next time,
M Sharina 💋

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10/19/2020 UPDATE
MEMORIES ARE HOT! . . . 🔥 🔥 🔥

Looking through my letters this week, drew some attention to the downward spiral of wetness in my latex panties, which I happen to be wearing right after a session. I plopped my bottom into my Mistress throne while my slave mike came in to swirl around and do necessary cleaning. One letter in particular made me think of a session I enjoyed years before. Words like "strapped down," "mortified," "engorged," and "denied." Simply put, I'm triggered, and so are you now. "Want to lick the inside of my panties?" You could, but you cannot because you're bound and I have control. The bondage gets tighter and the tension of your suffering builds. I love that. Control.

13 days until Fetish Saturday! (ok, Halloween in the USA) where even though you're sitting on your comfy sofa at home safe from the ravages of the evil spirits, there's a twitch in YOUR panties, tingles in your nipples, because if anyone were to see you, they'd think, "Nice costume." You're a slutty tramp, aren't you?" "Why YES! However you dress, think of me, glass of sparkly champagne, frosty Cosmopolitan or a Templeton Rye neat. DELISH!

So, what will you be on "Fetish Saturday?" Drop me a line and give me the dirty details...

Smothering kisses,
M Sharina 💋

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10/07/2020 UPDATE
WATER IS HEALTHY, RIGHT?

WATER IS HEALTHY, RIGHT?

"But it's so BIG!" "Yes, Mr. Marx, it is quite large, and VERY necessary for your rehabilitation into mainstream society, AND you will take it all." Enema Nurse Nicole wheels a very large and filled 2 gallon enema bag into the Medical Asylum closer for her patient to see. She has added a special concoction to the water. "This Mr. Marx will help you with your nerves..."

The Medical Asylum is evolving as I keep adding things to it. Enema Nurse Nicole enjoyed a session with her patient just last night for 3 1/2 arduous enema administrations and torment. . .

Read about it HERE.

I hope you are well and most of all safe. Precautions for Covid are imperitive. I have added a room purifier.

I must mention I am STILL only allowing one session in a 24 hour period of time for safety. My schedule changes frequently and to date, I have upcoming availability AFTER Sunday 10/18. I have a list for those waiting for surprise cancellations.

So, how are you really? Fantasies in check? Dreaming sexy dreams? Waking up in a hot sweaty pool? Drop me a line, we'll discuss.

Always love,
M Sharina 💋

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10/01/2020 UPDATE
NEW MEDICAL ROOM!

I adore my newly redesigned Medical Asylum! I've teased you with a few snapshots, and I'll be taking a few more very soon, right after I've put the icing on the cake. The newly installed and illuminated cabinets are filled with saline, sterile water, foley catheters, drainage bags, syringes, oxygen, vacutainer collection tubes and sutures for a few of my favorite procedures.

As my skilled esthetician persona, I administer certain rituals of feminization for the perfection of transformation and beauty through "treatments" as I use it as my forced feminization salon.

I've enjoyed reading your requests, as your thoughts always trigger a vision I must explore! Strapped to the table, plugs in place, waxing pot heated...yeah, you get the drift.

Thank you for your letters and finding time to drop me a line (wink) I find I am impressionable through your words of fantasy.

M Sharina 💋

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09/23/2020 UPDATE
FUELED WITH FIRE! 🔥

" I'm looking forward to it with anxiety, fear, and excitement."

Yes, "Teddy" my Smart Ass Masochist" will be visiting this week. Can you say, "Funnel Gag", "Electro-SHOCK therapy", "Severe Caning" and "Whippy Things while Needles pull the nipples tethered to the floor for added effect"? I'll snap a few pictures...Teddy's going to get the cruel Mistress, he's always dreamed of. CRUEL, WICKED, SEXY.

I'm fueled with fire for it.🔥

Still safe my treasures? Please be conscious when you go out. I am. No distractions with vibrating eggs and such, which, just for my amusement, I enjoy on occasion. BuzzzzYummy

I'll write sooner next time. I've been VERY busy perking up the studio, especially the MEDICAL ASYLUM and BEAUTY SALON! I can't wait for you to see it! If you have ANY requests, do tell, and drop me a line. I so love hearing from you...

