I am St Christopher.
The people I play with are important to me. My domination is calm, assertive, and I provide training and instruction, with a sound mind.
I am a disciplinarian with a firm hand.
For many years now, I have explored the fundamentals of D/s, and as my experience in this lifestyle grows, I get to witness many of the facets of the human spirit.
In the beginning, what was once an observation, has become a driving force within me and is an important part of who I am. This part of me is essential to my core, and compliments the natural way that I am, and reflects into many parts of my life.
I have had the pleasure of many different encounters which in return, have sharpened my skills as a dominant. In fine-tuning each and every session, it is my intention to therapeutically affect my counterpart.
I understand that through the highs of pain / pleasure, and release, there are feelings of catharsis, relief, and overall well-being.
For me, getting a person to the other side takes time, patience, and trust. I take nothing for granted.
I work with novices to heavy players.
It's important that I have an understanding of the people that I session with. I'll want to know some of your innermost thoughts, desires, and kinks, because I want to know who you are. Essentially, I want to know what you need. I am a gentle spirit and when necessary, I discipline with a firm hand.
- Some of the things that I enjoy include:
- Boot Worship
- Breast Bondage / Play
- Breast Infusion
- Caning and Bastinado
- Consensual Power Exchange
- Corporal Punishment (erotic to heavy)
- Discipline & Training
- Electrical Play (with Violet Wand, Erostek, or Tens Unit)
- Erotic Control
- Erotic Tease & Denial
- Hair Pulling
- Hot Wax
- Nipple Play
- Play Piercing
- Role-Play Scenarios: Animal role play, Daddy/bad girl-naughty-girl, Doctor/patient/medical
- Role-Play (Continued): Head Master/school girl, Interrogation
- Sensory Deprivation
- Spanking (with Implements, Paddles, and my bare hand)
- And More...
Letters of Recommendation & Thanks
Safety and respecting limits are two things that I would expect from any professional dominant, but the reason I keep going back to Saint Christopher in particular is because of the way he plays with me. He has a lot of skill and intuition in reading body language. We always play with a safeword, but I don’t need to use it. He knows when he is reaching the limits of my pain tolerance. He does a lot of corporal punishment scenes with me, because that is one of my main interests. I have a high pain need, which he meets nicely (he can hit hard). However, because of the way that he reads me and communicates with me I’m sure he would be able to adjust to any pain tolerance level.
I especially appreciate that Saint Christopher always takes time for aftercare. He treats any broken skin that I might have, and then he holds me until I come down from subspace. After each session I send Saint Christopher an email to let him know what I liked about a session and to let him know of any problems I had--although he’s always willing to listen to those during a session as well. He reads those emails and remembers what I like and don’t like. So as time has gone on, our sessions have gotten better and better. He always takes time to address concerns and explain anything that I didn’t understand.
Saint Christopher has a range of different personalities and skills. We’ve had several different types of scenes. Some of the different things he’s done with me are flogging, bondage, spanking, paddling, caning, needle play, and electrical play. They have all been interesting and I have never been disappointed. Usually when we play he has a kind of loving dominant personality. He’s firm and strict, but also compassionate and patient. He touches me often during a scene which helps me incorporate the pain. He might stroke my hair, rub my back, or give me a hug, but I always know that he is mentally present and I feel like he really cares about me and my well-being. But sometimes I enjoy role-play and so I’ve seen another side of Saint Christopher. He can be very sadistic and a little bit scary, but he’s always in control of himself and the scene. Because of the range of skills and personalities that I’ve seen during our play, I believe that Saint Christopher would be very good at playing with anyone from a nervous newbie to an experienced masochist.
I was very new when I saw Christopher for the first time and I had never “played” with a man. While I love the men-folk, I simply wasn’t sure how I would feel about letting a guy play with me. I mean sheesh, what did it say about me that I crave pain? Did I like being abused, was I a bad person, less of a woman? Yeah, I think when anyone is new these questions come up and I was certainly no different. Anyway, I was nervous, even though I had met him before without playing.
So what was it like…? Well, I can only say what I remember. I remember his hot breath on my neck as he pulled my head back, his deep voice saying something in my ear. I remember the feel of his paddle gliding across my butt and then a sharp smack that resounded through my ears and my body. I remember that the tempo changed and he was like a maestro conducting an orchestra which was my body. He started slow, patient, rhythmic, light – tap-tap-tap, glide, tap-tap-tap, glide – until he knew, without me telling him, that I was ready, oh-so-very-ready. The taps turned to smacks, the rhythm increasing, the pressure rising, faster and slower, slower and faster, this paddle, that paddle, interspersing the oh so gentle glide across my butt – a soothing cool caress across the rising heat of my skin.
