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09/02/2024 UPDATE
"Happy Labor Day! . . . "

Happy Labor Day!

Wishing you and your family the HAPPIEST and SAFEST Labor Day Weekend!

Enjoy!

 M Sharina

 

By all means, enjoy your family and BBQ your heart

out. AND always remember how we keep our freedom

04/14/2024 UPDATE
"Put me up in the big gurl bewbs! . . . "

I had so many wonderful sessions this past week (as you may have read a little about in my social media Twitter X.) Left me on such a high with some of the strangest dreams. I cannot remember all of them, but I recall this weird black speed cycle. I was riding it through several courses in a huge health club. I kept getting lost and finding myself on the upper deck of some room with a long flight of stairs. I thought nothing of flying my bike down the stairs from way up high.  They call that astral-projection and you can do it in your dreams. So, the trainer below was a physical therapist who said to me, "You know that's not good for your temporal process." When I woke up, I looked it up on Google and found in Wikipedia the definition of The temporal styloid process is a slender bony process of the temporal bone extending downward and forward from the under surface of the temporal bone[1] just below the ear. Oddly enough, I've been having a bit of vertigo...

I do believe life speaks to us through dreams and music, movies and art. If you listen close enough to it, you will get messages. I don't mean this in a woo woo weird kind of way. I mean this in a way much like the continuum of life that everything in life is connected.

I'll give you an example. You overhear someone on an elevator talking to another person. It hits you. You are affected by what was said. You remember it. You never meet but are connected.

Recently, as you know, I lost two of my cherished guys. My sweet Mr. B died in his 90's. He saw me a few months ago for the last time. He was driving to see me up until the time he died. He LOVED my cage in THE PANIC Room.

"Sarah" died recently from 5th stage kidney failure. I communicated with him while he was in a hospital in another State. I knew he knew the time was near. We joked,  I sent him candy striper pictures and we reminisced. In the middle of it, he said, "Thank you for everything." It was oddly placed in a sentence...but he knew, and then I knew it would be our last times together I'm very sad about it. I think of them often. They both made my life brighter with who they were in this life.  Mr. B was an infant soul. Innocent, followed the rules without question and when I think of him, I think about how pure and sweet he was. "Sarah" was energetic and throughout life, had been through some incredible experiences, knew some interesting people and left an imprint in my life that tells me to take it easy and just live life. So, I do and I'm changed for knowing her.

As I move forward in my own life I am filled with reflection that lends itself to much gratitude.

Days are getting BRIGHTER! The sun is shining and Spring makes all pf us feel that itch in our core to play, especially my human doggie. I did miss my "Sharpie" this past week, but things happen and we postponed. I have a NEW LATEX CATSUIT🐈‍⬛ I'm just dying to put him in!!!! I will shine him up all pretty and then train him to have balls of steel!

My breast infusion was super fun! A 1000 ml bag for each bewb. ("Put me up in the big gurl bewbs Mistress!") I enjoyed her so much! Quite a long session...8 hours of play.  She was so buzzed, she took her bewbs home.

My Super Hero Clark Kent was tested in many ways you'd test a Super Hero. I put him through MY SPECIALIZED TRAINING...did he pass? I'll only say this. He has such nice flesh, I tied some of it to the floor telling him he better not move his feet. I flogged, caned and slapped him which set him off balance which was quite unnerving since he was really toruring himself. If only Clark could pass this SIMPLE TEST! I watched as it stretched him and eventually was pulled right off. Such self inflicted JOY to watch, mixed with MY Mistress brand of KRYPTONITE 💥

I tried something new for Gemini. He was heavy leather strait jacket restrained in my heavy steel cage in THE PANIC ROOM. He was sent into oblivion for 3 hours. I used "color noise" to have him descend into a safe place and just float.

I will post some lovely thank you notes, love letters and insight for the experience.

Excited to plant my herb garden and hear the first sound of a lawn mower cutting the grass...🐝🌱🌺🐝

If you're inclined, drop me a line 😎♥️

M Sharina

03/26/2024 UPDATE
"Teasy Tuesday! . . . "

Let's talk trash for a minute.

I have the most vivid dreams. Moist, gushy, salty, sweaty...trashy dreams that stay with me throughout the day. I remember them until they fade.

Then, there are my sessions.

"Please be cruel to me Mistress "says the crumpled man I see two times a year. He lives far away and in between sessions he'll write me a sexy letter about how he thinks about me. The anticipation drives him mad but I love it.

I know what he wants. He wants what he'll never have. Me. WHOLLY and unadulterated and even naked me. No. I give him what he deserves while he is in his suffering cage chastised and LOCKED.

He looks at me just like a school boy hoping to take a peek. I lean in, step closer, my body is close to his. My hair brushes his face as I whisper something into the core of his ear. He inhales my perfume...it's all a game, and a game I'm very good at. I splay him out after I've physically made him suffer. The better he feels the more torturous it is for him. He's causing his own pain and he's willing to go there. For me.

I tell him, "I'm not wearing any panties." I sit on my gold accented bench. I tease him about where I'm sitting. I stand up, he sees the wet spot

THE GAME IS GETTING REALLY GOOD NOW.

My life is like a kiddie coaster ride at the amusement park.

I wouldn't change it for anything...

Drop me a line,

M Sharina

02/16/2024 UPDATE
"Telephone Calls & Voicemail Messages . . . "

Recently it came to my attention that some of you who called were experiencing difficulty leaving a message on my voicemail.

There was a technical glitch, and all is resolved and working! If you'd like to call & leave a voicemail, please do!

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M Sharina

First things first! SUPER BOWL LVlll!!!!

I was RIVETTED to the 🏈 SUPER BOWL LVlll GAME! Loved every minute while rooting my toes off! 🎉

CONGRATULATIONS 🥂🍾 to the Kansas City CHIEFS!. What a game! Overtime!

Usher (8 time GRAMMY AWARD WINNER) definitely did a stellar job with half time. AND did you know Usher's skates called Flipper's Quadz by Usher
were custom made in Red Wing, Minnesota by Riedell Skates? YES, we cool.

The design, Flippers Quadz was co-designed with Liberty Ross co-founder and creative director of Flipper's Roller Boogie Palace AND Usher! You can get a pair from Flipper's World for $1450.

2 words:
POWERFUL WOMAN

Alicia Keys Super Bowl 2024

Btw, this is not only The Year of THE DRAGON, but RED and GOLD are good luck colors for the Chinese New Year!

Like I said...Red and Gold I LOVE my Red Room!

Valentines Day is THIS Wednesday! Do something Loving!

It's been a while!
Drop me a line...

01/27/2024 UPDATE
"NEWS BUNDLE - Obit . . . "

Masuimi Max, one of my favorite and one of the most beautiful models Ive seen died on 1/25/24. The cause of her death is not currently known. Here she is on the cover of a 2005 BIZARRE magazine I've saved  for my collection. 💔

Adult film actress known as Jesse Jane died on 1/24/24. She was found with her boyfriend Brett in Moore, Oklahoma. The older she got, the prettier she was. I liked her. She was the definitive spitfire. 🔥

Death is a fact in every community. In those little circles of communities we do not escape death or anything leading up to death. What we do is live our best life.

Rest in Peace ladies...you both left a brightness and we're better for it. 🦋

M Sharina

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01/25/2024 UPDATE
"On The Floor Asshole! . . . "

I'm walking up a set of white stairs in what seems to be a big room. I'm in a penitentiary.  It seems pleasant enough and almost like a library. The wall is huge with pictures from the bottom to the top near the ceiling. The pictures towards the bottom of the stairs are so explicit, they must be individually covered up for visitors who would brave the stairs. You see, this is where the men view their porn and jerk off.



I can't help but dream these things. I carry it all to bed with me. Part of it is due to what I view during the day, what I watch in movies and things I just make up in my perverted mind.

I recently saw this movie about a guy who owned a human dog ("Good Boy" 2022) 🐕. I loved it. It was entertaining especially when it got weird.

There's a book I read every now and then because it's my favorite gay-leather S/m themed book. Mr. Benson is the name of the book, and irs written beautifully by Robert Preston. The bar scene when Mr. Benson meets a prospective leather boy is divine. I put myself in the bar and I'm watching it all unfold. It's dark, it smells like men and leather boots and chaps.

The inevitable torture for this boy bottom slave-wanna-be leads to unending torment by Mr. Benson. The boy suffers and even though he feels he's earned a place in Mr. Benson's bed, instead he's told,  "On the floor asshole " I love this shifting into the dynamism of this because even though I'm female, I'd love to pack my tight jeans, wear leather boots and shift my eyes because of course, you want to please me and you want to earn your place.

It's a different kind of mental food and a sexy surge of male energy inspiration.



I shift the nature of who I am because I can always add other components to be someone else, but I'm always me...



HAPPY NEW YEAR
The New Year has been great for me, but for some, nir so much. I'm understanding a new element of the human spirit here.  I'll tell you this because it will ring true for you as you move through the new year.

I got a call from someone who has been seeing me for about 5 years. He has 5th stage kidney failure. Wanted to thank me for being in his life. An adventurer and thrill seeker with one of the most interesting lives I've ever encountered. He will die soon.

I often talk to people about their "bucket list." One person in particular comes to mind.  He wanted to be feminized and go to lunch. Broad daylight . . . lunch. So I did. Not passible and definitely stands out in a crowd at about 6'4" in 2 inch heels and broad shoulders. Could have been a football player. I dressed him up in a nice conservative outfit, short heels, smaller breasts, and pretty make-up.  

I chose Ciao Bella.  The wait staff was respectful and accommodating. He was brave and courageous. But, he was with me and I was there to facilitate an experience and to protect his experience. He'll never forget it...

So, in closing, I urge you to be brave, be courageous and find someone you trust to have experiences with.  Once you crack the egg, stretch the rubber band,  you'll never go back to the way it was.



Already were almost at the end of January. Time really does fly! 🦋

Love and much JOY in this New Year!

M Sharina

Most of the time I shower before a session, but when I allow some delicious "scent play" as a reward for taking my singletail, or 24 steel balls (8 oz each) at the end of a sharp spiked parachute, what's not to love about sniffing and licking my flesh?

Did I mention I also love tying pink string to my piercings for a needle-pull...I enjoy the PAIN-Reward system...

Did you have a nice Thanksgiving holiday? It's tough for some people especially at the end of the year. When one holiday kicks off another.


Did you practice tying your birdie?

I know it's difficult for a lot of us where holidays are a reminder of what is missing. It's ok, we'll get through it and we'll look forward to renewal with a BRAND NEW YEAR of experiences and a beginning with a FRESH SLATE.

I can help you with that



I've already begun implementing CHANGE. Why wait for after the NEW YEAR when you set yourself up to fail? A suggestion: pick ONE thing you want to change. Do it NOW and carry it into 2024. Do it for for 30 days and you WILL change your life. SIMPLE.


Last week, a session ended with a very nice dinner at one of the best restaurants, and my favorite, Ciao Bella.  A picture of Sofia Lauren paints the large wall that reminds me of my Italian and Sicilian heritage. Sofia is Italian.

 
Nothing like sharing casual chat after a BONDAGE session. FREEDOM. He tells me, as I'd asked if his wife was into BDSM at all. He respects she isn't, and have agreed on an openness. I admire the ability to do this. This is the epitome of a relationship that is co-created in the context of trust and love 43 years and counting.

More couples coming into my studio. It seems nowadays men want to be open with their partners in life.

I have taught men to be better partners. Cohesive relationships are an important core of happiness

I also had an after session conversation last week with a man who had been a Wilderness EMT doing rescue work. He faced the Taliban in defense surviving an attack while rescuing young girls. UNSCATHED he comes home, he's riding a mountain bike, a deer shoots out right into him. He was hurt pretty bad and ended up in the hospital. The Doc said he was very lucky as it happened to 5 other people in a week and 3 ended up in the morgue. WOW! He lives to tell me about it after his session. So perfect!

So, be careful out there! Bring your goggles and long underwear and stay safety conscious!

Everything is good. Talk to me if it isn't.
Until next time!

M Sharina

Twice in the past week I noticed a bit of nervousness and an unsettling in a couple of people Who came in to see me. Both, I took time to connect with before I played with them. One was a newbie and hands seriously shaking so hard, I asked,  "Cold, or nervous?" "Nervous Mistress."

I'm glad he was honest.  I wanted him to get into a nice head space before I transformed him into a dream girl named Candi and put her in an erotic hypnotic zone. You can't be naughty if you're nervous.

Situations present themselves to me in a manner of seriousness too. Where what I notice feels crisis-like. This particular appointment was scheduled months in advance so there was excitement for quite a while.  When he arrived for his hard corporal punishment session, he didn't seem excited. More sullen and depressed. The human psyche (I've come to understand through my own experiences) is injured. Our bodies KNOW even if our mind refuses to identify our pain and it gets buried.  But, it comes out in different ways with indicators like depression, anxiety, PTSD...which signals we need to take care of ourselves in some way to address it. This person is a Veteran, one of our heroes who suffers the residual effects of PTSD and emotional stress and needs relief through corporal punishment.

Somehow releasing energy by different methods is a way to find relief. It is also necessary to find therapeutic value in an experience that affects the mind and body connection.

This is one of the reasons people see a professional dominatrix who understands the human psyche.

I saw this movie and wanted to give you my take on it since those who read my posts are quite familiar with professional domination.

So, what if you were in this man's shoes?

The movie...Sanctuary

I did say I would give you a movie review recently. It may have been on my Twitter / X or a previous blog post, I can't remember. But if I were to describe this movie in singular words, I'd use "frightening, riveting, unsettling, non-consensual, and I could also add human".

As a Dominatrix who prides herself in knowing and studying the people I play with, the movie Sanctuary captures it and takes it to a very uncomfortable level. 

The "bathroom" scene I enjoyed very much because even though Rebecca, (played by Margaret Qualley) is an actress, I could tell she was really into the dialog and feeling the interaction working between herself and her subject Hal (played by Christopher Abbott.)

As she began to degrade Hal, her punitive wording, exposing how minute he really is and how pathetic he was that he was turned on by her degradation. What a freak, right?  She got into his head, which is a fine tuned quality, without a doubt. It's not only physical, like the closeness of her mouth to his ear or the curated sound of her voice, (so matter of fact sexy) but it's everything Hal has come to know as a beautiful and disgusting escape.

In the middle and towards the end, I wondered who needed whom. Did he need her, or did she need him MORE? Is this a true dynamic or is it cultivated through time?

I will say this. People always find their way especially when they can't let go.

Find it and see it.

That is it for now! I've missed communicating with you, but I've been busy in other ways. You never know when a blog post will be HERE, so check my Twitter X or check HERE often!

Until next time, soon!

M Sharina

Honoring Veterans, their families and survivors. Thank you for your service.

M Sharina

Recently on Twitter X there's been A LOT of talk about a certain video. There's actually 2 videos that were posted with the same theme: setting a man on fire. The display was horrific and dangerous and the man was burned despite the female saying he wasn't.  You can see it if you look at the pictures.

I'm happy to say no one has shared a link or pictures so NO promotion of the video(s).
PLEASE DO NOT PROMOTE

I will describe the video content here and give you my perspective.

So, to the video:

A young woman in domme attire, posted 2 videos of herself lighting a man on fire near a pool after she used a sufficient amount of accelerant which looked like 70% Isopropyl alcohol.

