Needing a base in hand adoration/worship

Expert: Sharina Nicole

Question
I'm am very new to the BDSM lifestyle having gotten my first mistress this past week.  Being my actual teacher in the real world, there is a big teacher-student role play in our personal life.  That said, after each time I see Her, She gives me some "homework" if you will.

This time around, I need to find out how to properly worship Her hands and be able to preform this task for Her pleasure.

Having gone through pretty much everything else, I come to you for an answer.

Sincerely,
Chuck

Answer
Chuck,

There is nothing more pleasurable, than to have a slave who wants to please me. Nothing! When I feel that a slave is authentic in his ability to give me something I enjoy, it touches me deeply knowing that his heart is in the right place.

Now, I can't tell you how to worship your Mistress' hands, because I enjoy hand worship differently than she might. But because she has given you this assignment, she is testing your ability to be creative. So, making sure we cover all the bases, I have a pretty good idea of what you might do.

Tell her you would like to know when she would enjoy her hand worship session. Explain that you would like to set aside some special time for her and that she should allow for at least one full hour. Decide where you are going to worship her hands and pick the right place. Set up the most wonderfully pleasing place for her. It should hit all of her senses. Dimmed lights, melodic and relaxing music (Hilary Stagg's "Dream Spiral "or "The Edge of Forever") A soft comfy chair, a nice spot on the sofa. Set out candles, and pick an aroma she may like wafting through the air. Chill a favorite beverage(her glass too) or warm her favorite drink. (Btw, these are things you should always know about your Mistress.) Meet her and drive her if need be to the place you have prepared. and bring her into your prepared room.

It may work for you to sit in front of her on a chair. This is so she doesn't have to reach out to you in order to receive her hand worship. If you are on the floor, it may make it difficult. BEFORE you sit down, ask her if she minds if you sit in the chair instead of the floor because you want to make sure that she does't have to move herself forward and you may reach her hands better that way. If she prefers you on the floor, that's where you go.

Tell her you already have a special technique to worshipping her hands, but you would like to know if she has a preference, because you REALLY want to please her. If she tells you to show her your technique, then begin.

Have her place her hands on her thighs. Pick up one hand and pull it towards you but not too much that it will feel uncomfortable to her. Begin by gently kissing her finger tips, (lightly) move to her knuckles, (lightly) move to the knuckles on the top of her hand, also kiss upwards towards the wrist. Turn her hand over and place your closed mouth in the center of her palm. Begin kissing lightly. Now, take her hand and massage it lightly. Softly caress her skin and give her hand a warming and sensual massage. Place her hand on her thigh and begin with the second hand the very same thing.

Before you pick up the first hand again, begin by warming your mouth with some hot water. Now, this will be a bit like the first hand worship only you will be using your open mouth to lick and suck the fingers and underside of the hand. Once you reach the underside of the hand, with your warm and open mouth, begin licking and lightly suck at the same time. Pay a little attention to the wrist. When her hand is turned over and she feels your warm mouth graze her wrist, it will feel heavenly. When you are finished, place her hand on her thigh and begin with the second hand.

I know this may sound funny, but practice on yourself prior to your time together. Feel what you intend to have her feel. It may help you get it right. Did you ever practice kissing a girl using the palm of your hand? Same thing...different purpose.

Once you are finished, offer her a sip of her favorite drink and tell her you will be back. Run some warm water in a large basin or a large bowl. A clean plastic basin will do nicely, but make sure her hands will fit comfortably without having to curl up to fit. Mix a bit of lavender and a little bit of gentle soap (like Dr. Bronner's unscented baby-mild pure castile soap) Place her hands in the warm water and massage. Take them out one by one and dry with a very soft towel.

Remember to have all of your items ready to go and in the right place.

Once dried, kiss her hands lightly, as if you are telling them goodbye...

Watch your Mistress try to come out of the coma you have just now put her in!

Be sweet, be gentle, NEVER RUSH and remember, this is a part of your Mistress' body that deserves worship. She will feel like a Queen.

Let me know how it worked out Chuck...

M Sharina