XOXO
M Sharina 💋

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09/07/2020 UPDATE
HAPPY LABOR DAY TO YOU & YOUR FAMILY!

HAPPY LABOR DAY TO YOU! "Do what you love and love what you do, and you'll never work a day in your life" says my favorite Chinese proverb ever!

If this isn't true for you, come and visit MY playground and I will show you what happens when you step into my world. In fact, I explain all this on my Home Page entitled: What Kind of Dominatrix and Mistress am I? You read the details and you WILL have some fantasies...I do all the time.

Femme Fatale is coming along and I'm thoroughly enjoying that devious little sense of creativity when I collect another devious device, or organize the Panic Room which was completed recently.

Enjoy your holiday and this lovely weather and DO, drop me a line. Mostly, I'd love to hear how you're doing and any fantasies you'd like to share ❤

Fondly,
M Sharina 💋

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08/31/2020 UPDATE
SESSIONING CAREFULLY & SAFELY - ALSO, NOTE FROM A MASOCHIST

So, how have you been? I've slowed things down a bit. I take 3 days a week where I never book anything and leave them open for "just in case."
Also, please remember, I'm only scheduling sessions: one in a 24 hour period of time to properly sanitize for Covid-19.

I enjoy you, the rapport we have, so thank you for taking the "drop me a line" to heart. ❤

Until next time...
M Sharina 💋
Conductor of Experience 🔥

 

So, I have a "thank you" note in my Reviews from my S.A.M (Smart Ass Masochist) Teddy. I'll call him Teddy, because he's very sweet. Only when he starts typing to me does he feel brave enough to try and tweak me, but this Mistress never forgets, just ask my loyal slave mike. Point of reference: years ago, slave mike told me he had a shrine for himself in Ham Lake. But the only ham, was mike. (4 months later, it was a "Come to Mistress meeting." Even still, when there is an attempt to tweak the Mistress, my modus operandi is to back off, not give what I am being manipulated to give. Just like when I see and feel the suffering, makes me want to give one or more HARD strikes. So, on goes the game with my S.A.M Teddy. There's a fine line between reality and fantasy. Thank goodness I know when to ride that line of reality...

Stay tuned, I see Teddy often enough.

"Whip me says the masochist! No, says the sadist."

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08/26/2020 UPDATE
THERAPEUTIC STRUGGLE!❤

I see a theme of struggle in my sessions lately. Whether it is wrestling with pain or being obliterated with teasing. The struggle is REAL. Sign of the times? I think that is part of it. To be wrapped tightly, so tight, any kind of stimulation cause a bit of a physical struggle as well as the direction of mind fuck struggle. The combination of tease and denial and pain and pleasure is delightfully immense AND very much needed for stress relief. It's like when you run through the mire, step over coals to find you are elated for the accomplishment and you deserve a reward.

 

Of course the same kind of therapy may be experienced with severe teasing. It's like too much of a good thing, but there's nothing you can do about it. I might whisper to control yourself for me...to make you last so I may use you. "Use me how Mistress?" That is where the Mind Fuck comes in. Do you care? No. Do you wonder what is happening? Yes. Do I love manipulating your brain and body, yes. I thrive on it. I admit it. I'm like a parasite. I feed on your emotions and the ones I stimulate are the best. I control you.

 

Remember, I'm only scheduling ONE session in a 24 hour period of time. If you are visiting from a hot spot, I need to protect my studio and the people who visit. I take precautions.

 

I'm happy you have been being careful and have remained untouched by our circumstances, which although tireless, we need to remain VIGILANTE! Don't forget to drop me a line. I Love hearing from you...

 

As Always! PURE POSSIBILITIES are in our future!

 

M Sharina

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08/14/2020 UPDATE
THANK YOU!❤

Your Thank-You notes to me of gratitude mean the world to me. I also get to know what quiet thinkers are experiencing during their time with me. I always get a certain feeling about the cohesion between us and I love finding your secret pleasure center, even through strict humiliation, doggy play or crossdressing.