The man is standing by a pool, it's dark outside. The woman takes a lighter and lights him from his feet. The fire blazes up fast as he makes a mad dash to the pool. There was so much accelerant used, there is a fire on the cement where the man stood before he fled to jump into the pool.

In another video that I think holds the "suggestion" of brutality, you can see the fire engulf him even though it is during the day.

She pours her accelerant from the spout under his neck and then from shoulder to shoulder dripping down right onto the fabric of his baggy shorts. You can see it. He opens the band of his shorts and she squirts more accelerant on the inside. She moves toward him with a lighter and lights him from his shorts.The fire begins to climb upwards very fast. As he jumps in the pool nearby, I paused the video to see his face. He looks panicked. He gets out of the pool and says "Everything hurts." Later, she chastises him for jumping in the pool so soon. She wanted him to WAIT. He said it burned. She begins kicking him and tells him that "Next time, when I tell you to do something, you fucking listen." THIS suggests more than roleplay.

When you are entrusted with the "care and feeding" of a slave, sub, or a human being, someone you will be playing with, be certain it does not violate a person's safety, EVER, and no matter what. The idea of any roleplay, and I honestly do not think this is roleplay, but more a display of a slave following orders for shock value.

The context of roleplay that is edgy is to mind fuck a person into believing they have broken the barriers of safety, but always being SAFE.

How many of you who contact a Dominatrix, actually KNOW if your Dominant has learned BASIC FIRST AID and CPR? Will she know what to do in case of a REAL EMERGENCY?

I do know these important elements of any session, and I have needed to use these principles many times over not because a session is unsafe, but because shit happens. (I had to revive an older retired doctor due to a vasovagal syncope. We were just sitting together chatting. All of the sudden he gets a deer in the headlights...I had to act fast, and YES he was ok.

 
One of the comments from the posting of the video was, "He likes it " As if to say, what difference does it make, he likes it, therefore, it's ok.

Not ok.

This IS horrific play, make no mistake. If you buy these videos or promote people who play like this (especially with links or name), you will encourage this until someone ends up in a burn unit.
His body WAS burned. You can see it in the after pics and she has some kind of plastic wrap over the burns.


I saw a European video years ago. I'm positive the man is either no longer living, or has a severe case of dementia from many concussions (think football players). In this video, 2 women are kicking a man in the head with thick boots. The women kick the man in the head mercilessly. He gets kicked many times in the head, cussed at and with no regard to his safety or well being they demolish him to ruins. These women are young punky brats with big boots. They are also DANGEROUS, UNEDUCATED, and UNCARING.

I often think about a Doctor's credo to "do no harm". For me as a Dominatrix my credo is simple: Cause no *undo or long-lasting harm to a person. This includes the physical and the mental.

*The word undo relates to the harm that comes to a person who did not deserve it. So, in BDSM (as an example), a person asks for wax play, but the inexperienced dominant uses the wrong kind of wax (a wax that shouldn't be used on skin) and the person is inadvertently burned.

We do have guidelines and acronyms for credo. Here are the ones I am familiar with.

S S.C.
Safe Sane and Consensual

R.A.C.K
Risk Aware Consensual Kink

P.R.I.C.K.
Personal Responsibility, Informed, Consensual Kink

So, who is responsible in the situation of extreme and dangerous play?

When play is negotiated between people, it is co-created. Sometimes things aren't quite negotiated properly, or the Dominant is given free reign. No one should be risking their safety. Not the dominant, and not the person being played with.

Make certain you put yourself in the hands of a qualified and knowledgeable dominant. Your life and all that suggests depends on it.

We are heading into fall FINALLY! Let's enjoy it! More later sooner, I promise.

A lot is going on and I'll post about it very soon on Twitter X which is embedded onto my website.

Until next time SOON...
M Sharina

So, what is it like to be muted, to simply exist and be "toyed with" like an inanimate object? To SUFFER a kind of sensual tension with no possibility of release?

For me, I get flutters of things I like to do, but then again, "consensual" resides in my world,  but I do ride the rails of limits. It gives you something to think about until next time.

What's this? New toys?

I have acquired a new medical cabinet matching the one I already have. I get to fill it! Almost there. Right now, my breathing paraphernalia is on the second shelf. Some of my metal gags are on the top shelf.  I'm VERY MUCH looking forward to getting my NEW BLACK ELECTRICAL BOX with more dials than the discontinued ET-312B (which I have 3 of) I understand it's more intense. Perfect...

I also received my super great leather medical asylum restraints. Excited to use them because they're the real deal and they're brand new.

Waiting for my WHITE leather straitjacket with tit flaps...The look of "ASYLUM!" gives me a quirky sadistic but nurturing feeling. Plus, I'm making a toy for CBT fans...I'll keep you posted EXCITED!

Are you sad for summer to end? Don't be. Seasons challenge us to new experience. It's going to be a very pretty week!

M Sharina

The needles went in with slight resistance Each time I heard him tense and release with each push as the sharp bevel made its way from one side to the other. Where did I insert them like tracks for a train? Ill never tell. But, I will tell you there were 50 the first time and 34 the second. James Bond was being put through the ringer once more...


This was what some of my week looked like. Transfixed on a 2 day excursion under the premise of an "annual physical" James Bond was once again in my clutches as I made certain he would not remember a thing about day one. He would be taken back to his hotel by my driver, walk through the door of his room and as he heard the door close, would remember nothing.

The 2 days consisted of a total of 10 hours. James would be questioned, interrogated, and through a series of tests specifically designed for one exquisitely trained agent, James would be tested under pressure testing his wits in very difficult situations.

The use of flirty, and sexy charm along with a frosty glass of a dry martini (shaken, not stirred) to lower his guard, and then carefully implement the use of torture methods such as beveled blow darts, needles, catheters, saline injections and various forms of bondage and restraint to unnerve him. It was inevitable that he'd crack. Did he? What do you think?


Roleplay, I adore it. The only thing is, when it's over, I'm still in it AND I. have a tough time breaking out. But, I do and then it's back to other interesting things, as I'm sure it is for you after your session with me. But isn't it nice to reside in the depths of an intricately played scene where one of the components just HAS to be diabolical? YES.

Are you weathering the heat?🔥I'm watering my garden plants and staying indoors. I got this new 2 gallon watering can. It's black, so when I see it out of the corner of my eye, it looks like my cat Dame...I say, "Hi Damien" and the plastic can doesn't say anything back...😁

I enjoy looking forward to what's next!

If my voice mail is full (which happened recently and does every so often) please drop me a line in an email, Thx!
Until next time

M Sharina

Sensual Femdom Mistress & Dominatrix in Minneapolis, Minnesota

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07/24/2023 UPDATE
"I Am The Captain Now! . . . "

Smothering latex...YES! I broke in my new human latex cocoon during a session with mercury. I combined it with a latex hood with a built-in blindfold and buckled mouth flap! Then, the marching Machina...When I unzipped him from it, he was in the most wonderful state. I love the inside sleeves. Give in, nowhere to go, just simply give in.

Such diversity in sessions. My age regression medical session was perfectly played out. Roleplay must begin from the moment of arrival to the Clinic! I remember a session I did years ago. My patient wanted me to tell him to take his clothes off and when he refused I was going to spank him hard. What happened was the opposite. I asked him to take off his clothes...so he did. I of course improvised. I said, "Hurry up! I don't have all day! And then turned him around, bent him over the table pulled his pants down and spanked him! Compliant patient? Of course.

It isn't always the sessions I do, but the people I play with. I love peeling the onion and seeing the layers. I tend to work with the energy and then use my intuitive instincts for what is next.

The other thing I love is introducing an almost complete novice to NEW THINGS.I carefully carve out a nice little space of trust, and lead the way. "Carpe' Diem!

Have a great week my dear friends and remember:

M Sharina
Sensual Femdom Mistress & Dominatrix in Minneapolis, Minnesota

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07/17/2023 UPDATE
"Busy, Busy, Busy, "Official Blog Update" Coming Soon! . . . "

Busy, Busy, Busy, I WILL be writing a proper blog post SOON, so much going on, and lots to share! 

Take a peek at my recent reviews / thank you posts, and that is a smidgen of what's been going on! There are even a couple of new pics! Is that a shiny new custom latex sleepsack?! Why yes, yes it is . . . and I love it!

My webmaster is staying on top of the Twitter embed situation, and he informed me that things have not changed yet. All websites embedding Twitter feeds are currently unable to (yes, including the city of Miami). Hopefully this will change. In the meantime, FOLLOW ME on Twitter! I'll keep you in the loop! https://Twitter.com/SharinaNicole

"Official blog post" coming later!

M Sharina
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07/10/2023 UPDATE
"Busy, Busy, Busy, Blog Update Coming Soon! . . . "

Busy, Busy, Busy, my blog post is coming, so much going on, and new things to tell you! 

On a side-note, my Twitter posts continue (OF COURSE)! That said, my webmaster has been waiting for Twitter to fix itself. Mr Elon Musk's Twitter has broken or turned off the website embed feature. So that now you have to go to Twitter to see my feed instead of scrolling on my website for my Twitter feed. This has happened on all websites with Twitter embedded (including the City of Miami). 

https://Twitter.com/SharinaNicole

Blog post coming later!

M Sharina
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07/01/2023 UPDATE
"Happy 4th of July Weekend! Happy Independence Day! . . . "

Happy 4th!

I know you must be having the best 4 day weekend off! (Word gets around )

I am enjoying some relaxing time getting a bit caught up. SO, if you need to reach me,  I will be around to respond to emails.  If you've booked with me before, please email me 2 to 3 dates that will work for you and we'll make plans. I have a SCHMATTERING of appointments coming up, especially in the next couple of weeks

I will give you some thoughts, post a few thank you's and some pictures as well as a Q and A posting I started a while ago. I've been thoroughly enjoying my busy schedule.

In the meantime . . . enjoy some pretty fireworks!

Have a safe and HAPPY holiday . . .

M Sharina
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06/20/2023 UPDATE
"Blog Post Coming Stay Tuned . . . So Busy! . . . "

My Thank You to you!

You give me so much during the course of every single year.

What I treasure most is how you give yourself TO me. Your vulnerability, trust and "courage" is paramount and the rest is icing on the cake 🎂

So thank you to those I treasure...Thank you for "being" in my life

M Sharina

My slave is always very sweet to me. He gifts me with champagne and dark chocolates all the time...not to mention his painstaking
dedication to serving me. He does so much for me every day and he cares for my little doggy Vivienne. He is her uncle mikey.
The absolute BEST slave a Mistress could EVER hope for

Moët Chandon Impérial A FAV!

I love butterflies...they mean transformation and metamorphosis

Something very nice from my Amazon wish list gifted to me from My EXTRAORDINARY Web Master...

Gene knows my Mistress heart plants flowers and herbs this time of year. Waiting until theJuly session to TRULY give some severe spanks out in honor of my birthday! Being an old soul, I'm 2,982 years. Get ready...
$50 Menards Gift Card

"Steph" made plans for an extended session late Friday May 26 to early in the morning Saturday just before my birthday.
Steph brought me some very sweet treats! Some beautiful liquors, and a VERY GOOD "Legendary Rye" which as you may see, we had a few good hits of! Also, some very interesting THC powder...measure your own 🤪 AND some dark chocolate laced with the healing powers of THC

06/05/2023 UPDATE
"Blog Post Coming As Soon As My Sissy Maid Finishes Dusting . . . "

As soon as my sissy maid finishes her dusting duties, my new blog post will be ready!

Busy, busy, busy!  

M Sharina
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05/29/2023 UPDATE
"Happy Memorial Day, NEVER FORGET . . . "

This is a packet of Forget-Me-Nots. I picked up at a Memorial Service for one  lost at his own hand. He was a dear friend of mine.

The plastic army men were also offered. You take them to place somewhere where they will be found in memory of the fallen.

Take a moment to remember why there is a Memorial Day holiday...remember those who sacrificed for our freedom. NEVER FORGET

M Sharina
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05/22/2023 UPDATE
"Bound and Terrified . . . "

I hear calm quiet voices in the foyer. My slave always greets those who session with me. My slave mike is a disarming and gentle conversationalist, offers water, a bathroom break and then comes in to get me wherever I am in the studio. This time was going to be different.

As my appointment is speaking with my slave exchanging niceties, I quietly move towards him. His back is facing me as I quietly approach. Both hands grabbing a chunk of his shirt, I pull him backward to disorient him and drag him half way into the main room and say, "WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU THINK YOU'RE DOING?!!?!" I grab his hair, pull his head back and push him sideways to the ground. Once there, I give him kicks to the ribs and begin my demeaning tirade of diminishing him to ruin. The room is dark, I see him struggle to see as he blinks his eyes and tries to look around the room protecting himself from my physical and verbal assault . . .

My beratements are mean. I want them to be. I catch him off guard and debase him to the point that his mental capacity has no means by which to grasp how I know his insides so well...his insecurities, his self doubt and who he shows himself off to the world to be,  which is utter nonsense. No one knows his secrets, but I do and I will exploit them to get what I want. What do I want? I want to fulfill his desire to crawl into the depths of emotion with me. This is roleplay.

He has confessed to me in our preliminary conversation a couple of simple things. "I want to be bound and terrified and brought to tears."

We went over his limits, pain tolerance, compiling things he was open to and things he was not capable of experiencing. We did this all under the guise of exchanging "our" niceties and orchestrating a role-playing scene without him knowing how it would unfold.

It amazes me how sadistic I can be when given consent to do so. Consent is imperative with levels of intensity that bends the mind and the spirit in order to manufacture the end result.

Nurturing sadist.
A sadist who beneath the surface has the ability to nurture in her ability to explore the levels of a deep dive into overwhelming despair, the only way out is to shift my energy...Nurture.

WHEN THE PHYSICAL AND THE PSYCHOLOGICAL MEET IN TANDEM TO PRODUCE A MOST COVETED RESULT.

There will be a time I'll write part 2 of that story and tell you what happens next. But for now,  I'll let you chew on that for a bit.

Things are lightening up here in Minneapolis. But Covid-19 is still prevalent as I personally know of 4 (FOUR) cases now in the last couple of months total.

I'm clearing out areas of the studio to update my 4 main rooms. You'll love the updates.

Enjoy your week! I wanted to touch base with you before my week gets busy!

So many things . . .
Until next time,
M Sharina
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05/15/2023 UPDATE
"QUICKIE post to start our week off! . . . "

Touching base about some things I've been noticing. First, there is an uptick in my experience with Covid cases. Two of my friends are down with Covid and I had a cancellation for Tuesday due to a positive test result after feeling unwell.


I'm still being very careful, not just for me and my circle, but people who remain immune compromised. TEMPERATURES are taken just before your session and if you are NOT vaccinated, testing is done both a day prior to play, and day of session (BOTH). I DO NOT mask during sessions...unless I use a little wrap around

As always,

M Sharina
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05/10/2023 UPDATE
"For Your Eyes Only . . . "

I've been looking through my clip store content and swerved into some fun clips I would to share some of them with you for FREE.

You know I don't have an Only Fans, Loyal FANS,, Sex Panther, Nite Flirt or anything like that. I have thought about though. Instead, I've chosen to offer a nice collection of clips in my clip store(s) on Clips4Sale. I've been asked to PLEASE do a subscription store by several people and it just hasn't come to fruition so, I've created something special for you instead.