Then he used his bare hands and the spanking truly began…
Right-handed, left-handed, he was equally skilled with both, again and again, smacking, rubbing, pulling my hair and head back, talking low in my ear with his sexy voice. He positioned his leg in front of me to brace me and held me in place with his arm, his other hand never hesitating, smack, smack, smack, rubbing my butt in between, grabbing the skin, until I was moaning, panting, gasping, nearly incoherent with both pain and pleasure.
Though I understood him at the time I cannot to this day recall the words that he said during our first scene. We went for two hours and when it was over I was exhausted, satiated, ridiculously relaxed; he was exhilarated, joyful, and incredibly gentle and considerate. He gave me hugs and got me water, talked to me like a person, and when I was ready I went on my way feeling amazingly good.
I give Christopher my very highest recommendation. I now have more experience and have seen other “tops”, “Doms”, or whatever, in action. I have yet to see ANYONE else with his spanking ability, his patience, his willingness to warm me up just right, and his desire to satisfy my utterly.
I know that from my first session on, I have never been disappointed, not once.
I thoroughly enjoyed my session with you last week. It has been quite a long time since I have bottomed to anyone, but I must say, you got me to a very lovely level of intensity!
I also want to thank you for introducing me to your flogging technique which was quite interesting from my angle. I have never had anyone flog me the way that you did. I love heavy, thuddy floggers and your combination of up to four floggers at once really jacked me up. When I found out what you used and how you used them, it was no wonder my endorphins climbed. At one point, I began feeling euphoria. My eyes were closed all the way behind the blindfold and I was surrounded in blackness. I felt like I was teetering over this massive body of black water, floating. As you kept your methodical pace, I moved closer and closer to a little bit of a breakdown. Tears swelled up in my eyes, which is why my make-up looked so great when you removed the blindfold (ha ha)
I liked feeling all those leather strappy things you so carefully used all over my body. I was totally surprised about the nipple clamps. I really don't like anything clamped on my nipples, but the way you did it eased me into it and that tweaked me real good. I was surprised I could take it like I did. I was proud that I did.
I had so many wonderful feelings during the session, and it was only made more wonderful listening to the sound of your voice as you guided me to the next level. Each time, any fear I had was replaced with letting go, which is why I wanted a session in the first place.
Thank you so much for your patience with me. As I get back into this kind of play, it's nice to know there is someone I can trust who will respect my limits, yet take me a step farther.
I am pleased to hear that you enjoyed your session with me. I enjoyed re-introducing you to BDSM, and enjoyed your variety of interests, as they went well with some of mine.
I used many floggers on you that day, and the technique that I warmed you up for is a technique that I devised, and thought you might enjoy. I have never seen anyone do the same technique before, but I find it's quite popular and effective with the women that I play with. Perhaps I'll have to flog you again like that soon?
Thank you for your nice email, I always enjoy receiving such a nice word of thanks, and it makes what I do all the more rewarding.
I look forward to next time.
This was "M's" first professional session. Although she has been involved in BDSM for quite some time, this was her first experience with a professional Dominant. Her session fantasy included being Dominated by St. Christopher and as an exhibitionist and voyeur, her ultimate fantasy included the erotic presence of another woman. Knowing her fantasy, Mistress Sharina and St. Christopher worked together in making her fantasy happen. "M" sent the following email after her session.
When you had first walked into the room, I thought you had fit the role of those big, strong Doms you hear about in fairy tales. You got right down to business and I found the authoritarian inflection of your voice quite arousing. It made my ears perk up and listen as well as I could. The spankings went really well. I liked being naked and vulnerable. I wish I could experience that more. I sometimes dream about being naked in front of thousands of people. I liked that you man handled me. I just wish it could have been done in public especially in front of really conservative people :) As you began to move through the different implements, I thought oh now, I'm really in for it, especially when I saw the cane. The cane was fine on my butt but I had no idea that my thighs were as sensitive as they were. In some regards, I thought that was the punishment part of the session. You have strong hands for spanking over the knee. One of the most refreshing parts about the session is that you didn't spank my lower back. I don't like to top from the bottom but I feel that I have to do this when my lower back gets hit with every session outside of Femme Fatale (Mistress Sharina Nicole's dungeon).
When Mistress Sharina walked in, that heightened my pleasure as I was on display. Equally arousing was watching her masturbate. I really loved the skirt she was wearing. She definitely had the legs for it!! I just wish I could have fondled her. I really wish to engage in more foreplay with a woman. I was glad that she came but it would have been more arousing if she was more vocal.
I thought you were perceptive about knowing how much or how hard to spank me. I felt that you knew just how far to go with each implement. You pushed my limits but I never felt in danger.
All and all, I loved chatting with Mistress Sharina and you at the end. I felt that the two of you were both extremely nurturing and caring people. I felt spoiled in some ways as the guy that Doms me, we just play and that's it. That's getting kind of old. I'm getting bored with him. I think the conversations are as just as good as the playing.