Driving HUMILIATION further with "E-stim"

BDSM Question to Mistress Sharina:
I'm curious about the use of an anal electrical probe for humiliation, stimulation, and possibly some level of pain. Please share experiences/thoughts.”

So, I am writing to you Mistress Sharina, for any information you’re willing to share will be appreciated.

Thank you.

Mistress Sharina's Answer:
I'll try and answer the question in a way that in my opinion, I'd incorporate the use of e-stim for humiliation.

Humiliation is an odd bird. The definition basically is: Humiliation is the deep feeling of shame, embarrassment, or loss of self-respect that happens when someone's dignity or status is hurt.

In a nutshell, and after negotiations are made and you're on the same page, can you move into humiliation play without mentioning what your plan is? People like to be surprised, so just knowing the basics help a lot.

So, with negotiations, you'd ask:
Are you open to electrical play?
What kind? (Anal, Tens pads, etc.)
What is your experience level with it?

Once you get the information, you may begin in many ways, but since you're asking me, this is how I'd proceed with E-stim being used in conjunction with humiliation.

The main thing in terms of setting the tone for the session would be ownership. If that is part of the play, you can use e-stim for control. It's not just e-stim, but loss of eyesight (or not) and talking to someone that creates a feeling of loss of power and eventually humiliation. After all, words are powerful. Whispering, "I can do whatever I want to you, in bondage or out. You're naked and mine." You can get into a persons head in so many ways, so that turning up the e-stim and watching them squirm can be sadistic and quite humiliating when you mix the two.

To have your person in front of the toilet, telling them if they cannot take your incremental raising of the e-stim, you're going to shove their face into the toilet. Keep track, start from zero. Write it down each time, start from zero, turn it up slow, speaking to them about how they are weak, vulnerable and powerless. When they can’t take it past the last number...shove.

You can do this with anything. Piss play...

Things like that. You can do face Slapping in between. Anything you deem appropriate. Just make sure to include it in the negotiation if you plan on a good slap.  You don't want to trigger someone. 

Maybe they can suck your cock intermittently or, they are to be nice, suck nice, lick properly and if they stop or bite down...oh my, such punishment. Turn up the E-stim! And, it's their own fault. These methods may also be used as training. Give your submissive/slave a treat like a, "I'm proud of my slave," and you've got yourself a dedicated, always wanting to please you, slave. But in the case of humiliation, I think it's OK to vary the two. 

I hope this helps! I know we all get creative and there are a million ways to play. 

M Sharina