Why am I doing this? It's my birthday month and I feel like sharing with you.

Now, these clips are NOT previews, and they are not FULL clips, but it'll feel like it, BUT, they are longer clips.

The first one is a ball busting clip. You'll see how I toy with my slave and how I methodically ruin him. At the time, my studio was so sparse. I had hard wood floors and a carpet to soften the blow as my slave hits the floor time and time again as I annihilate his worthless balls which is obvious each time he loses to me. A relentless pounding with my shiny red heels as he tries to cope and instead of securing his hands to a bar, I make him hold onto it proving that when he lets go, he has failed once again!

It was quite fun revisiting this clip!

So Mistress, how do I get the SPECIAL CODE for special 's only to view?

Email me.

Put in the subject line: "FREE CLIP"

That's it.

So, how are you fairing with Spring time? Allergies? Planting your garden? Collecting torture devices?

I'll tell you what I'm doing. I'm acquiring a new piece of equipment from Europe  and I will be ordering it VERY soon. Of course I'll break it in first when I get it because I'll need to become familiar with its workings. I need to know how long a person can withstand this kind of torment how it feels, what makes them give up so I may decide the minimum session time required for a full experience that is adequate for me dragging all the components out for a complete experience. I think it will be fun using it with extended sessions, minimum 2 hours, but I understand in a RT immersive experience 4 to 6 hours optimally.

Btw, although you don't know what it is right now, just know it is the NEWEST model and can include an electro-function. Sensory deprivation and bondage compliment this kind of experience.

I am so EXCITED!

So, watch for that announcement

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Until next time . . . and as always, life is meant to be SAVORED

M Sharina
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05/05/2023 UPDATE
"Happy Cinco de Mayo! . . . "

Happy Cinco de Mayo! I hope that you and your family have a fun, happy,  & safe Cinco de Mayo as you enjoy your fiesta!

Until next time . . . 

M Sharina
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05/04/2023 UPDATE
"Mistress, I am NOTHING Without you . . . "

"So Mistress, how should I prepare for a GS?" "Hmmmm, try drinking your own piss."

When I am asked certain questions like this, although I understand how it compliments a session, I also know there are those who are fishing for free verbal content over the phone, like "NiteFlirt"
 which I can't find the time to do. It normally happens when I speak with people who are new to me. Those who have an established rapport with me know that a phone call cannot compare to the softness of my feet, smelling my light scent through my stockings, feeling my leather gloves over their mouth or feel the pulsing of electronic stimulation while in bondage enunciating the reality that I truly am in control.

The dreamy fantasy someone is hoping for is addressed to the aforementioned question, "Mistress, how should I prepare for a GS?"

(Mistress Sharina's sexy voice...rather throaty) says:

Well, first, lie down and edge yourself (I give a long whispery, "yeaaaah") Picture me towering over you. I'm wearing thigh high stockings and a micro mini. Am I wearing panties? Maybe I am. You're straining to see, but as you watch, I begin pulling my panties to the side...just to slide them down. I pick them up and push them into your nose to sniff. My hand presses just above my pubic bone. You begin to feel one drip of my warm piss on your cheek. You turn slightly, the next drop falls into your mouth...you taste me and begin to cum as I slowly flood your mouth with the rest of my golden nectar. You struggle to tell me you're nothing without me as youve been instructed to do always. You now feel like you have me inside you...

That would be the velvet on the throne, the perfume scent between my breasts, and the ultimate way I turn you into my own piss receptacle.

My mind is very vivid. I get off on the TEASE (AND the DENIAL) I can't help it, but I also get off on the control and making you feel things. Things I WANT you to feel.

Which brings to mind a couple of session ideas for you. Something very unique and for your eyes only when scheduling a session with me to enhance the torment. Btw, you'll need your own special code for this.

Torturous teasing tomorrow after being in chastity for 2 weeks prior to the session. Lets see how teasy I can be with "slave tachycardia" AND let's see how TIGHT I can cause the chastity to get! Taking snap shots

He was also instructed to wear an "accoutrement" to the session, which means I'm further reducing him to an element of emasculation. (POOF!) My slave tachycardia WILL definitely need "defib"!

AND since I encompass who I describe myself to be, a "nurturing sadist," a little something else to embellish the session. Again, for your eyes only. You'll need a code for that too...COMING SOON!

I have my on another piece of equipment. I will be getting it soon. I'm in touch with the company who is answering a few questions. No doubt I'll be pulling the trigger soon on THAT! Its a secret, but Ill post pics when I get it. It's coming from England.

For me, when I saw this upgraded version, the steel cylinders, the wet mechanisms, I was turned on, so I HAVE to get it! Controlling your sensations in sensory deprivation for 2 to 6 hours of suspended animation has me thinking this kind f torment in the Medical Asylum is necessary for your health and well being. Your Medical Dominatrix Nicole not only knows your secrets, but I also know what's good for you too.

Until next time . . . 

M Sharina
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The husband wanted to watch me do my examinations on my new female patient. But, before I did I wanted to tweak things just a bit more for him so I put him in a white institutional straitjacket. That was just the edge he needed. Nothing he could do about his wife's predicament and the whole idea behind it was to tease him relentlessly.
I am keenly aware of what certain observations might do to a person watching.

He's in the straitjacket and says, "This is very comfortable and it's very soothing. It's like giving myself a hug!" he noted. Later, I put him in my leather straitjacket where he noticed intricate details compared to the canvas straitjacket I had him in. My Mr. S. custom made with padded elbows, provided a luxurious leather experience of powerlessness, and once tied down firmly he was all mine to tease, as my well relaxed patient reclined and watched

The session was exploratory, but also feeding off of what was familiar.

Your kink life is like a rubber band. Expandable and stretchy, but once you've stretched the rubber band, you cannot make it go back to its original shape.

I've seen people change dramatically over the course of may years, but if a person has a fetish, it never changes and remains the sole focus of their kink.

My webmaster posted a little announcement. You'll find it on the website. He posts it once a year, and it is an important day for me and reminds me of my Mother. She called me her "So Rare" from a song entitled the same. She would play it and call me and dance around.  I'm glad I have that memory.

Well, that is it for now...actually, it's all I will say for now because it is my "blog" and not a book!

Until next time . . . 

M Sharina
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04/18/2023 UPDATE
"What is a Little Debbie Snack Cake? . . . "

Ok, so the weather? What the actual-you-know-what! 80° one day, 3 inches of snow the next! As I write my blog (Sunday) the flakes are flying. Yes, it's daunting, but it is Minne-snow-tah! They say in Minnesota, if we didn't talk about the weather we would have NOTHING to talk about. REALLY? But if they were in MY world, we could talk about anything.

But there WAS a time...

I used to have parties in my studio and the reason I had them was because one too many times I heard, someone say, "I just wish I could be a fly on the wall..." So, I created just that. I would have these wonderful parties with all these components. Some of them were gourmet sit down dinners as a prelude to play. Other parties were planned to have people trickling in at certain times of arrival. Cocktails and Hors d'Oeuvres were served until the play emerged and then everything came together in a beautifully orchestrated evening where no two parties were the same.

Some evenings I was the quintessential Houdini. The Mistress of Ceremonies, the Conductor of Kink!

There were prancing crossdressers (yes, they pranced) and gurls sitting pretty and all lady-like with stockinged legs crossed until one of them was instructed to be SLUTTY and SEXY. Skirts were pulled up and lipstick was left on their pink Cosmopolitan martini glasses. I've always loved that.

Sometimes I got out my truly delicious 5 point crown shredder heels for a little visual with slave mike. Mike could take a lot (I taught him to) he'd say, "It's an EXQUISITE PAIN Mistress! He'd tell me while looking at me through glassy eyes.

My custom and specialized sandals which have an assortment of heels ("bullets" I like to call them) It was like loading a gun. Thank you Trample guy One of the trample greats.

Multiple Mistress trampling and a needle-heel in Trample guy's hand just to listen to him struggle and squeel like a pig. "Trample-guy" was a good sport and took my heels on his hand, bottoms of feet, and chest. I could jump on the right places and expertly in other areas with "BZ Heels." He took as much weight as possible, after all he IS Trample guy.
 
I had little vignettes of fantasy play which at one time included "007." We captured him, objectified him and teased him into oblivion.

I remember one party, Lady Careina came into the back where I was and Said, "You JUST GOTTA come out here and see what I've done!" She had about 6 slaves all in a row standing at attention. She wasn't sure what to do with them next, so I began to order them around. I love puzzles and I love telling slaves what to do

At another party, THE LIGHTS WENT COMPLETELY OUT! My parties always had candlelight so we weren't completely in the dark. We lit a few more candles, passed around a few flashlights and had a great time. There were a few of us playing in the medical room, I had "little debbie" shining a flashlight on the scene at hand, IT WAS PERFECT! The lights unexpectedly went back on. "Debbie, turn the lights off doll." Debbie was very good at following orders especially when they were succinct orders. I called her Little Debbie Snack Cake."

It took a ton of planning, but the parties were superb. Everything was done in excellence, from the food to the play. People always said it was the only place they could ever go to be themselves and talk to others casually about their kink as if it was the most natural thing in the world.

All of it was delicious and yes, very therapeutic for everyone who attended. It is nice to know others carry the torch  with their own events. It is very important to be able to express yourself properly...ALL PARTS OF YOU. Bravo to those who make it safe to be YOU.

Spring has sprung so keep the faith! Enjoy the moments through it all because you never know when those times will end, or the lights will go off.

As always, until next time . . . 
M Sharina
Sensual Femdom Mistress & Dominatrix in Minneapolis, Minnesota

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04/10/2023 UPDATE
"Secret Service in Full Swing . . . "

I lean in, my subject is cinched up tightly in leather, rope and a fitted corset. I whisper, "Do you feel my hand on your breasts Zsa Zsa? Soon they will be filled up with saline and you'll be my real girl. Your corset will be fitted tighter so I can see your female form which will accentuate those breasts. Someday, I'll fit you with real breasts as a reminder that you will always be female and always my real girl."



Fantasy- Reality? It'll be our little secret...or not.

I'm happy when we share reality because for a short time we are in it together. Where play relies on your limits and my talent and skill for guiding you deeper and deeper into the zone and keeping you there, enjoying every moment, savoring the experience should be the end game.



You know often times while in the mode of administering pain in the form of "sensation intensity play." I see sweat, watch people tear up, shake and adjust themselves to try and be in the moment while fighting off the urge to say, "MERCY" when in reality you are going to pass out. My intuition kicks in. It is imperative for me to see you and notice exactly where you're at and know when to slow or stop, or interrupt. I only give one safe word because when it comes time to use it, you'll more than likely be too paralyzed to use it anyway. I intuit your safe word before you do.



I revived a retired doctor who was cross dressed. He was experiencing a vasovagal episode. We were chatting, which we did at the beginning of every session and although I know my conversation is rivetting, he began staring into space. I walked over, knelt down, asked "Are you ok?" He kept staring. I knew things weren't right, he was sweaty and began to collapse right off his chair. I did not allow him to hit the floor. Call me "Secret Service. I jumped into action, I knew what to do AND I needed to protect him from further harm and be certain no one would ever know his secret. I protect my people to the ends if the earth.

I often times say, "It's all fun and games until someone gets hurt." (Accidental hurt or from lack of knowledge)


I have seen cringe-worthy pictures and video of unsafe play. One stands out in particular where two women in boots were recklessly stomping a man's head. Eventually he will have brain damage like football players get. It's a traumatic brain injury like a concussion only worse. It's referred to as "chronic traumatic encephalopathy" and it is serious because you do not heal from it.


Other cringe-worthy pictures sending shivers down my own spine is viewing a picture with a heavy-set Mistress standing on the spine of a man while in platform heels. CRINGY. TENS pads positioned on the chest...also cringy. Your Femdom needs to know the risks and the dangers of play that although risky, will not land someone with a spine injury or interrupt heart rhythm or permanent brain damage.



When I play with someone anything can happen. There is sexy play and teasy play but there is also risky play too. I protect my people so they may go back to their lives knowing their secret is safe with me.

Notice anything different these days? The sun  has made its appearance! I took my Christmas lights down finally.  It felt good. I threw most of them away because "something" chewed the wires! My Damien kitty has been on mice patrol...I just love his technique for killing them. I say, "Go into the light little mouse."

I know it is Spring because I've had a noticeable influx of sessions. I have had to double up on days to get someone in. Sometimes it works, sometimes not, so please let me know in advance.

Enjoy the beautiful days ahead!


As always, until next time 
M Sharina
Sensual Femdom Mistress & Dominatrix in Minneapolis, Minnesota

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04/08/2023 UPDATE
"Happy Easter! . . .  "

Whatever you believe about Easter, know that in some way, I share it with you . . .

Wishing you and yours a very HOPPY Sunday!

As always
M Sharina
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04/03/2023 UPDATE
"A Lemon Slice Will NOT Save you . . . "

Unconsciousness is not a State of "Mind over Matter."

I remember my "latex cat" would tell me stories about self bondage and sometimes getting out by the skin of his teeth. I've heard other stories about tying a string around a door knob in order to walk away from it and zip up a bondage bag while inside...yes, it can be done but can you get out?


Caption: My Latex Pet
Circa 1997

On a DANGEROUS note, someone told me breathplay is ok as long as you have a slice of lemon nearby so you can chew it. The premise is that it will snap you out of becoming COMPLETELY unconscious. (Right?...WRONG!) You can guess why it won't work, right?



I enjoy minute amounts of light breath play. It "feels" dangerous, a bit threatening, but it is very minor with me in control and you under my spell



I've had people ask me what to do about their "addiction" to breath play. In short, I tell them not to do it because it is accumulative and eventually weakens the body. These are people who like to ride the rails and not go off...but, you start playing with asphyxiation and it can BE very dangerous and fatal.


Interestingly enough, along the same lines, but not with breath play, a man whose been seeing me for over 15 years who cannot take flogging anymore because of his age is now resorting to other forms of tweaking his endorphins. He LOVED flogging. He used to wear me out! I'd flog him for an entire hour incrementally stronger until he would give me a "mercy."

So, last week he says he burned himself with a butter knife which he heated over an open flame 🔥 He said it didn't leave the mark he wanted like the last time he did it. WHAT?!!?! I rubbed 400 i.u of vitamin E on his wound and sent him home with some to use. He has a flare for BDSM and sometimes I see marks and ask him what he's done. He'll say he took an electric cord and swatted himself with it until he could see the marks. 👁👁 He's sweet and we have a great rapport. He trusts me and I'm not as intense as he'd always like, but it is my duty to balance safety with his need to feel something.



These kinds of things are needed and are very meaningful to a person's well being. Being put in bondage, having the breath controlled, the cuts that are made on skin to relieve pain, anguish or stress or just because the mark is necessary as a reminder of going through these things to get to the other side.



"The mind is willing, but the body is weak." This, I know. Just look at fantasy vs reality.

Drop me a line, tell me your story if you have one and how you struggle with your dangerous fetish and if you struggle with doing it. Is there anything you could do to replace it? What lengths are you willing to go to in order to find relief?

I use the phrase,  "in a perfect world" 🌍 because there are dangers. We do ride the rails with a Devil May Care attitude, but it isn't wise.