In receiving your Thank-You's, we share a special bond. My experiences with you are special. I love and appreciate your trust in me, taking what you love, and translating it into an indelible mark in your memory bank. I have them too. I think about how shy you might have been when we first met or how far you've come in your journey to explore. This kind of play is not always just "play". It is an integral part of taking your experience out into the world whether you share it or not because your energy changes, as you've been affected. I love that. It's therapy. I take and mold you to a simple and calm way of being. Bravo to you for taking that first step in your continuum of "who" you see yourself as being.

So, THANK YOU for sharing yourself with ME. I enjoy every bit. You amaze me and even under my mask, through my eyes, you know I smile.

So, keep me posted. Drop me a line, stay safe and know, that you mean the world to me...

M Sharina

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08/05/2020 UPDATE
SESSIONS, THRILLS, AND IDEAS FOR NEXT TIME!

Quick check-in for the week! Thank you for your notes, I love them, especially the one who described wanting to take the funnel gag further. He says, "Next time I would appreciate it if you would fill the funnel first, then force me to swallow without spilling a drop." My answer..."CERTAINLY!" This kind of kink isn't for everyone, but the side that strikes me is the "sacrament" and the invasion of taking your Mistress in.

Fantasies? Drop me a line because it's like a confessional, only to someone who understands you.

Be well, you look kinky in your mask...

M Sharina

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07/28/2020 UPDATE
THRILLS, SESSIONS, AND STAYING COOL!

How are you fairing slaves, damsels, masochists, voyeurs, tourists and sensualistic thrill seekers? I've been savoring my time with you, especially the newbie novices. I love guiding you into MY WORLD with a kind of comfortable coercion.

Hot outside, cool in the dungeon with heat emanating from your Mistress' panties. Speaking of FIRE, I've got some new fire wands to play with AND some spikey weights for the nether-regions. A gadget arriving today invented to LOCK and chastise your arse (A line forms, hands raise)

I MISS THE STATE FAIR!!! So let the games begin in the studio and we'll share snacks if you like. (Looking for the deep fryer, marshmallows and snicker bars)

Read further (below), it's important, but I'll say "bye bye" for now. Drop me a line and tell me what you miss most about the old summers...

M Sharina

*NOTE REGARDING SESSIONS:
I am ONLY allowing ONE session per 24 hour period.
Today I cleared out 79 messages from my VM. I receive alerts on my phone and listen, but I may have missed yours. If so, call me back. Same goes with Emails! It takes me 1 - 7 days to respond.

VOICEMAIL succinct with Name, number, good time to call back.

EMAILS with "INQUIRY" in the subject line IMPORTANT.

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07/19/2020 UPDATE
INTERESTING WEEK OF SESSIONS

It's been an interesting week which is why I haven't posted here in a while. I love communicating with you and I especially love knowing that even though we are kink related, life still moves through transitions whatever they are. Thanks for keeping in touch!

I'll throw out some exchanges for FUN! Here they are:

"Those shoes are sexy but they are super high heels." 😊

"There is something quite vulnerability provoking that happens when you are strapped down and exposed."

"Tom...you are so PERVERTED!!! But, I love it! I did like teasing you for sure...BUT I did miss whipping you into little bits!"

"As I sit here fantasizing our next adventure, I start having questions pop into my head."

"like dressing you is the gateway to your being a "plaything"?

"I think I've perverted the puddle, you being the puddle."

"Right now, I like the idea of my doctor sending me to you for experiments."

"I definitely prefer shaving you over you doing it yourself."

I enjoy you SO MUCH! ❤

So, you know what I like, drop me a line while continuing to stay "squirmy pants" keeping your mind fertile and very SEXY!

💋
M Sharina

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07/02/2020 UPDATE
MY SESSION SAFETY & PRECAUTIONS

My studio is a SAFE ZONE for you and for me. Sessions are being spaced out one per day, AND not every day. I require those from out of town to wait until cases of Covid-19, level to an obvious downturn. (Not taking travelers from hot spots)

If you have not received a response from me yet, I am juggling a bit with extra steps to keep us safe. EMAIL is the best way (right now) for initial contact.

CLEANLINESS=SAFETY
After a session, toys are sterilized in medical grade solutions (as I've always done), as well as heat. The air is thoroughly sprayed with disinfectant, door handles, bars, clips, toilet, all surfaces and floors are alcoholized, disinfected, and cleaned thoroughly.

