BDSM Relationships Questions & Answers: Female Led Relationships

Question:

On Wed, Sep 22, 2021 at 10:24 AM, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.> wrote:
Hello M Sharina,

I hope you are doing well.

I have a random question(s), and I understand if you ignore it(them).

Your lovely slave has stuck in my head since I met him. He was terrific. You were much more terrific, but I really appreciated his role.

What is/are his best trait(s)? I ask because my wife and I have decided to go further down the road of a female-led relationship. The internet has plenty of info on this topic (most of it ridiculous jerk-off fodder), but I honestly don't know many couples who are openly FLR.

What makes your relationship work? What advice do you have as we more formally approach a female-led relationship?

Any advice is appreciated. Including "hey, you're an idiot for asking me." We are guideless on this journey.

Thank you!

Answer:
In reference to my dedicated slave mike...well, we have a great relationship and the context has been set by both of us over the years.

In answer to your question, I never consider questions "idiot related" and as we were told somewhere along the line, there really are no stupid questions. We all come from different avenues of experience and learning. So, it's all good!

I wish I could say it was a simple sentence or two, but it isn't. My slave and I have a rapport that has been developed over the course of about 23 years now. It has morphed and arrived in ways that would be difficult to express, explain and train without going into depth using examples of our history and co-mingling of the Mistress/slave relationship and how it relates to you and your Domme. Your dynamic may have similarities, but distinct differences for sure.

All I can say, is you will find your way and a good groove as my slave mike and I have over the years. The beginning was much different than it is now. In saying that, there are things you can di that will elevate your relationship to where you'd like it to be.

If you would like to explore a more formalized, personalized and individualized kind of training, I can offer that through working with you and your Domme through email exchanges and in person session(s). I do ongoing coaching and have much experience and success with those I work with. I attach a fee for this service. If you are interested further, please let me know and I will give you more information on the subject.

My best to you always and I'm so happy you've found yourself in a good and exploratory place with someone you enjoy!

M Sharina