When the things we're drawn to are dangerous, there has to be a way to get our needs met without getting ourselves into physical trouble doing it.

Benefit- Risk Ratio

As with all things, keep your nose right above the water line...

Remember how much I care about you and enjoy being your guide and thought provocateur.

You be mine...

M Sharina
Sensual Femdom Mistress & Dominatrix in Minneapolis, Minnesota

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03/27/2023 UPDATE
"I saw something very interesting on the telly the other night . . . "

There was a man sitting by the pool in a lounge chair while this larger kid did a cannonball and got water on him. Not a big deal, wasn't that much water, but the older man, I'd say mid 60's got very angry. The kid, about 17 I'd surmise was large in stature and weight. He was quite rotund and reminded me of a Samoan or Sumo wrestler.


The older man got out of his lounger and confronted this kid first threatening, and then punching. The kid got him on the ground and held him there. He would not let the man up and no matter how the man struggled the kid held him down by straddling him with his body. At first the man was frustrated, but he knew he couldn't get away. He kept struggling and moving his head back and forth. He was no match for this kid.

All of the sudden something very interesting happened. The man said he was sorry, but he really meant it. The kid got off of him immediately and stood by him. The man, still on the ground becan to cry and put his hand around the boy's leg in a loving manner. The kid helped him up and the man explained how sorry he was.

They fully hugged with arms wrapped around each other. It seened as if the man just let himself go. He crumbled and he was so sorry. It was almost like a man hugs his child, only the roles were reversed. The young man was the teacher as he was wise beyond his years.

As I recall the man had suffered a death in the family. I think his wife had been sick. This man had anxiety and pain that festered and when something small happened, he lashed out. It may have been his only outlet since the crisis event had happened.

I could not help but be reminded of the people I have worked with over the years where they came to me specifically for this experience. The idea of it can be quite off-putting to see it because maybe it appears to be mean spirited instead of the therapeutic benefit that is ultimately derived from it.


How does it work?

Emotions are moved, even forced to a pinnacle until one reaches the other side of their despair. I can say as I've watched it, there is an emotional breakaway.

These pent up emotions stop a person from moving through life in a peaceful and positive way. There needs to be resolve to move forward in one's own personal life. This is why people have a lot of physical issues and emotional instability. Disease can also manifest in our bodies when we carry around all this despair from traumas.

As I write this, I hear the bird feeders going into overdrive. I love the sound of the Spring song birds beginning to thaw out!

Things are lovely this time of year, although it looks pretty bad until the green starts to show.  Not putting the boots away any time soon and certainly not the fetish boots I adore... Yee hah!

Until next time,
M Sharina
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03/21/2023 UPDATE
"Depravity is only a Perspective! . . . "

As a dominatrix my encounters with people are different than the average person making their way through the day. My days are sprinkled with ODDITIES, reading emails from those needing to be punished or compelled to fulfill their fetishes, which is a huge part of my life's purpose...AND it is the way in which I do it that speaks to the importance.

What are these oddities?

A self described Christian told me, "Depravity drives you crazy and the devil bombards me with lustful urges." He wanted to be punished, but getting to the crux, he was just looking for a sexual encounter, which of course IS NOT WHAT I DO.

I find the struggles very interesting, but I am also compelled to help find solutions that are within my power and expertise and DO NOT reside in my list of TABOO and No interest. DOMINATION IS NOT PROSTITUTION. Not that I have any judgments for people who do this kind of energy work. It just does not describe what it is I do.

I spoke with someone yesterday who was a complete novice. Of all things, he is interested in "testicle skewering." That was an interesting conversation. Oftentimes I "peel the onion" to get at the core of their interest. I did and now we have a special plan.



When I post pictures of my shoes or feet, "Mistress PLEASE sell me your socks and old Sketchers!!!!!" They essentially want to sniff my feet from AFAR.



I do get the occassional 2 AM voicemail message from someone who just wants something specific. "Mistress, I'm looking for "panty games and dares." OK, how about this. I want you to find a pair of your wife's worn panties, get them out of the dirty wash. I want the crotch side over your nose and the rest pulled tightly over your head. Then I want you to go to the supermarket, walk through the store proudly and buy a pair of pink rubber kitchen gloves. If they don't have pink, you'll need to hunt down a clerk and ask them if they have any pink kitchen gloves, and if not, what color they'd recommend. After they recommend the next best color (purple not yellow) ask them which aisle the store keeps their "personal lubrication" in and if it happens to be locked up, and if so, do they have a key. You'll also need condoms...once directed ask, "So your vegetable department is on which side of the store?" OF course you must take a picture of yourself, then video your conversation without the clerk knowing.
There, how's THAT for a game?

I get many serious calls and emails, but the thing I love the most is after having seen a viable person for a session, their secrets stay safe with me forever.

I adore fetishes and people who want to explore their kinky side. Like the guy whose fetish was focused solely on his BELLY BUTTON. Yes, I tickled it, poked at it, used my porcupine quills, wartenberg wheels, violet wand, and toothbrushes for about an hour while he laughed and winced while in bondage.  I wouldn't trade in ANY of these experiences for ANYTHING!

So, how is YOUR week going? Mine...well, today I'm polishing my toes. They are bare naked...

Until next time
M Sharina
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What do they say? "Knowledge is POWER."

If there was a perfect potion that would help you endear yourself to any Femdom you wanted to see, would you want the recipe?

DEFINITELY!

I've just posted a guide for anyone who wants to know the HOW TO'S of "Contacting a Dominatrix."

Here is the link: https://sharinanicole.com/bdsm-domination-sessions/contacting-a-dominatrix-a-how-to-guide-for-contacting-a-dominatrix-femdom-mistress-or-domina#how-to-guide

It may be shared by using the link provided. DO give me credit when you share it.

On another note 🎵🎶🎶

I've been doing some early Spring Cleaning and I opened a box with some pictures in it. I will be posting some of them very soon. I think you'll enjoy them. I was pretty new to Femdom, and I used the Dungeon of Wrapture in the early days. These pictures were taken during that new time. I was fascinated by everything especially when I was introduced to trampling. What? Business attire and my one pair of black shiny high heels I had from when I had gone to Nordstrom and bought them. Yes.

My latex pet, who identified as "Latex Cat" was the one who introduced me to latex. I dressed him in a latex suit, full hood (breathing holes only) a collar, and hung him from the manual winch at Wrapture. Mistress Jacquie showed me how to invert him. I am so glad I have a hard wired suspension system. No handle and no loud noise! It was a total blast. I remember those days as intoxicating.

I was thrilled if I got a new pair of heels or was asked to join Jacquie in a session. I LOVED watching her. It was incredible.

Time flies, but I think we only realize it when we're looking back.

So, I hope you're enjoying time inside while the snow falls ❄ I'm taking advantage of it by clearing out the "cobwebs." 🕷 It is LIBERATING! Do it, make room for the new. I mean that IS what Spring is for! 🐞That, and getting spanked. 😁

Until next time
M Sharina
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You may not know this about me, but I started teasing men online. FOR FREE. Instant Messenger (IM's) was a thing and it was an addiction for me. I would literally lose time.The thing about addiction is about your life becoming unmanageable because of it, so I stopped. I'll tell you the entire story about it sometime. But I did enjoy a particular kind of exchange and there were many. In particular there was this locking chastity device contrived by me for the masochistic. It was always with a needle being soldered through the penis keeping it in place and locks evenly distributed in strategic places. In real life I would have to worry about things like INFECTION, length of time and a whole bevy of issues. But anything in my head was game with the right person. I enjoyed being a TEASE but I also enjoyed being SADISTIC. There were no real limits. I love walking that fine line between fantasy and reality and through IM's, the Internet was my oyster.

Sometimes fantasy involves SADISM. But is there a difference between sadism and cruelty? Maybe the difference is evident in what is truly in the .

I know cruelty. I've been on the receiving end and I was unnerved because I didn't think I knew it truly existed. Not in my world. Cruelty is what one person does to another person to hurt them psychologically or physically.

I am not a TRUE sadist because I need permission to be sadistic. I am not CRUEL because cruelty is an overt willingness to hurt someone. Sadistic is an interesting word, but have you ever experienced the recklessness of true sadism? A true sadist does not need permission to be sadistic. The sadist takes pleasure from the action. Do you think cruelty is the same?

Sure, I can BE sadistic AND I can be cruel but when the scene is over I will bandaid and antiseptic spray you back together. I care about your spirit  We come full circle so you can be affected by what I do.

Question:
Is shoving someone's head in the toilet to drink your piss sadistic or cruel? Neither? Does CONSENT turn these two words around? Then cruelty is found in roleplay and that changes at the end of a scene. I think the word "consensual" makes the unrealistic tangeable.

Where is... 🌻🌼🐛🐞🐝🦋🌻💐🐜

As I write this, I look out the window and see a thick flurry of snowflakes flying at an angle. Weather can be a cruel Mistress...SADISTIC even!

ANNOUNCEMENT!
Look for my NEW PAGE to be posted within a few days. It will not matter where you live, what Mistress you serve or which Mistress you'd like to serve. You will have every tool you'll need to gain Her favor.

Well, that is it for now! I can think of a million things to tell you, and I should really keep track because, I do have a fertile mind.  

Until next time and VERY SOON!
M Sharina

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Certainly the therapeutic value may be simple and a bit like this: "Just let me lose myself for a while and I'll feel better, afterwards." It's like a chiropractic adjustment.

If you see this movie, it may clarify part of the "why," especially if you use D/s for reasons you don't understand. It enunciates the need for Domination and submission to connect with the emotional sides of resolution and release.

I hope if you see this movie you'll drop me a line and tell me what you thought about it.

So, are you finished with old man winter yet? Reminds me of ice cold sheet packing for the mentally insane.

Stay healthy, it's important right now. When the temps go up and down our immune systems may get compromised, so be good to yourself!

Until next time
M Sharina

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02/21/2023 UPDATE
"A Mistress Walks in Ballet Boots, No? . . . "

I think sometimes I breathe kink

I like to watch movies that have a theme to it and a kind of BDSM overtone. I'm sure you've seen some of these movies like Basic Instinct, Secretary, Venus in Fur, 9 1/2 Weeks, and 50 Shades of Grey, which in my opinion opened that cracked door to mainstream vanilla types to kink in a way that made it even more acceptable.

Then, my very favorite opening scene in a series, Billions was able to encapsulate the need in one particular man to escape and release his demons by way of BDSM. To experience pain and humiliation in order to let go. Those who understand, understand.

A long time ago, over 20 years after its release, I bought a French movie called Maîtresse. It came out in 1976, which when I think about it, the content of the movie was so far advanced, I wonder if the world was really ready for it at that time. Although the 70's was a time of burgeoning sexuality, experimentation and exploration. BDSM was often thought of as a "dark" interest and taboo.

Since I saw that movie, it was one of the things that grew my interest in BDSM. Not so much the idea of it, but the feeling of it. I could smell her dungeon... the latex, the leather, all of it. When her dungeon was revealed inside her home through a secret passage, the thief inside was curious of what the use of some of the items were used for. The leather and latex hoods and implements of pain were all foreign to him and he didn't understand them at all. In the trailer he sees these short ballet boots and says something like, "How does SHE walk in these?"

On the cover of the movie jacket it shows a woman with two sides, two faces. One is the dark haired Dominatrix, and the other, a blonde pretty lady. For me, my dual personalities merge, but I keep them separate like you do. By this, I mean that even you have parts of you that must come together, but you also must keep it a secret from those who would never understand. So, when we are together, we get to live out that part of us we keep hidden from others.

I could go into so much more detail, but I'd rather not be a movie critic and just experience my experience from these movies because all if them are about a human "relationship."

Back when I was learning my skills to be a Dominatrix Femdom Mistress, my skills were cultivated by practice. What one cannot come by easily, is the ability to take each moment in a session and decide what is next and needed for the higher physical and emotional experience to let go.

Anyway, I wanted to share that with you since I've had a little extra time on my hands with the SNOW STORM BLIZZARD we are getting this week! I'm catching up on a lot, but also finding time for leisurely things like revisiting old movies and new. I'm about to watch a movie called,  "Dogs Don't Wear Pants." Another BDSM themed movie I'd surmise will be interesting.

So enjoy your week, be safe and watch for the plows!

Until next time
M Sharina

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02/07/2023 UPDATE
"Teasy Tuesday . . ."

I have always loved the seasons here in Minnie, but I must tell you, it has been a literal STRUGGLE to be in the below temps we got last week! Way too much humidity. Makes it feel like the ice is running through you.

STILL...when I do venture out, it better be for a good reason.

If I'm not scheduled for a session, I dream about it. My dreams aren't really too much unlike my sessions and I get to see people who have died and some I haven't seen in a long time. But my dreams are more edgy than in real life. No limits. You've seen cats do it when they play with a mouse.

It's been a hard season for more than just weather, but we are braving it together, right? I am not sure how much cold we have left, but I do know my dungeon studio is always warm especially my main room. The cabinet is full of torture devices and as you know, I have some really keen "Machinas." I have hesitated to get them because I like doing things myself. I've never been one to turn things over to the power of the MACHINES! I only use them as an accoutrement (say it frenchy like, "ahh-coo-trah-mah." Yes, that's it, very nice.

Whatever it is I use, I use it in concert with my skill set. I will always have the desire to have you fully IMMERSED when you are here with me...your respite, your vacation, your therapeutic Asylum.

Be patient, the weather will change. I'll plant seeds and grow an intangible (for now)  garden in your mind.

Time stands still where I am. I LOVE that...

For today, it's Teasy Tuesday! I post teasy things on twitter AND you can see it embedded right here on my website! I posted something yesterday you'll like. Take a look see and if you enjoy checking twitter during the day, FOLLOW ME

Check out Sharina Nicole MINNEAPOLIS DOMINATRIX (@SharinaNicole): https://twitter.com/SharinaNicole

Until next time...

Stay happy, healthy and TEASED!

M Sharina

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01/17/2023 UPDATE
"Do It . . ."

"You want me to do what Mistress?"

"I want you to SUCK MY C**K! I will be training you to be my whore so don't disappoint me." 

My slave looks puzzled but complies with my wishes. He is wondering what his Mistress will really expect of him and how far he'd be willing to go for Her.

With Mistress' collar denoting OWNERSHIP, he is hardly in a position to argue. He KNOWS she will give him an alternative choice and he needs to comply completely or be prepared to choose. Take the lesser of two evils so to speak. But what if the Mistress chooses by withholding what the choice is?

We have a long history my slave and I. He thinks back to when the choice was not revealed. It was like, "you have this door and you already know what THAT is, even though you don't know how far your Mistress plans on going." Then there's door number 2 which is closed, you know nothing. Pick slave. The latter is what you chose. MISTAKE! There is nothing worse than what's behind THIS door. Your Mistress ignores you. Treats you like an object. You are nothing. That was worse than anything. He thought about it. Then complied to her direction no matter where it would lead. This is TRUST and it is also TRAINING with the slaves necessary element of HUMILIATION.

Imagine your Mistress knowing you so well. She digs into your brain and pulls out a predicament with what could be the most unusual outcome. Would she? Could she?

 My mind is fertile. Often times I'm restricted by what I can post. I have not posted anything to my NEW instagram. But I will. I do TWITTER, but I don't post THOSE CERTAIN pics, that's for Fetlife.