I have always been fastidious about the cleanliness of equipment, toys, and areas within my studio.
My slave mike has been STELLAR in assisting with my cleaning protocol!

Now for a fun thought, because I know you like my kinky brain to keep you perky. I had a session with someone yesterday who loves heavy nipple play. It had been a while since he's had a session and was VERY hungry to suffer for me. He did. I stretched out his nipples with forcep clamps, TEETH ONLY, no rubber and clamped TIGHTLY. After I taped him to my bondage table. He COULD NOT MOVE. Just the way I like it...As he was leaving, he says, "I'm stress free!!!" It was SO FUN to make him STRUGGLE!

I've missed you. Tell me what you've been up to and drop me a line. Stay safe, and spread only LOVE!

M Sharina

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06/22/2020 UPDATE
BACK IN THE LEATHER SADDLE

I've been having some very interesting sessions lately...playful, intense, erotic, terrorizing, sensual, nurturing, sadistic...cathartic and NAUGHTY. I'm back in the saddle, I've been riding out the pandemic with patience and perseverance settling nicely into my element, like a fish in water, a cat in feathers or a bird in paradise. It feels so good.

If you haven't received a call back, email me, I've been busy with executing a certain set of plans, email returns and calls along with getting back to my studio refurb. Medical fetishists and crossdressing gurls get ready!

I've missed you, so drop me a line to touch base. You know I still love your stories and it's nice to know you are still thriving and ok.

M Sharina
MN Domme / Minnesota Dominatrix / Serial Feminizer

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06/07/2020 UPDATE
TRICKLING IN SESSIONS

I wanted to touch base with you and let you know I have been trickling in sessions. I FEEL a sense of lightness. I felt a shift in myself after my first session back. The world around me seems clearer, I feel a sense of peace, and my dreamy predilections of deviance don't rule over my kink starved mind. But now...yes, LOVING every minute.

So, there's this: The Covid question is: It's not IF you were exposed to the virus, it's how much. STAY FROSTY WITH THE PRECAUTIONS (follow guidelines).

A couple of changes to the website coming up for your viewing and listening pleasure...VERY SOON!

How have you been and what have YOU been up to? Drop me a line, I always love it when we touch base.

M Sharina
The Conductor of KINK

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06/01/2020 UPDATE
SESSIONS BEGIN

It's been an incredible 3 months and all of us feel as if things will never get back to normal. However, I scheduled a first appointment and through it all, it's important to get to the peace of balance...

Hang in there my leather and kink friends. Continue to hold a space for peace that extends out. You need two sides of resistance for resistance to take place. Be on the side of PEACE.

Thank you to my sweet circle of "loyals" for the birthday salutations as well as gifts! WOW! You warm my Mistress heart during a very difficult time in our world. We shift our world and spread the love.

Thank you for your continued concern and super sexy letters. Drop me a line, I always love hearing from you! Things are going to warm up in the dungeon...know THAT! Starting with the crack of my singletail whip!

M Sharina❤

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05/27/2020 UPDATE
SESSIONS BEGINNING FIRST WEEK IN JUNE

As I post this, my birthday is in two days, Friday, May 29. I reflect on this past Memorial Day, honoring those who've died for our Country, and I also acknowledge the loss of well over 100,000 lives due to the coronavirus and Covid-19. All of this brings to my mind how precious and important life is. Do you have any regrets? We all do, and some of us have second chances and opportunities.

With precautions in place, I am planning on the first week in June (1) for accepting sessions. I do have a waiting list at this point, so please let me know if you'd like to be on it. My list has grown from 11 to 20...

Thank you for sharing your life with ME. I am honored and touched by the things you tell me. We are going to be ok. Be safe, stay "FROSTY" but most of all do what makes you feel happy. Drop me a line and tell me about it. I love hearing from you, especially now.❤

M Sharina

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05/21/2020 UPDATE
OPENING SOON

If you saw my posting on Twitter, you know I've been thinking hard on my MEDICAL ASYLUM! I've also been taking sexy pics of my slender soles barefoot and in heels, so be patient for those pics to swing out of the gate! My hand is twitching for some therapeutic OTK Sharina Birthday spanks!