Today on Twitter is what I call, "Teasy Tuesday." I posted a couple of GIFs.

I had the heat on in the car. I peeled off my coat and everything underneath. The darkness on the road with the flash of the street lights. I was warm, but hot just thinking someone might see

I think about things during the day and when I close my eyes at night. I'd urge you to feed your mind and feel your body.

Until next time,

M Sharina

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01/09/2023 UPDATE
"Nail Yourself To The Cross . . ."

I speak to quite a few people and have so for years. People ponder DOMINATION and SUBMISSION but little do they know, I have conducted quite a few sessions that have nothing to do with Domination OR submission.

Sometimes the theme is simply EXPLORATORY or could be a deep dive into MADNESS in the case of fantasy and intense roleplay where you may be put in a position of wondering if what is ACTUALLY happening hasn't clean gone off the rails! I'd call that a "thrill ride."

I was speaking with someone recently who explained his fantasy but has never experienced it before (FEMINIZATION) and said, "Maybe I shouldn't be doing this." Which signaled me to ask if he had a religious upbringing, maybe Catholic. He immediately said, "Catholic." I have nothing against belief systems or religion in general, as long as people keep in mind they are free moral agents and guilt plays no part in a balanced life that hurts no one.

Although there is such a thing as karma (natural alignment of cause and effect...you reap what you sow.) In religious belief systems, we are taught overall that indulging oneself in pleasure, perhaps masturbation or a fetish or kink, is wrong. This is only truth if you believe it. There is a lot of self inflicted pain through guilt. It's natural. I myself have come to terms with being "PUNISHED" for something pleasurable.

Guilt does not serve you.

In this new year, aside from the resolutions which may come to harm more than support, SHED what does not serve your spirit

Here's to a TRULY New Year! With HAPPINESS as the resolution!


M Sharina

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01/05/2023 UPDATE
"For a Bashful Girl in TRAINING . . ."

Those of you who know me also know I enjoy a special connection with you. THIS ONE I

I sent THIS  to My Felicity! Such fun instructions during the holiday!

Oh, have a great holiday and one evening, I want you to have a nice girly cocktail. If you don't drink, make it non alcoholic. Slip away if you must... find a moment.

Choices:
Kir Cockrail
Champagne
Pink Squirrel

Blow job shot
Lean over the shot. Put your mouth over the glass, wrap your lips firmly around it, tilt your head back and feel the cream enter your mouth. Now swallow.

I like this so much I'm posting it for all my girls

M Sharina

01/03/2023 UPDATE
"Unexpected Loss . . ."

A friend of mine committed suicide last Sunday, New Years Day. I knew him through the work I do and I also knew his wife very well.

Over the years I've seen many people from all walks of life in my studio. Army and Marines stand out in a unique group of people needing specialized therapy, which, they do not always get. PTSD is real, it creeps up in waking life and in dreams. The stress buries itself in cells and will not let go.

A retired gunnery sergeant explained to me how he'd wake up in the middle of the night in the corner of his bedroom hiding from artillery fire. He'd wake up terrified. TERRIFIED.

The man I knew was a gentle soul, adored his wife and children and they had a happy home. His business was going well and he was very talented. Deeper inside he fought every single day until last Sunday,  he couldnt carry the weight anymore.

I know (like I know) how people use my skills for therapeutic value. I take it seriously, because no matter what the interest in "play" people use it as a way of distraction, comfort, catharsis and healing. Struggling against bondage, being mummified and sensory deprived, being dressed in panties, humiliated or feminized, it does not matter. The end result is the same whether it's needed or not.

I'm not saying everyone needs "specialized therapy." What I am saying is that people who use it to elevate their spirit, need it greatly.

You will be missed . . . you have always been an angel in so many ways. You. Will. Be. MISSED and you are LOVED

M Sharina

HAPPY NEW YEAR 2023!

Let's chat.

"Christmas is over and we're into the New Year!



Remember y2k? I do. It was a weird time. We were all contemplating technology failure through software. Think hospitals, University, power plants, utility companies and telephone systems. Plus, there was a time crunch!

Time flies so fast. Things change in a heartbeat. You know it. You've felt it. You've been through it

So, what's going to be different THIS year?


Think back to 1999. How much in your life has changed since then? If it has not changed, you might have some work to do.

Going back, I remember when I first heard of spankings and sex. What? You've got to be kidding me! Spanky spanky? Now I understand. Not only do I understand about giving one, but receiving one too.

Years ago I had a masochistic/switch boyfriend. He introduced me to an erotic spanking. Ok, I get it now. That was a big wow. The warming of my bottom while being teased to no end. That is one of the reasons I love TEASING (and DENIAL) so much. I understand it. Of course I did enjoy sadistically annihilating him in different ways returning the favor. We would flip a coin. Top or bottom?

Trying something different in a thoroughly experiential way can be mind blowing. It's the most fun I've ever had.



These levels of sexuality is a gravitational force. Apparently, mine has become "The Conductor of Catharsis and,Resolute Peace." Energy Adjustment.

Unknowingly, this is who I've always been meant to become. From everything I've ever done, from every experience I've ever had. Right here right now, the purpose of my life is clear. I am an empathic and therapeutic Dominatrix (with or without pain)

It's the NEW Year, but it is also your continuum of life. Do you know what your "purpose" in life is? Do you WANT to know what it is? Maybe "lifing along" is ok. That is ok too, and there are reasons for this. If you want to know, that's a whole new package to open

Remember: Guilt is not life affirming. Thoughtful reflection has its place when we take responsibility. But guilt has no place because it takes our power away. Be thoughtful, take responsibility and move forward.



I wish for all the people I know and have a fondness for, to take to heart what you have left to experience -  because you just never know. 👀

I'm here. I'm here now and I look forward to this New Year because IT'S LOOKING EXCELLENT!!!!!!

Mwah!

M Sharina

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I talked about fantasies in my last blog post. In case you didn't know, I had my wisdom "tooth" out. While I was reclining waiting for the dentist to come in, I heard some drilling going on in the other room. I could not help but think about "being" the dentist.

"Dr. Nicole will see you now." says my lovely, leggy, sexy blonde assistant. I take a look see in his mouth, his eyes strain to see my breasts. My assistant walks by, her light perfume wafting through the air. I lean his head back, "Take a look at this." She leans over him, close to my face, his eyes pop. "Yep, we're going to need to put him under." "That's nice . . . we can do what we need to do while he's under." She smiles at me knowingly. I smile back. I know what we have a "desire" for . . .

Our patient wakes up in the "Recovery Room" and CANNOT MOVE for reasons the head Nurse has decided is "Best for the patient."

Whispers, "New website Page COMING!!!"

Bundle up! But stay FROSTY!


Until next time,

M Sharina

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12/09/2022 UPDATE
"Perfumed Cleavage to Smother . . ."

This one is going to be a "bebe le' "HOT" blog post because REALLY, I don't think I'm alone in this, but I think incessantly EDGY thoughts ALL THE TIME!

So, I was having a conversation with someone this past week when I caught myself saying something before I had a chance to think twice about it and that it absolutely was 100% honest. I said, "A day doesn't go by when I havent thought of something sexual or kinky." I stopped, thought about it and then thought, "Yeah, I do think of something kinky or sexual every single day." I only wonder how MANY thoughts per day do I have? Not just while I'm awake, it's when I'm asleep too. Naturally for me, akin to how many times one "daydreams" or "touches our face" because with the latter, we do that 23 times PER HOUR according to the CDC. There ARE things we do every day with repetition. For me, I'm tuned in to erotic thoughts and daydreams mostly.


For me, there is a constant stream of emails, phone calls, sessions that do fuel my already sexy mind.

What do I think about? What is my process? It's random.

Off the CUFF, I'm stricken with ideas. I might single out a person I happen to see and I wonder what they would look like naked. News people are my fave and mostly ALL females unless it's men in a group. Especially if it is a conservative news person who has say 36 DDD bra size. They hide it well, no cleavage in sight, but I have x-ray vision...

If I see 2 or more people, the game is: "If I had to choose one person in that group to deep kiss, or have sex with, which one would it be?" I HAVE TO CHOOSE one of the 2 or 3 or 4. "So, if you had to fuck someone in that group, who would it be?" I get an incredulous stare if I'm speaking openly...

 

Have you ever had thoughts like that? I think of the size of a mans penis, what he looks like masturbating. I think of how and what a particular woman looks like when she comes, what she sounds like and how nice to be there when she does it. A fly on the wall. Is she loud? Is she sweaty? Does she taste herself? Are there secrets?

When I dream, sometimes I'm dominating someone. I do things that I would not be able to do in a session, but in my dreams, I can do anything.I want and with reckless abandon. The teasing is harder, the breath play is edgier, the slaps are breathtaking and the humiliation is annihilating.

I have this unique way of helping those find their personal limits and guiding them over that threshold. Just read my Thank You notes. This is one of the noteworthy themes and I appreciate knowing this.

I can't help what I think about. I ride the rails of what I can do safely and what I wish I could do. There was a story in the news where one or more of the women at a nursing facility was "abusing" the elderly. They were bathing them, turning them on and forcing pleasure (yes, you can force pleasure on a person) They were slapping and kicking them (nonconsensually) and climbing on top of them to dominate. I found out about this because my chunky heel trample guy told me about it. He said, "Oh Sharina, if I could be in that nursing home I'D BE SO HAPPY for the rest of  my life! He prays to the kinky gods for this reality.

I thought about it. Wouldn't it be great to give fetishists what they really want for the remainder of their lives? Bondage, sleepsacks, catheters...heels on chest while a  sexy women thumbs through a magazine...IMMENSE JOY! Eyes looking upward seeing stockinged legs, knowing that their nurse would gift them with their worn stockings and panties to sleep with.


There's this other thing I think of often. It is a fantastical fantasy, but I would love it. For me, the idea of being a SPECIALIZED NURSE doing specialized things, would be THE BEST thing EVERRRR. Id be the on call duty nurse. ENEMA Nurse, CATHETER Nurse, and my very favorite SHAVING before surgery Nurse!

I cant tell you everything because you may get the "wrong idea" about me. Sometimes in a session I'll say or think..."In a perfect world" I'd have no consequences, no lines to cross...but I do.

It's the holidays and its almost Christmas I also know it isn't the easiest season for everyone. We are reminded of "conflict." It's a challenging season no doubt even if we are at peace with ourselves and each family member, but some are in recovery from addiction (this is ongoing) and some have some pretty tough memories. So, hang in there, if you need to connect with me, say "Hi" or tell me it's a not so great time right now, I am here. Drop me a line and we'll chat about it a bit.

Remember, think of one thing, one goal to focus on and begin today. We all want to maintain a BALANCE. If you feel "lesser than" (we all do) do a Random Act of Kindness. Leave things better than you found them, put a gift certificate for groceries in an envelope and have someone else give it to someone you think may be in need. A single Mom, a struggling Dad...When we do this, our actions spread like the ripples of water on the lake when you drop a rock in.

Be a rock to someone...

I'll be in touch! I promise! Life gets busy. I'll keep you posted about new things coming...equipment, a new website page, upgrades on rooms. I do love posting pictures to show you though. The Red Room I'm using quite a bit. Sometimes I use 2 or 3 rooms in one session Whatever tweaks the session for you AND for me...So, stay frosty until we meet again.

Until next time,

M Sharina

Sensual Femdom Mistress & Dominatrix in Minneapolis, Minnesota

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11/24/2022 UPDATE
"You are Meant to Fly on a Roller Coaster . . ."

I took a little time off after Thanksgiving to recharge. I'm sure you understand..."But MISTRESS!!!! Where ARE you?!!?"

A sleepy, relaxing way of being is usually at the forefront of what we experience when we take breaks. I'd say we also put our kinks on hold until after the Thanksgiving Holiday. I don't. Almost every night, I dream about what I do in this life, because THIS is my life's purpose. Sometimes though, we just need a bit of a holiday.

Think Madonna's song: HOLIDAY
"It would beee, it would be so NICE! (Jump)



I'm having my web Master Post 2 very lovely Thank you's. People are so nice to me. Power girl spice Cheri reminded me 2 times not to forget to add to my Amazon list. The only time during the year I post anything to celebrate is during my birthday. My web Master likes to post something because, as he says, "people want the opportunity to celebrate you."

I also received the most heart warming gratitude letter from slave mercury on Thanksgiving.

I'm grateful and amazed about a lot of things. Mostly for the wonderful people I get to play with. I enjoy the "relationship" we're in and how my form of therapy works. Even if one doesn't have a fetish or kink, the mere idea of putting yourself in my hands to orchestrate a new experience is cathartic. I use all different kinds of methods. The end result of my kind of therapy is just like putting your hands in the air as you anticipate flying down a tremendous hill on a roller coaster. It's thrill seeking in a very different way. I remember the first time someone put themselves in my hands to submit. It was THRILLING! I'll never forget it.



So, we got through turkey day, Christmas is coming and I know for some of you, it adds new stress and reminders of experiences good and not so good, and of course, people who are no longer with us. It's just that time of year.

Just know that I am here in whatever capacity you need me to be there. I am happy to answer simple and some complex questions through email, which I will anonymously post so others may benefit. If you need an in person meeting, I'll have my web Master put up a new page for this.

I know there needs to be some kind of outlet for times during the year, but especially now during the holidays. We can experience utter sadness, and dysphoria. Its natural to feel these things AND it is greatly illuminated during the holidays.

We press on. We do. It can be challenging, but hang in there. Before you know it, you will have a whole New Year to begin fresh.

I am a firm believer in setting ourselves up to win. I do not subscribe to New Years Resolutions. If you want to change your life, pick ONE thing, master it for 30 days. Think on it, take action and I promise, your life will change. If you begin right now, today or Dec 1st, you will have something mastered by THE END of Dec, in time to ring in the New Year with an actual VICTORY!

Use a calendar, tune into your one goal. SEE your end result.

Keep me posted, drop me a line and let me know how you're doing with it. The key is to pick something ATTAINABLE, yet something a little stretchy. You know a rubber band never goes back into the same shape it was once you STRETCH it. If you stumble, RE COMMIT YOURSELF. New day, new moment, use it.

Pressing on and I am excited for the NEW YEAR! Be well, and remember to take care of yourself,  because if you don't you won't be good to anyone else, and you want to be good for someone.

M Sharina

11/07/2022 UPDATE
" 'Packing' for Pleasure . . ."

First
I'll tell you what I'm up to for this week (and last.) First of all people think it's a bit ridiculous when I cannot schedule them within a short time frame. I balance my work with play time which is one and the same, but because I have a unique way of getting into a person's space, I take time to regroup. Normally I get to book my sessions in advance, and I'll never schedule a new person on the same day I speak to them over the phone. Please plan in advance!

New!
My NEW Red Room will be basically finished THIS WEEK! I absolutely MUST, as I have plans to use it this week during my extended! Finishing touches on my MEDICAL ROOM / KLINIK / MEDICAL ASYLUM too as you'll get multiple feelings about it depending on your session leanings. One is a MEDICAL ROOM, for others, a MEDICAL ASYLUM, you know, "mental institution." The other feel is my Institut de Beauté complete with beautification treatments!