I've received a lovely and very interesting gift from my foot boy in AZ. I've been gifted with SPURS that attach to high heels. I'd like to strap them on to my bare feet! Pics coming soon.

So, this birthday will be different than any other birthday I've celebrated with you. I'm not sad so much as I'm terrifically grateful for yet another year, especially another day. Although super human in other ways...you know, I'm also not set apart from simple or dangerous illnesses, so I've been very careful in opening up. I get emails and phone calls every single day, and I am tormented as well, and on the fence about how and when. I will be opening soon, but I'm still watching numbers for Minnesota and The Twin Cities and surrounding areas.

Do I want to take a deep dive into your fetishes, you bet. Because YOUR fetishes become MINE and I have an affinity for each and every one, because it's the *feeling* of control I'm addicted to AND tweaking your experience so we're both in oblivion. Get it? I get it. I got it bad too.

Playing in the recesses of my own fantastical mind able to on occasion run a muck over the phone. Here's a picture of me with wet hair. Lounging around after a diabolical deed as a "black widow." You know what a black widow is, right? I'll tell you the details soon, but for now, it's just our little secret, capiche?

Want to hear more? Drop me a line and I'll tell you more secrets.

M Sharina

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05/11/2020 UPDATE
PANDEMIC RESPONSE TEAM at Femme Fatale is working very hard to make sure all systems are GO very soon!

Doctor Nicole, Medical Dominatrix has been advancing her skills in surgical techniques for her department of Male to Female transformation. She is a specialist and admired in this field by many.

Ms Nicole, Medical and Psychological Scientist in the studies of Gender Dysphoria who also takes pride in her unconventional ways of coercing your true gender to the surface, has been entertaining an "experimental program" for those recommended to complete their transformation.

MSN department of physical therapy has taken on the role of making sure your mind and body has undergone sensorial training for your spirit to continue to thrive in a new world. "Therapy is therapy" so says the expert Doctors, Nurses and Scientists at Femme Fatale, not only in the Medical Clinic, The Asylum Ward, and The Psychological Units, but also in the "Panic Room" for advanced training and long term detention.

You see, no worries! Therapy is coming soon! I have a list of those I'll notify first. Soon, you will be getting better, feeling like yourself and you'll continue to march on as you always have.

For now, stop biting your fingernails, mix in a healthy salad and drop me a line. You know I love hearing about your desperation...

M Sharina

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05/05/2020 UPDATE
Are any of you finding KINK in any of the shows you're watching?

I'm a dedicated fan of the show BILLIONS, and not just because in the opening scene a man is on the floor tied up with what appears to be a dominatrix loosening his gag. What happens next is classic, at least to me. Here is the scene: Enjoy
Hot scene from Billions

This is my very favorite scene...Do you have one? I find OUR secret kinks and fetishes are finding their way into the mainstream. How do you feel about that?

Me? Shelter in place until further notice! I will be trickling in the torture very soon.

Drop me a line and let me know your thoughts and how YOU are doing...❤
M Sharina

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04/27/20 UPDATE
So, I'm having strange dreams, you too? Here's one of mine:

I had a dream where I am following a man (in his 20's, cute but punky) who took my tablet. He lead me to an area where he said he put it in a storage area. This was like a makeshift warehouse, the room was so big it echoed. I made him show me where it was. It wasn't there. I proceeded to shove him into the wall with full force asking him if he thought I was stupid. He smirked. I slapped him and I kept slapping him until he answered correctly. My left hand was around his neck as I slapped him slowly. I derived much pleasure from this. (In my dream and in real life)

I miss you. I can't be any clearer. Each and every scene brings me joy as I peel the onion and mold you.

I know you miss me too. I want us to be safe, so in the meantime, drop me a line, you know I love that. Things will get back to normal if we put in the time to be safe now.

For now, thinking on you and sharing some special notes.

(CLICK HERE)

Stay in touch, drop me a line...❤

❤ M Sharina

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04/20/20 UPDATE
So, is Femme Fatale ready to conduct sessions yet?

Here's what I'm up to. I'm returning phone calls and Emails beginning today and tomorrow, so PLEASE be patient, I have quite a few in the Que. I'm looking to schedule sessions in May.