■I'm looking forward to posting some pics featuring my custom LEATHER "STRAIT JACKET" SLEEPSACKS with one LEATHER LINED. If you look, you'll see some supreme CANVAS SLEEPSACK pics with leather belts. I had it customized for the perfect fit. The matching CANVAS HOOD is confining, but completely comfortable even for longer sessions. You DO want to feel how insane you've really become, right? "Yes Doctor Nicole." My reclined sleek white MEDICAL CHAIR is another option.

Care for a peek in my small cabinet? The others are full, and this one has about run out of room.

 

I love my 3 Erostek boxes that are NOT SOLD anywhere! (they're impossible to find anymore)

Alternative
So, I thought I would also mention that on occasion, people want to sit down for a chat, an extensive conversation about all kinds of things. It could be personal, a request for perspective, or a generalized connection with your Mistress.

I'll briefly elaborate by saying since I have not made the decision to go out to a restaurant, what I've done is provide a lunch or dinner with beverages in my main room where the atmosphere is warmly lit, table set up and we are served while chatting. Personally,  I have enjoyed the intimate conversation where I do not need to worry about those who eavesdrop. If you are interested in this kind of thing, I offer it.

The Goods
Just today I was reminiscing about my "packing dick" which I still have. It could be used and fitted to the urethra in order to pee out if it in a men's bathroom if one were so inclined. For me, it rounded out my Gemini personality, and there are SO many of my personalities I let out of bag. This particular personality enjoyed "women's boxers" and packing a dick on occassion. Now, if it could ONLY do the thing real dicks can do...

I don't really think all of us desire to explore the other side, but I do know there is a need for it. For me, that soft fleshy apparatus made me feel different and I enjoyed it. I LOVE being feminine and all aspects of it. I enjoy male energy and being able to allure men in a consensual environment. The power that a woman has over men is wonderful and yet men, when they understand their ability to allure women with gentle power, only feeds their masculinity as it feeds my feminine power to be feminine.

And then there is PLAY!
This week was VERY COOL as although I am always working with people in various forms of Feminization, I got to play with someone on the F2M perspective. He was male energy all the way and because I enjoy playing with male energy so much, it was quite an exquisite honor to be with *his* particular energy. "Here, let me take you "there." I do not take the rapport I initiate with anyone AND the trust that they have in me to schedule a session for granted. I know it can be NERVE RACKING! Especially when I am their first.

This same week I spoke also to an out and proud M2F living her true self. Courageous and strong she is AND I admire that mindset so much. Listen and learn...

I will be enjoying an extended session this week having Ms Mya there with me to embellish the hotness We've played together for many years.

I think that is it!
WAIT! Please remember to VOTE FOR WOMEN at the polls. We all need to support women in all forms, WOMEN, Supreme Mistress Deities...Respect women's rights It's an important time in our history.

Until next time...

M Sharina

10/27/2022 UPDATE
"Down From the Ledge . . ."

 During a crossdressing session, someone experienced shear panic! I was caught off guard, but I have been faced in the past by Medical Emergencies, paranoia and yes, PANIC.  

Mistress,
(Personal Message Omitted)
 
On a different note I was on your website and I saw your note about me.  I realized how caring you are but also how well you really know who I am.  It is very comforting but also maybe dea little scary because I have kept this so deep inside me for so long.  I mentioned I have been to other sessions before but never anything like yours. You truly brought something out of me I that I never felt before. It was amazing but I think it was so new that it overwhelmed me.  I do want to keep striving to bring that feeling to the forefront.

Thank you

 
I know she left in a good mental state, which is very important to me.

Last week I put an experienced player in a strait jacket, which he loved, and although he adores bondage, as soon as I placed a leather hood over his head, he told me he felt panic. I immediately removed the hood, checked in with him and used plan B which was a comfy padded leather blindfold.

I never know and YOU never know how you will respond to being played with. So, we deal with it when and if it comes up even if you're experienced.

I've been working hard to return phone calls and emails.  If you don't hear back within 3 days, please contact me again, Thx!

I keep ordering more things that'll make your session more fun and just may tweak you into liking something you never thought you'd love. Like the Doctor who was introduced to 2 different straight jackets while I played with his wife and he LOVED IT!

Which, I have a super nice canvas hood that is coming this week! It matches the canvas sleep sack with the belts. I WANT YOU IMMOBILIZED! (But only if it doesn't scare the hell out of you!)


It's still "LOCKTOBER," so for fun, I got a little sissy pussy chastity device to add to my collection. Too cute!

So, over and out for now...
M Sharina

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I had a session last week. This person had sessions with other Mistresses before me. It was a 2 hour Forced Feminization session. Abruptly, I hear, "Mistress may we stop, just finish the session?" I did a check in making sure it wasn't a physical situation. Come to find out, the experience was overwhelming. There was no pain, tight bondage or anything out of the ordinary that would cause discomfort. Although I went slow, I think the experience had him confront his insides truly being on the outside. I got under his skin . . . molded him, spoke to him gently coercing the inner Femme out. He wasn't completely ready for this and panicked.  I did talk him down off the ledge.

I transferred him to the bondage table, turned the lights down. Explained the effects that sessions have on some people and that overall, no matter what the session entails, the residual effect is therapeutic. I ran my fingers over his body while speaking. I placed my hands on his feet, cupped the toes and squeezed the arches.

I create a safe place for people to explore who they really are and sometimes it is relevant to leave that part of them at the studio until  they return, when they get to embrace it again.

This was all too much for my crossdresser and I've had all to many people who are at so many different levels of their male to femininity persona to wonder what their next personal step is, it didn't surprise me, but it did.

So, if it looks like a man and the insides are girl, there can be varying degrees of interpretation and acceptance to confront (or not) Leave it as fun, interpret your truth any way you like because I create a safe space to do so.

Things come up during sessions. They just do. Shedding the layers of armor we pad ourselves with, is one thing that creates freedom to be who we are, even if it's just for a little while to share it with someone who understands.

Reflected in the Thank You note I received from "Felicity", I am happy she worked through whatever stopped her during our first session together.

Accept yourself for "who" you are. Sure, fear comes in sometimes, but that's where the juice is. When you stretch a rubber band, it doesn't go back into the same shape it was. Be comfortable in your own skin. 


M Sharina

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Why am I mentioning this?
MSP - Minneapolis Saint Paul Airport is #1 (Numero Uno!)

J.D. Power 2022 study: Top 10 BEST MEGA AIRPORTS in the United States.

Well, for you it means no fuss, no muss for a quick airport shuttle. My driver picks you up from MSP Airport and delivers you to my Studio Fatale and back to the Airport. Wearing silky panties in coach while you anticipate meeting your Mistress can be thrilling...or THRILLING! It is such a short drive to Studio Fatale a quick straight shot. One or two stop lights...

The 30 minute spanking sessions are OVER now. "NO MISTRESS! Say it isn't so!" YES, it is so! The problem with them was, it was too difficult for ME to do a 30 minute spanking even if it might be a Judicial Corporal Punishment red hot bottom quickie, a Mommy Dearest, NO-more-wire-hangers, or a "This is going to hurt you more than me, I promise,. Now don't make a mess over my lap kinda session...

My NEW RED ROOM is almost finished. Since I talked to you last, I embellished the curtains, hung a sexy mirror, added lighting, added furniture, and the bedding is very schmarmy. Think: HOLLYWOOD REGENCY. Obviously, I STILL have my phenomenal collection of wigs, makeup, exquisite lingerie, heels, garters & stockings all for my crossdressers!

I did get my canvas bondage sleep sack with a full array of thick leather belts! Ooh, STRAP IN! I have also tried it out. I like the arm sleeves inside, and you will like it too with me at the helm of your torment

I suspect Wednesday will be one last hot day until....Studio Fatale takes over your heat source! BUT! I will batten down the hatches and the only Her-ricane is the one in your panties.

Cool breezes up my skirt today as I toil in the studio creating new visuals for my wonderful slaves,dolls, sissy gurls, laboratory animals, patients and PRISONERS.

Did I miss anyone? Drop me a line. I think it's safe now.

Until next time...
M Sharina

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Well, I am around, just not in obvious view! I will tell you what I've been up to in the NEWS section of this blog post and also say I've been flittering about on Twitter tweeting bits and pieces (where I have permission to post pics) and doing quick check-ins. Overall I've been doing extended sessions which, I will only schedule one session per day. (Protecting immune compromised and those with health issues.)

The kinds of sessions I've been doing have been extended. Main interests have been with out of town people seeking unique experiences. Some I know, some are new to me.

SESSIONS:
Examples are Forced Womanhood/Crossdressing, Hypno-Control, Sensory Deprivation (deep dive) Medical and Roleplay of all sorts (yee hah!) Warden/Prisoner, extensive CBT/pain-pleasure wave, mummification and belt bondage.

My favorites were the 2 part/2 day session. Major sensory deprivation, OBJECTIFICATION, forced feminization, sensual hypno-therapy and guided imagery taking us BOTH to erotic places. I used the Nova Pro on the second day. Good thing he requested a driver...😊

The other very intense extended I did was 3 part/3 day. "Sarah" was immersed up to her pretty little pierced ears in dress up, crossdressing, feminization transformation. Some "talk therapy" where only your confidante could possibly understand your life as it is and receive the right energy back.  

I can go months without doing any CORPORAL you know, but then I start "handling" the singletail whips, placing them down, looking longingly but walking away. Consensual is very IMPORTANT to me... But you know what I mean. Every email I open up is a surprise...

COVID:
As for Covid, if you have not been vaccinated, Omicron will hit you pretty hard whereas if your VAX's are up to date, it's much better. Better if you have the latest vax against Omicron, which I will be getting this month.

NEWS:
Finishing touches on the "Red Room." Everything done in excellence takes time, but I do enjoy the process! Right now, getting ready to hang the mirror. Soon I'll post pics on Twitter!

CONTACT:
I will be changing my voice mail to reflect alternative ways of contact. Give me time to return your call or Email.

Exchanging energy with people is what I do and it's what I enjoy. I don't know how to get to know you or do sessions any other way. I am emotionally committed AND I choose who I share energy with. This is why the initial phone call is so important.

I KNOW that everything I've done in my life has lead me to where I am now in assisting others to their supreme experiences. From my Esthetician background, to my medical training and experience, to hospice and bereavement counseling and life coaching transformation. I combine it all with my 26 years of experience in professional domination. I have loved all these things, AND I love being with you the most utilizing all my skills.

EQUIPMENT:
I have a new CANVAS SLEEPSACK with 3 zippers and BELTS! Excited to use it for the first time. (You will not be sleeping in it, but you could try. You know how wet dreams are, right?)

I expect my LEATHER SLEEPSACK to be arriving this week from Europe. This one has leather encased arms to be tied outside the sack itself. Smothering leather.  I only buy good quality soft thick leather.

NEW leather ARMBINDERS with lots of D-rings is also on its way.

There you have it! I think I've updated you on things and mostly "fun things." Which as you may recall I now have 2 really Fffffun machines to add to the "machines I already have now, but I need those with curiosity and a bit of stamina might help too

Until next time...
M Sharina

Sensual Femdom Mistress & Dominatrix in Minneapolis, Minnesota

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Should I state the obvious? Entering into a new season where being buckled into a leather sleep sack takes on a whole new meaning. Do you get the chills when you feel a cold breeze moving in on your face like I do? Well, we both need to keep warm,  so how 'bout I do some titillating things to you while you are surrounded and encased in the intoxicating smell of leather?

I must keep you warm while you adjust to the Fall chill in the air. Don't worry. You'll be in a TIGHT FITTING CHASTITY DEVICE while you feel a certain vibrational tone of ELECTRO-STIM that has entered your core. Your real vacation begins...now as we both say "Helloooo, Fall!"

It could be "The Year of Encasement" while I try out some new items I'm collecting. LEATHER STRAIT JACKET sleep sack where you'll be doing anything but sleeping, although you WILL slip into Dream Land depending on where I want to take you.

The MEDICAL ASYLUM  will also gain an accoutrement. A long body CANVAS sleep sack with pretty tan leather belts. I can see you now, tape over the mouth presenting my signature kiss mark on your rubberized lips.

There are a million ways to skin a cat. Just ask my Familiar, Latex Cat. I have been his QMKT "Queen Mistress Kitty Tamer for 25 years." He introduced me to latex play.

When I speak of ENCASEMENT, I speak from experience inside and out of the bag. Latex Cat and I went to the Rubber Ball in England together. I put him in a latex sleep sack, latex hood with 2 nose holes and a gag. I was enjoying a bit of schmarmy vibration play while teetering over my kitty. The latex was slippery. My naked body was fluid and I fell off! I knocked the picture on the wall and cracked the lamp. My kitty was mouthing "MISTRESS! ARE YOU OK?!!?" He could do nothing.  I had a HUGE BRUISE on my arm. Pics and story are on my website, just do a search for "Rubber Ball."

Anyway, enjoy the beautiful weather here in Minnesota while it lasts, because soon you'll be needing some sexy warmth to get you through the chilly times ahead.

M Sharina
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09/06/2022 UPDATE
"Are You Ready For The Week? . . . "

It's Tuesday, are you ready for the week?!!?! Short week, but I have a few "vacationers." I'll call it an extended Labor Day vacation

I think taking time, especially Labor Day weekend (which signals the end season of summer) is very important to RE-CHARGE!

Me, I was looking through some of my boxes and found some interesting tidbits I will eventually share with you. I did an interview with a lady who started up a magazine resource for DOMINATRICES! I was in her first issue of Passion Magazine. Ms Diamond was a true "Sister" in the art of the BDSM lifestyle. I think she did almost a dozen issues, but magazines aren't as popular as swooning over the Internet.

Speaking of which, I used to also do ads in the DDI (Dominatrix Directory International) which has also fallen by the wayside of the more popular Internet directories that I'm using now. I adored these directories and magazines. I have FETISH and SECRET magazines in my time capsule

I'm positive I'll re-read the interview and see how far I've come in my skill level and view points on BDSM play. After all, I am always EVOLVING and honing my skills to new levels, because we know there's more to domination than me pointing to my boot and saying, "LICK IT LOSER" although there is a fun place for that.

Lots to do today! 3 hours this evening. I'll be taking pics since he's good with that. I sharing my excursions with you.

Updating my "mutual adoration page" with a special thank you I received in my P.O Box

Until next time
M Sharina
Sensual Femdom Mistress & Dominatrix in Minneapolis, Minnesota

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When you send me your session requests, I LOVVVVE IT! Gets my creativity sparked. I begin to arrange the ideas and then tweak it. It's like a recipe, but then anything can happen when we're actually together in person and if you're new to me...I peel the onion, always testing you to see where we can go.

Take for instance a "007 session" I'm filled with tormenting James.. especially to see if he can keep himself in check knowing that sexy women spies are always trying to extrapolate SECRET information from him.

I adore the themes...WE SPAR. Secret Agent Bond must go for his annual check up and prove he is viable to go back into the field. UNFORTUNATELY "Honey Maren" always has the last word once James realizes the water he has drunk was poisoned... BUT, if he can keep his head, the poison will not travel to his

Today, the overall theme is one of my favorites. I am a court appointed (sadistic) psychologist. It is I who will decide if my subject gets probation or PRISON. I put him through hellish experiences, make him jump through MY hoops and since I have ALL the control, I know I will win with my titillating fire, KNOWING he will fail.

I ALWAYS wonder and sometimes I ask, "How did you come upon having THIS kink?" "What do you mean Mistress? You mean by my own ability (or inability) to pass your tests, I end up fucking myself?" Why yes. Yes, that's exactly it.

The other day I was really enjoying my interaction with a "patient." Little by little I broke him down. It was real to him and real to me. I made him hold a 1000 mil bag of saline in each hand with arms outstretched and then turned on the stopwatch, just to get an idea of his overall strength which would fade as he grew weaker. Then, out came the DICE. A game of chance...a chance he would fold, a chance he could "win." But, that was just a dream. I had my ideas already. Pain? Pleasure? What would the roll mean?

The other day I spied what I thought was a cage...it was a crib and it was square with bars. It did not have a top to it AND that was the only reason it wasn't a cage.

You think this person will grow up to crave being put into a real cage when he grows older? When you're young, you learn to deal. They adjust to what they originally hate. Then there's finding yourself in your sister's closet  with your face in her shoe. The smellll... Thrown over the lap of one of the bratty girls on the playground and you get EXCITED. So, you're always chasing the dragon and your dragon is your FETISH!

Still getting new "items" to embellish your kink!  Think CANVAS, MEDICAL ASYLUM, extra bondage BELTS and lots of RESTRICTION. But don't worry, I'll get to you... I am also getting a very nice LEATHER bondage sleep sack with tit flaps. You will be doing anything but sleeping in it. Go ahead...try.

Well, that's all the news for now. I was MIA last week with emails and phone calls because I was in the studio every day. That called for a "coma" weekend. Please don't hesitate to contact me again to let me know I missed you.

I'm enjoying my small harvest of cherry tomatoes, lots of MINT and CHIVES! The flowers are gorgeous and my Lavender is SO tall I've named it Lavvy.

Enjoy your wonderful days of summer

M Sharina
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I got a distinct BUZZ when I was watching another Mistress doing rope bondage in her dungeon. I was uniquely surprised. This was years ago and yet I remember it like it was yesterday..

I said to her, "I feel buzzed." She said, "I know, me too."
SIMPATICO

Until then, I had no idea just watching bondage play could cause me to get turned on. The buzz feeling is in my throat. A certain kind of calm energy. You know, during the worst part of Covid when it began, I stopped doing sessions for about 3 months. I ended up feeling very melancholy, disjointed and uninspired. I guess you could say BDSM play for me is like light and sun is to a person with Seasonal Affective Disorder. (S.A.D) When we don't have that component, we feel depressed and less like ourselves.

I do enjoy getting turned on by strange things. Piercing nipples, torturing bulbous nipples and feeling the warmth and destruction on mine. I've been drawn to missing fingers and limbs, physical challenges and those who are ample in size and controlling them and touching people who aren't used to being touched The list is long and it is growing.

On another note, I have a new GLASS medical cabinet for the "The Asylum." A display case for electrical boxes and gadgets. I love collecting and re-arranging these things to stun and use on my laboratory animals and crash test dummies

Are you enjoying your Summer and making the most out of feeling your feet in the grass while sipping on a cool drink? I have heard from some of you and I appreciate you including me in your life, your celebrating accomplishments, your sadness in grief and things kinky things that interest you.

I'll say "bye" for now and look forward to what is next. Time sure does fly...
Be happy and be well!

M Sharina
Sensual Femdom Mistress & Dominatrix in Minneapolis, Minnesota

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08/04/2022 UPDATE
"AGAIN, The Porn Mistress! . . ."

I watch porn from the standpoint of doing things to people. I know if you enjoy being played with, you place yourself in the role of being played with. When you're in a scene with a Mistress, do you ever wish she'd do something to you and then she actually does it? MIND BLOWING!

If I were to say what turns me on the most, it is when you are subjugated to my toying with you. I like to force you to love it AND/or ENJOY suffering for me.My Mistress loves this! I will take it! For me it just means the rewards are intricately woven. I love teetering you between all emotions that fit the scene. Erotic teasing, truly the yin and the yang.

So how is your summergoing? I check the temperature on an app on my phone. Apparently, they got it wrong when the "feels like" temp was 140° Holy WTF?

My blog is late...I've been balancing email responses, sessions, website stuff, writing an article, clearing out the studio of things I don't use/need. Thinking if erecting a store from my closet to make room to bring in new stuff, which, if you've been keeping track. I've been enjoying my electrical boxes and "macheens"

That's about the jist of it! Drop me a line, I'll try to keep up!

Hot Summer Cheek Squeezes!

M Sharina
Sensual Femdom Mistress & Dominatrix in Minneapolis, Minnesota

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07/25/2022 UPDATE
"Real Life is a MEME . . ."

Recently I posted a funny meme on twitter which basically says, "Men, if you're over 50, leave the young girls alone and find a woman who knows the signs of a stroke." Funny right?

Well, over the years I've been in situations that were "very sticky" AND since your secret is safe with me, I will protect you to the ends of the earth, which means if you have a "medical situation" your Mistress needs to know what to do. So really, what could happen? I'm healthy!

*TIA - Trans Ischemic Attack
*Vasovagal nerve
*Fainting
*Dehydration
Testicular Torsion
*Emotional Triggers
*Physical Weakness
*Onset Anxiety
*Viagra Reaction
Sprain, broken bone
*Profuse bleeding
"Lingering Vertigo

*I have experienced these things first hand. The rest I am aware of and know what to do.
 
There are a lot more, but I bet you've never thought of these things. Some can happen at any age, while others happen when you're older.


I had a retired doctor visiting. I've known him for 19 years. We were relaxing and chatting before play. He begins staring into space. I caught him just before he collapsed in his chair. I had to safely get him to the floor without subjecting him to a concussion. I knew what to do and he was saved from a trip to the ER in women's lingerie. I took quite a few steps in reviving him. He spent his whole life being a doctor and with vast experience. But that doesn't help me if he is UNCONSCIOUS. I need to know what to do IMMEDIATELY.

We are only human. We need to be cared for and protected.

A trip to the ER is not sexy. A trip to MY carefully construed Medical Asylum IS, because it is planned, woven intricately into the threads of your hospital gown.

It's going to be a HOT ONEthis week! Be careful, hydrate yourself and know when to sit down, put your feet up and CHILLAX!  The only "ER" you really want to visit is the one I've created in my studio. Dr. Nicole will see you now...

As always
M Sharina, MD
Medical Dominatrix

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07/19/2022 UPDATE
"You Better Work Bitch "

Can we talk about porn for a second? As you know, I find pornography very interesting. It fills a gap between fantasy and brings it to life in living color. It also has us fantasize even more.


I remember watching a video at the suggestion of Ms Mya. It has since become a favorite. It was called "Bella Loves Jenna." There were parts if it that were questionable, like the midget on a bicycle riding it in circles in a Circus atmospheric haze. Jenna Janeson was in it. I don't think I've ever enjoyed watching a woman suck cock more than this. She's literally loving it up, there's all this foamy drool, her mascara is running, her eyes are watering and she is getting high off of taking it so deep. It is SO hot MAJOR hot, tssssst!


I've since found Harmony videos to be the best. Well done, sexy, dreamy and more hotness than you'd need with one rendezvous with yourself. The ones I watch always have some BDSM intertwined. The Dom always uses her slave in one way or another and I don't mean to bake her cookies.


My all time favorite, which I would play at parties, was a spliced video of Britney Spear's "Work Bitch" out in the desert on this platform with these hot women who are all dancing in unison...cut to a pool...then light flashes of more hot women doing things that aren't in the original Britney video. Pussy, fucking, cock sucking...the vid brings you in gently so you don't know it's really happening. You question Brit for a split second thinking she has gotten TERRIFICALLY racey and how did she get away with THIS? Then WHAMMO! Who ever did this video did an amazing job, plus there's a singletail whip,  black shiny thigh high boots, what's not to LOVE?


Then, there's the unadulterated Mr. S Fetters catalog. Male on male toys. I remember the old catalog, it was huge with the same men in the store as in the catalog.  I'm not gonna lie. My heart was a flutter, and I LINGERED in the store. My favorite was Anthony. A beautiful short haired blond and perfect boy body. He said he liked my top. I smiled, acted normal enough but almost dropped dead.


Onto other THINGS! . . .

My Red Femme Room is coming along great! I had a small chandelier installed so my ladies feel GLAMOROUS. I loved it when it was pink, but I decided to change it to something more GLAMOR FEMME. Still not finito because
I am waiting for a custom piece, and in the process of procuring another finishing touch.


Uniquely, I've never found "Quick and Dirty" in my repertoire. Everything I do is well thought out or researched. I did get a couple of machines, you know the ones... I haven't brought my latest motorized device to the studio yet. I'm fine tuning this heavy work of art.


Nice to touch base. This time of year is so busy, but be very careful in this heat. When the humidity is high, it is very dangerous to be out for too long. SAFETY FIRST!

I have a pretty flower box garden at home. I have mint, basil, rosemary, lavender and chives! Oh, and two tomato plants, one cherry and one regular.  There really is something about the affirmation that one can actually make things to EAT! Nosh nosh!


Love to you now and until next time...

M Sharina

07/04/2022 UPDATE
"Playing With My Toes . . . "

First of all, HAPPY 4TH OF JULY! I hope that you and your family have a safe & happy 4th!

What better way to celebrate the 4th than by putting on a few coats of new toe polish? BLUE SPARKLES! I it!

Last week was a blaze and I do mean hot in the studio. You'll see it on Twitter which is embedded here on my website.

So many fun things . . . I used my anal CHASTITY device and a urethral CHASTITY device, in concert, a real concerto! Loved every minute!

Mucho time with my slave from out of State...3 days of bondage, caging, an assortment of chastity devices, painful prickly CBT devices, FIRE PLAY corporal...well basically I used him up! He loved being my slave which took him out of his stressful element where he placed himself in my all too capable hands.

I recovered over the weekend lounging in my skivvies and painting my toes and definitely smoothing out my fingernails for some fisting this week. Not always pretty, those short nails, but I take my craft seriously and cannot do things I love (and you love) with long sharpie claws.

This week, catching up on a lot! Finishing the Red Femme Room, FINALLY. Emails, sessions and phone calls. I wish I had a secretary, but there are things I can only do. Like feel your energy up over the phone and if it feels right, torment you to the living end.

Looking forward to the new things! There are always new things, eh? In the meantime, MWAH to the 4th! Make it a safe one . . .

'Til next time,

M Sharina

06/22/2022 UPDATE
"The Terminator . . ."

Can I just say, "I'm so happy to be back!"

While I was away, I was not able to return phone calls, and emails fell by the wayside, but I'm caught up right now. I've taken today, Tuesday to regroup.

SCHEDULE WISE as it stands right now, I have this Friday (or) Saturday open, and then a 3 day session from Monday to Wednesday. I will be taking Thursday to chillax and then I'll be scheduling appointments after July 1st.

I am able to be taking pictures of this 3 day session...EXCITED. It will be different than the last extended 3 day with "Sarah" who was eventually put on the proverbial RAILROAD TRACKS and left for me to rescue! (I did not. More tease,  more bondage, she knows the drill)

This will be a FULL PRISON AND BONDAGE SCENE. By the time my PRISONER leaves, he will be in an utter state of euphoria and a good brain scramble...AND, I have a new leather bondage system for PRISONERS arriving tomorrow. A cornucopia of "medical *treatments* BONDAGE, electro-stim, ELECTRICITY CATHODE shooting up the prisoners orifices. No. YES. Nnnnoooo! YESSSSS!!! (Slaps prisoner) "SNAP OUT OF IT! YOU HAVEN'T A CHOICE!" Enemized and NEEDLE POKED, strapped down like a helpless laboratory RAT!

(I am sooooo excited!!!!)

Ok, so there you have it. I kinda lingered a little in that Warden/prisoner scenario. I'm also thinking MEDICAL INSANE ASYLUM where the prisoner requires physical THORAZINE!!!

I do hope you're havin' a summer! So far, so hot, especially in my panties....you know it's TRUE. If you were lucky, I shoved them into your nose and taped them to your head.

Let the "games" begin...

M Sharina

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06/12/2022 UPDATE

"Teetering on The Edge . . ."

I LOVE IT! I have new ear buds, a charging station and a keyboard case! Working smarter not harder Thank you so much for helping me celebrate my birthday! Your gestures mean the world to me...

I did plant lilac bushes and flowers! Pretty up the world I say!

NEWS FLASH!
I will be in Colorado June 16 to 21st and I have some sessions scheduled for that week with some phone calls to return, so please plan your session time in advance, especially to be booked after June 22nd. Thx

NOTE
I WILL BE RETURNING PHONE CALLS AND EMAILS WHILE I AM AWAY.

I hope you are ready for SUMMER!

I know I am...

M Sharina

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Wishing you and your family a very safe, and happy Memorial Day.

Enjoy your Memorial Day Stay safe!

 

M Sharina

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05/25/2022 UPDATE
"I Have a Window . . ."

This will be a quickie note to touch base. You know I like to jot something down for you on my website blog, so here it is and better late than never!

I have a fellow Gemini whom I celebrated while he was in tight bondage. CUPCAKES! Make a wish...

Btw, I love my new locking belts!

I wanted to thank you for some very nice birthday treats you have been so generous to gift me! Id love to post some pictures soon. My birthday is May 29. Dare I say it's magical!

UPDATE: I will be visiting Colorado in a few weeks! I have a purpose for being there, so I may be able to fit in a session or two depending on a few things.

Having said that, I will also be visiting Southern California, (San Diego area near Murrieta) so if you're interested in where I'll be for both trips, drop me a line.

I'm still posting on Twitter, so look for me there AND I occasionally post on Instagram too!

I think it's safe to say, "May showers bring May flowers!" Enjoy what's coming because before you know it, those little flakes will be flying!

M Sharina

I don't know about you, but I'm absolutely SWIRLING in SPRING TIME!

I am taking some time to plant flowers and put up some "spring lights" that look just like baby's breath. Tiny little LED lights in the foyer above the door, spring wreath in place, LOVELY! I am a trendsetter for the neighborhood.

I have also been rummaging through my garage at home "clearing out the wreckage" and finding memories. I found a very thin wood paddle I need to smooth out. I cannot bare to throw it away. Also, some FANTASTIC pictures (BELOW! - SCROLL DOWN!), a heavy electrical plug that needs work.

By the way, I now have 3 Erostek ET-312B Electro-stim boxes (plus a smaller Erostek ET-302R Electro-stim w/ remote), you cannot buy them anymore through the company who no longer is making them. I will be getting 2 of them tuned up. If you have one and need it repaired, I have just the guy for you! For you E-stim lovers, YES . . . I STILL have (and use) my E-stim2B, P.E.S., tens, and more).

Did I tell you about the other things too? I get so excited about NEW toys! I'll have to get some pictures of the BLACK BOX and the Supreme leather straps. Today I'm heading to pick out just the right locks for them because each one has a DOUBLE LOCK.

Strapped into the birthing chair? YES PLEASE!

Thank you for touching base with me during my birthday month! I've loved hearing from you AND one really nice and descriptive story of a dream...I LOVE THAT!

EXCERPT ONLY (from someone that wrote to me and shared their dream):

SHARINA'S NOTE: I left out the really explicit parts

"You walked in front of me as i was bent ober the edge and Ms placed her cock into my mouth, giving direction and telling me that i am about to get....

DO I LOVE INFILTRATING YOUR SLEEP AND DREAMS?
I IT!