It's been a long road to hoe, but your safety is of the utmost concern to me as it always has been, so precautions will be in place at all times for your safety. (EXCITED to PLAY!)

As I told Sam from New York, "I've realized the constant stream of endorphins and the energy exchange gives me so much. I miss that! But hangin' in as I hope you are as well."

I will be moving ahead with my MEDICAL ROOM "The Asylum" where my special "Doctoring skills" from a trained Medical professional and Dominatrix will be utilized especially for unique cases. Perhaps you've had a mental breakdown and need to be put back together. Perhaps pain therapy or soothing latex sensory deprivation therapy is the correct Rx.

Being cautious will be in place for a long time, but it looks like we may be seeing a light at the end of the tunnel. Waiting for the light to get brighter.

THANK you so much for your letters! I cherish every single one whether it's a fantasy you've shared with me near or far, your loneliness, your fear or you concerned about your Mistress.

Stay tuned, and do drop me a line...❤

M Sharina

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04/14/2020 UPDATE
How are you holding up?

Days in quarantine? I've lost count, but it's NECESSARY, so do it! No time to relax on our vibrators...WAIT! I meant, "rest on your laurels " Good vibes are ok.

I'm going to share a couple of stories with you and some of my thoughts. I love it so much since I miss playing with you so much. I can't share them all, so here are only a couple I've chosen to share with you. ENJOY! Let's always keep in touch.

Click on the link for stories:
LINK HERE

Thinking of you EVERY SINGLE DAY!❤

M Sharina
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04/07/2020 UPDATE
Anyone else in "the drift?"

I've totally lost my rhythm of life because life looks different now.

I have been LOVING your E-mails telling me how you are, AND sharing your fantasies. Because I became interested in D/s through the Internet, and (years ago) used to meet people by accepting instant messages, I could exchange fantasies with those I'd never meet in person. But more than that, I could DO ANYTHING I wanted in an IM. Castration fantasies were a fav. I'd also find myself reaming someone with a big cock over the backside of a sofa. I have no idea why those two things were the best, but maybe it was because the words of describing it was brought out with a feeling of intensity at that time.

Anyway, I loved every minute. It juiced my mind, and had me crave something on a higher level...hands on for sure. I don't think I've shared this with you before, there's more, but this for now.

How are you holding up? I hope you and your loved ones are safe. Near or far, drop me a line...❤

M Sharina
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04/03/2020 UPDATE

Thank you so much for the love letters! I've been very concerned about my lovely people and I'm very happy to have given and received check-ins. With those I know who are in the field of medicine, if I don't hear back immediately, I worry very much. Please stay safe everyone!

I will be doing more posts on twitter as well as my website. Still construing a new Only Fans and Patreon.

Oh! Thank you for the stories and the communications! I've had some withdrawal (I dream about it) but we will be back in the PINK or the SPANK or the SNAP of my SINGLETAIL, but make no mistake...we will connect ourselves. Hang in there, looking forward to the possibility of May ❤

In the meantime, you know what to do, drop me a line...❤

Mistress Sharina

 

CORONAVIRUS TIPS

• Wash your hands often (30 seconds with soap)
• Avoid close contact with people who are sick
• Don't touch your face
• Cover Coughs & Sneezes with tissues and throw in trash
• Clean & Disinfect frequently touched surfaces (including cellphones)
• Wear a mask outside & in grocery stores

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03/23/2020 UPDATE
Coronavirus / COVID-19

GOOD NEWS!

Touching base! It's a very strange time in our lives and a time to be very careful with ourselves.

What do I suggest? Follow CDC guidelines and listen to those who are experts in the field of medicine.

As for what Doctor Nicole suggests, well, that's a whole different story. I say, laugh, stay happy, fantasize and keep your body humming. SHARE with those who need something. Check in with the elderly and family.

Thank you for checking in with me! All is well in Mistress Sharina's world.

One thing you could do at this time, is drop me a line, or a sexy story or a detailed fantasy of yours. I love the connection...

For more connection, I'm putting together ONLY FANS and PATREON for you to stay kinky! Let me know what YOU would like to see...

Stay strong and informed. This will be over when we stay vigilante.❤

M Sharina