Well, enjoy my funny memories today and have the best week!

M Sharina

05/10/2022 UPDATE
"Isn't That Just the Dog's Meow . . ."

I wasn't sure if I wanted to tell you this or not because it is so strange. But I cant help thinking about it.

I had this dream where I was in someone's yard with a fence that separated us. I looked to the left and there were 2 large poodles walking around straight up like humans. Their hind legs were a bright pink, like they had been dipped in pink dye. One of the poodles had this huge penis (as you know, I look at porn and pictures of stuff to collect) It was very long and very "dangly" and very thick between the legs. The dog turns into a woman who looks sexy but kind of house-wifey. So this poodle dog person starts to insert this long and heavy rubber penis in the other while it's bending over with its bright pink furry legs. All this time, I'm not staring, I'm seeing it out of the corner of my eye...

Hello and WTF? I kinda liked that dream.

My dreams are vivid and most of the time sexual. I think we dream things that are little pieces of what we think of and experience every day. I never saw a pink legged poodle, but there it was, a larger than large standard poodle. The whole thing was not shocking, it was more like every day life, I was just trying to get glimpses out of the corner of my eye.

Weather is getting nicer! I planted flowers and hung my wreath on the door with purple flowers. I also have timed lights just like Christmas. We need more JOY!


But Covid numbers are up. I'm only seeing those who are vaccinated right now for my safety and yours. I'm vaccinated 1-2 and booster 3.

Here is the news on my equipment excursions! I now have 3 Erostek boxes, which you cannot buy from Erostek anymore.

I have a fun new device called the "Tremblr" and truth be told it is much more powerful than the Venus. I now have my LOCKING LEATHER STRAPS! I just got them yesterday, so I have yet to break them in. They are SUPERRRRRBE!

Enjoy the Springtime that has finally arrived but don't forget to fill your mind with kinky things that show up in your dreams!

M Sharina

Your Titillating Tormentor

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05/03/2022 UPDATE
"Bondage Porn . . . "

So I was watching some videos on porn hub Sunday. There was a very nice hog tied lady, her legs spread, vibrator positioned, nose hook encouraging her head back and FORCED orgasms...(I turned up the volume) Squirting videos used to be my favorite, but just like fashion, seasons change. Watching her IMMERSED and totally in it, pressing up against her restraints and not only feeling uncomfortable but feeling forced pleasure.

A woman in bondage, nothing more vulnerable and powerful. I love watching her being forced to orgasm. Legs spread apart, a fucking machine penetrating her...so beautiful. There isn't anything she can do...she is helpless.

I think when a rigger concocts a dilemma especially for a sexy woman bucking up against her restraints feeling sensations of vulnerability, trust and intense pleasure, the rigger feels proud and satiated.

I'm not a rigger in the sense of the word, but when I put together a unique set of sensations using the tools I've chosen, I am the CONDUCTOR and conduit if EXPERIENCE.

YES MISTRESS!!!!!
So, I got some new TOYS! One is in a large BLACK BOX that plugs into a wall. I also have 2 new floggers, a BULLWHIP, a glass phallus to add to my brimming collection of GLASS. Another rosebud sounds kit with gold handles, some crops and canes, (acrylic) parachutes, one with thicker spikes, a pink latex pair of panties with an extra feature, some SPIKEY spin dials (Not wartenberg, I have quite the assortment of those) and a few other things I can't remember...I also have on order some LOCKING bondage belts arriving soon!

ALL FOR YOU

Sooooo, DO something VIVID every day. FEED YOUR SOUL and your sexy mind. Find the time and do it because you never do know what's around the corner in life.

Love,

M Sharina

Your Titillating Tormentor

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04/26/2022 UPDATE
"Ok, WHAT?"

I had something happen to me, It happened last week when I was doing some online shopping. I saw this huge assortment of dildos and one in particular struck me in an odd way. It was long, slender and had kind of a circle on top like a blind eye, but no eye, just like something you'd see in abject horror under a microscope. It turned me on. I could only think if it invading me and what that'd be like. THAT was the part that got me.

I wouldnt propose this particular item would do the same for you, only that I know you've perused the Internet and found something unexpected and it hit your pants just like it did mine, and whammo!

Maybe it was something that happened in a scene. I took the reins because I knew just a little adjustment and tweak of a session would be the right thing for you and take you into that special place...I'm always re-evaluating during a session. I'm like a mixologist, only with D/s, BDSM

I always like to touch base with you, and this week I'm a little late. But here I am after a full day of chill and ready to go today with "J" and since he LOVES it when I take pictures of him suffering, I'll be posting some soon (somewhere on kink friendly social media) He does take nipple torment/torture quite well!

Btw, I'm getting a new piece of equipment very soon! DHL will keep me posted on delivery. Any day now. Drop me a line and I'll tell you what it is. Also, my two rooms are coming along...finding time to finish the tweaks! New rooms you may be surprised turn you on

Make it a good week!

M Sharina

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04/20/2022 UPDATE
"Quick Minute TOUCH BASE"

I've had a very productive Spring and so far so good I'm so happy about that! Still making touches and slight improvements on the Medical Asylum and the Red Femme Room.

I was at the studio on Monday getting ready for my SRS (sex reassignment surgery) Roleplay session.

I wanted everything to be perfect, so I set out everything I'd need the night before. I'm glad I did. It was 3 hours of breast infusion, catheterization, suturing, full make over -mtf transformation.

My slave mike did my laundry while I was "puttering" and finds it interesting to observe my processees. A word about a slave who dedicates his life to serving me...the word is "RARE." He anticipates every need and desire...IRREPLACEABLE!

I have not had anyone take me up on my offer for a 30 minute spanking session, yet. I did have someone inquire about a 30 minute slapping session, with verbal abuse with me laughing at him. Stop at 30? Now let's not get carried away with 30 minute session ideas because there is ONLY ONE.

I'll be posting on Twitter to keep you swooning over my irresistible feminine wiles... (also updated on my website)

Be patient with responses. At times, I'm great with same day quick returns. Other times, sessions, emails, phone calls, studio, pictures, posting, Twitter and Instagram...well, you get the idea.

This week, I'm looking forward to seeing someone new to me. Interested in the Nova Pro sessions, I also got something special to go with it, so I may do some very DEEP IMMERSION techniques into floating while in bondage.

Keep me posted, and drop me a line!

Talk soon!
M Sharina

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04/18/2022 UPDATE
"Cigarettes Aren't Just for Smoking"

What IS it about true CBT masochists anyway? Lately I've been having a few conversations about cock head burning and the overall "un-niceties" of severe CBT. It is definitely medieval. I mean even if you cannot take it, you get turned on by the idea of it being done to you. You can't help it. You're made this way.

Am I a SADIST? Yes, but not in the true sense of the word. The Marquis de Sade didn't care about consent. I need permission. I only love seeing someone in pain when they have given me their blessing to do these things. I am a consensual sadist. Therefore for me, "Nurturing Sadist" is who I am.

Not everyone can take a severe ball busting until the tops of my feet are bruised. Take last Saturday for instance. "Sharpie" needed some intensity. A ball busting was in order. So like I do what I love to do, I ease him in with a light crushing of my firmly clasped hand, right around both balls. I can hear him struggling so I know where he's at physically. I mean I say this all the time, but it is truth "The mind is willing, but the body is weak." Can I exploit this? Yes. I begin to kick lightly, like a little flutter of the foot. I don't linger too long. I do this a succession of times and when he least expects it, I slam my barefoot right into him. He tries to double over, but his wrists are tied up with suspension cuffs. His knees meet, he's trying desperately to protect his jewels, but they are obviously MINE.

So, getting back to my question. What IS it about TRUE masochists anyway? From my experience most masochists enjoy concentrated pain from their favorite source. High heels, singletail whips, paddles, needles and sure, FIRE like a red hot burning cherry at the end of my cigarette.

One repercussion is scar tissue. Do they care? Not really. They indulge themselves in that intensity and Devil may care. The feeling is so good and such a release they will submit to it. Scarification is also a sign of strength and a badge of honor.

I like having conversations about it. Like when my needleheel sinks into Trampleguy's skin and he squeals like a pig. Those conversations I treasure

I hope you are enjoying your Easter weekend! I have really enjoyed this time to re-charge. I've been working hard on my RED FEMME ROOM. It's so pretty! I need a couple of touches yet. Already had my Femme girl Stephanie for an overnight extended. Testing. Testing 1-2-3

Weather looking better for deeper in the week. My trusty slave mike keeps me posted on weather and Covid numbers. I'm in the know

Drop me a line. Do you fantasize about a sadistic Mistress torturing you, but the fantasy stays in your mind or ARE you a MASOCHIST? Either way, I still love who you are . . .

Until next time!
M Sharina

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04/05/2022 UPDATE
"Accidental Tourist"

Coaxed, coerced, lead a stray...call it whatever you want. I love the kind of persuasion that feeds my creative side. I love leading you into the kind of girl I want to toy with.

So, this is how my Friday and Saturday went.

He arrived looking rather demur in male clothes. After all, he knew what I was going to do. By Friday evening "Steph" was transformed into a luscious and sexy Jessica Rabbit! I made up her face complete with thick batting eyelashes. I tried a few wigs until I reached the RED one with the sexy bangs. I blew up her tits with saline to a double De-licious. Snapped on a bright orange bra with rhinestones and matching panties with a peek-a-boo bow in the back. Then, I put her up in the big gurl heels and voilà! Jessica Rabbit!

So, I have this thing about multiple personalities. We all have them you know, and since I am astrologically a Gemini, I draw attention to the one's I create. Most of the men who see me want me to transform them into females. Some just want to explore their feminine side while others want to be taken advantage of. Dressing in women's clothes will make you feel whatever I want you to feel. Sexy, humiliated, voraciously twisted and transformed.

We all have an opposite sex side. Mine is male. I get a thrill when I stand next to a transformed male in heels, wrapping my left forearm TIGHTLY around her corseted waist, her left leg between mine and my right hand feeling her up. I can feel her vulnerability oozing right out of her.

Accident? No, I created her.

Saturday, we had "a girls night in." I invited "Candy" over for some FUN! I guess you could call it a revised "Secret Naughty Girls Club" where I am the Conductress of two pervy girls...

Almost fini with the Red Femme Room. I think I'll call it, "The Scarlet Letter." What do you think? I need a few more touches...and then more overnights to come. Unless of course I'm throwing you in the cage in The Panic Room. Then, you'll be my PRISONER and that's a whole different story altogether!

How are you? Ready for Spring? It snowed on Sunday, but I'm patient because no matter what, it's always the right temperature at Femme Fatale

'Till next time...
M Sharina

Sensual Femdom Mistress & Dominatrix in Minneapolis, Minnesota

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03/28/2022 UPDATE
"Suspecting Victim"

Drop me a line my faraway friends. Make my mind melt.

M Sharina

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03/21/2022 UPDATE
"Masking Fetish? No, not THAT!"

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I had no idea how many things you could hide under a mask. I mean I had an inkling because my duct tape dolly slaps (you guessed it) duct tape over his mouth before strapping a mask to his face and shopping for treats.

Think about it. If you were brave enough, you could wear red lipstick or even the crotch of your Mistress' worn panties OR a THIN SCENTED SOCK under that mask!

Yeah, we all have secrets. Wearing a remote control vibrating egg while walking around with friends at some outdoor event. Can you literally orgasm in public with no one knowing? You know the jets in the whirlpool at the health club are pretty strong. I suppose if you sat just right you could do it.

So, HAPPY MONDAY! The week is off to a brilliant start! After all, you're reading my sexy blog to get you going.

 

I'll be posting new pictures and touching base throughout the week on my Twitter, so if you need a booster, here it is!

Make it a great week!
"Yes Mistress"

M Sharina

Sensual Femdom Mistress & Dominatrix in Minneapolis, Minnesota

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03/14/2022 UPDATE
"Deviant Behavior Rocks My World . . . "

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As a Dominatrix, I diverge into lots of different fetishes DAILY. Funny, but sometimes it's through organizing my toys, which I ADORE 😍 ESPECIALLY when I get new toys for my pretty cases. I carefully move the pieces around and feel such BLISS 💋

With new toys, there's that feeling it is utterly virginal. I wait patiently to use it for the first time. I must pick the perfect person, like with those ball coffins with SPIKES! Anything with screws or weights, or ELECTRO-STIM I can't help but think about psi and torque. 👁👁 Oh, and I have a new humbler with the connectivity of built-in ELECTRO-STIM. I'd say I have a collection now of 6.

Like last week I had a kind of Dollification session. I have a love for objectification when it is coupled with sensory deprivation and hypnotic suggestions with guided imagery. I want to see how far I can put you under in total IMMERSION. I control Every. Little. Single. Thing. 😳

Then, there are your cherished letters. One said, "These are my weirdo fetishes Mistress." Well, a fetish is a lifelong feeling you get from an inanimate object. This was more a DEVIATION. Get it?

I have heard it all, but then there's that one fetish. I think, "Well that's not weird at all. (Let's tweak it)" So, I get an email expressing the desire for EMBARRASSMENT. It's a medical themed scene. Examinations with watching him use the toilet. "Ok," I think. "Shall we make it more interesting?" Once we are on the same page thru our letters, my patient arrives, I lead him into the Clinic Asylum. He is told to dress and put on this hospital gown. 🧥 I return. I add a nice concoction of warm water to "enemize" my patient. The water is warm and the introduction is quite relaxing. My pitcher is nearby and slowly I add the cold contents. (rather slow I'd say) IMMERSED and UNAWARE.

Progressively my patient goes from nurtured to an uncontrollable lack of control. I lead him into the bathroom and find it totally fascinating that he is shy to expel, but cannot help it. Therein lies MY tweak on embarrassment as Nurse Nicole controls the DB valve. 🚑

There are the little things of course. The pointing out, "Your legs are spread and tied open now." "Take off your clothes, but step up on that platform first.Turn around, bend at the waist and take off those pantyhose." I like watching people. They feel uncomfortable because I'm watching them and they can't imagine what mortifying thing I want them to do.

"Do it." As I recline in my chair, feet up. Still watching...then more instructions. I get up, I walk around them, my heels squarely hitting the floor.

So, every week I get to unpack the aborations of fantasies! What will it feel like between us? I you're novice, I'll put on your training wheels first because we're here to have consensual fun.🚲💋♥️😍

I'm checking my mailbox and doorstep today. I have two new items to add. 🎁YAY! NIPPLE STRETCHERS and an interesting little device to aide in more STRETCHING. Can't really give you a hint, only it's stainless steel, has screws and opens things up. It's like the other one I have only this one has a bud shape in the middle of it all.

💥💥ALERT!💥💥💥ALERT! 💥💥

Did you SPRING FORWARD? My slave alerts me on weather, Covid cases, and anything else that is pertinent. 📈 "Snow on Monday, 50's the rest of the week!"

I have so many irons in the fire 🔥and some projects left over from LAST SPRING! I will keep you UPDATED and POSTED as usual so you may be a part of MY world. 🌍

I know you're itching for a session, (plethora of emails and phone calls ☎️ hello) after all IT'S almost SPRING!!!! 🌻🌷🥀

Tty soon,
♥️
M Sharina 💋
Sensual Femdom Mistress & Dominatrix in Minneapolis, Minnesota

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